Are guys generally ok if their partner has multiple sex partners?

[ouiy]

my girlfriend has like 4 other guys that fucks her on a regular basis . but i made it a point to her that although i'm totally fine with it , she has to let me fuck her whenever i want to.

[BiRd13]

Originally Posted by Deena

I need some genuine advice from you guys/ladies out there - especially if you have experienced a similar situation.

My bf is pretty much a prude when it comes to our sex life and it's gotten pretty mundane... so I'm thinking of 'exploring new possibilities' - you know, a just-for-sex thing.

My question is... are guys generally accepting to such an idea? Any advice on how I should approach this subject with him?

Thanks so much!!!

Aren't sure what you have in mind for 'exploring new possibilities'. I did have once similar with my ex gf.

During sexual time, our sexual activities are kind of normal. From foreplay to fuck to shoot... And all the time, I cummed on her stomach or perhaps towel =X Once, she told me to cum on her breast... Next time on her face... and the next time in her mouth... She started to 'open' up, or perhaps I 'open' up for such...

Later part in the rs, she gave me a kinky idea out of the way. To try a threesome out with another male. At first, I was kind of obliged to it, as don't want my gf to be screw by other guy. After some careful consideration, and thanks to sbf =) I finally agreed to the idea, and we arrange for a guy to join in the threesome with us for just one time.

Since then, I'm more opened to such activities. And during my birthday, she got me another female for a threesome too.

Conclusion, to try for new 'idea', perhaps should start in a easy way. Like anal, cim etc... From there, slowly 'explore' his mind into accepting new 'challenge'... Just a word of advise, do take pre-cautious for sure =)

[acidicavex]

Maybe you can much more specific on it. As in doing it with his knowleadge or doing it without his knowleadge than get caught??

Cautious once it is open there is no turning back from the darkside. It might end up more pleasurable or it might end up with backfire.

Maybe like bros suggest start it slow and explore his mind slowly to see what is his stage of acception.

Have fun and good luck

[Deena]

Thanks everyone for your words of wisdom! I have a lot of thinking (and planning) to do! If anyone has any more advice or experience to share, please do so!! Very much appreciated!!

[boxing]

Hey Deena,

I'm with my gf for 2 years already now. First year we were together in the same city, but the second year onwards it's a long distance. So we decided on having an open relationship, open in terms of sex as long as it's safe sex. We have thought of having threesomes as well, just that we have never tried approaching a guy or a girl to join us. And we do want to try swinging, but always never materialise cos of the distance and timing. She visits once a month and stays for 2 or 3 days at most over the weekend. Tried arranging a session with some users here in SBF, but timing is always not right.

Anyways, it all depends on the guy. Some guys are willing to accept it, some not. For me and my gf, we do know what we want. Our hearts and emotion are exclusively meant for each other, but in terms of sex, we're very adventurous. We even got into discussion about the future if we do get married, what our sex lives would be like. Hahaha.. We're fine with having fuck buddies as long as no emotion is involved.

Best of luck to you in trying to 'open up' your boyfriend