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I have been with my FB/GF for 7 years now
cant say its been easy but we have come to a understanding of sorts. We have our families, then we have our lives. Its not the intense sex driven relationship of the past But we still talk and message daily and share when we have our problems.
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I was in one for 25 years and yet one day she walked away without a word... But it's better to have loved and lost than never to have loved before! At least I have that 25 years of happy memories with someone else in an unhappy marriage!
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yeah I think what you say is true. someday we either walk away by dying or we just split. I am in the 7th, and every day I recognize it could just end that day.
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i m in my 2nd yr ..... its a marriage i never had .... everiday i also cherish the time tog becos it could end anytime .....
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TS, there is no secret to keep the relationship. But the relationship must be secret. Good Luck.
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and the 7th year affair ended today
just got tired of hiding, lying and feeling guilty tired of the abuse, and the unevenness of the treatment. funny thing is years ago couldn't walk away, somehow over the years I started to fade too. today is a new beginning. wouldn't want to have a affair again, heavy price to pay. almost left my family for someone like this. that would have been the worse price to pay.
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bro shadow warrior,
slowly but surely you will get over it. life is never perfect. Although she is gone, but do remember the memories, the laughter, romantics times you had with her. 7 years is 1/7 to 1/8 of your life. if she is happier to be without you, your blessing shall be with her. ai yi ge ren, zhen zheng yao de shi ta kuai le. when you chose this route 7 years ago, you would had knew that 1 day this will end. Stay postive and smile.
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sure there will be some withdrawal signs at first. but I think long term is for the best. funny thing about relationship is I started by cheating on my wife. And it ended up with the affair partner cheating on me. Ironies of life.
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I know I love him and I care about him a lot. I know he will understand me too if one day I will end it, it is never easy. But to risk my marriage, it must be worth it and I know he is worth all the risk. At first, I thought I am blind and stupid but I realized I am just really happy. Even with just talking to him. He is a guy bestfriend I never had. If one day this will end, yes, sex can end but I think I am capable of making him a friend for life. We both hope that the secret life will end and will enter the real life. Fantasy, maybe.... |
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What Ladyrain said is very true, it is a totally different level. We cannot suka suka meet, cannot suka suka sms/call each other. it is not easy maintain a relationship like this. Both parties have a family, have their own work to do. i really salute how you brothers and sisters can last it for 7-25years. 25years le... 1/2 of your adult life. Reading all these thought make me preparing myself too, today can be very happy with her. tomorrow can be finish instantly. Most important, both of us know our position very well.
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and sometimes we all become guilty and feel the need to end it.
this double life is tough... worth it, YES. will I look for another one if this doesn't work, a definite NO. |
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after 7 years. the guilt is not that much and a lot of things fade when its blown open, and everyone knows, it stings for a while but it goes away and the affair might continue its it tough to be sneaking around and hiding etc...yes. Worth it for me? After 7 years? No. Do it again? No Should have just settled for some paid quick fixes and taken up a hobby or kept a pet.
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When a Player meet a Player... this is how it started ba. Can be together, it is fate, break up one day, it is also fate. 若是缘再苦味也是甜,若无缘藏爱在心田
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