how to get wife excited with sex again

[Tucker]

Originally Posted by bllocllo

I intentionally slowed down the fuck and asked if she wants AA to fuck her. She shyly nods her head and I asked her to call it out.. Ahhhh Ahhh Emmmm Emmm AA harder harder.. you so super..

I guess you just found out why your wife is not excited to have sex with you.

[bllocllo]

Originally Posted by Tucker

I guess you just found out why your wife is not excited to have sex with you.

yesterday night, I tried the same trick.. no use.. probably need some other ideas for roleplay

[Hanny0915]

How about trying some 50 shades of grey on her? Maybe can unlock something within her

[SugerU]

Originally Posted by bllocllo

Looking for advice..
A brief background about my wife and I.. we are in our mid-30s and we've been married for a few years and already have kids. We enjoys sex and is quite open in bed, but we have not done anything too wild. Sometimes when we make love, we'd roleplay and imagine scenarios where she's fucked by ex, friends, colleagues or daily encounters, and those fantasies spiced up our sessions. The thought of other men having a go at her made both of us extra high when we fucked although at the end she would thinks it is weird.. we also bought a few sex toys to spice up..

so in the recent few weeks we went by without having sex due to catching covid, kids getting sick, busy getting ready for the kids and time flies by.. we did try to initiate a few times but it was feeling really weird and we just went on to sleep after that.. any advice how to get us started again or options that we can try or get wild?

why do you feel weird? Is it possible that what has changed is your feelings because it has an impact on sex life? Maybe it's better to try doing activities that bring you closer emotionally first. with romantic things or something that make love is grow

[1231231233]

Originally Posted by bllocllo

Looking for advice..
A brief background about my wife and I.. we are in our mid-30s and we've been married for a few years and already have kids. We enjoys sex and is quite open in bed, but we have not done anything too wild. Sometimes when we make love, we'd roleplay and imagine scenarios where she's fucked by ex, friends, colleagues or daily encounters, and those fantasies spiced up our sessions. The thought of other men having a go at her made both of us extra high when we fucked although at the end she would thinks it is weird.. we also bought a few sex toys to spice up..

so in the recent few weeks we went by without having sex due to catching covid, kids getting sick, busy getting ready for the kids and time flies by.. we did try to initiate a few times but it was feeling really weird and we just went on to sleep after that.. any advice how to get us started again or options that we can try or get wild?

Perhaps you can try to see her as sexy, like you just know her for new, like a new person… your interest, lust, youthful lust, will get her and trigger her to wonder why also

It’s about curiosity, mystery… excitement…

But bro, you have to convince yourself first also, like really get into the role play.

Your wife will play off your character and wonder on her own.. and start to feel something again

[Peacekeeping]

Get in shape yourself. There is no better way.

[godlikealamak]

A new atmosphere and vacation together without kids can increase closeness and make the desire for sex appear again with the emergence of feelings of love

[klazeng]

recommend u try watching porn videos with her and re-enact the scene

[nonmember]

Originally Posted by 1231231233

Perhaps you can try to see her as sexy, like you just know her for new, like a new person… your interest, lust, youthful lust, will get her and trigger her to wonder why also

It’s about curiosity, mystery… excitement…

But bro, you have to convince yourself first also, like really get into the role play.

Your wife will play off your character and wonder on her own.. and start to feel something again

it all has to be dug up again. giving rise to the seeds of love and desire again, like falling in love. and requires the cooperation of both

[1231231233]

Originally Posted by nonmember

it all has to be dug up again. giving rise to the seeds of love and desire again, like falling in love. and requires the cooperation of both

Yes agreed. Making her wonder is perhaps a very good first step.

Usually a response is wearing something new on her part. We gotta take notice.

[superkk]

Originally Posted by bllocllo

Looking for advice..
A brief background about my wife and I.. we are in our mid-30s and we've been married for a few years and already have kids. We enjoys sex and is quite open in bed, but we have not done anything too wild. Sometimes when we make love, we'd roleplay and imagine scenarios where she's fucked by ex, friends, colleagues or daily encounters, and those fantasies spiced up our sessions. The thought of other men having a go at her made both of us extra high when we fucked although at the end she would thinks it is weird.. we also bought a few sex toys to spice up..

so in the recent few weeks we went by without having sex due to catching covid, kids getting sick, busy getting ready for the kids and time flies by.. we did try to initiate a few times but it was feeling really weird and we just went on to sleep after that.. any advice how to get us started again or options that we can try or get wild?

i don't have kids but i can share my observation from other couples.

when the kids are old enough to fend for themselves, start dumping them at your relatives or parents and go on long weekend staycations.

all couples need their own ''they time'' to be alone and away from their kids.

and also it is healthier for your sex life is you reinforce the culture of the master bedroom is out of bound of the kids when the door is closed. that is so you and wife can be naked and have sexy time, even if its just necking or petting.

hug your wife during bedtime, caress her body. don't need to have sex, just make her feel loved in bed.

also, eat clean and start working out. a virile healthy husband who respects himself is always desirable to the wife and she will start to glow as well.

[nonmember]

Originally Posted by 1231231233

Yes agreed. Making her wonder is perhaps a very good first step.

Usually a response is wearing something new on her part. We gotta take notice.

Sometimes we as men are no sensitive. but women also sometimes just give code that is not easy to understand right?

[otamay]

Originally Posted by bllocllo

yesterday night, I tried the same trick.. no use.. probably need some other ideas for roleplay

After 4 months, any improvement?

[ghostcow]

Make her worry about u having 小三 and she will give sex to keep u

[dicky69]

Originally Posted by ghostcow

Make her worry about u having 小三 and she will give sex to keep u

Yeahhh . and do it right on her gspot