Low & Mid Income Sillypore Bros, SG or Foreign Gf/Wife? - Page 3

HCKing · #31 23-12-2012, 09:34 PM

TS there r still gd local girls out there lah, but the problem is, are u gd enough to be a gd boyfriend boh?

earn alot of $$$ so wat? if ur personality sucks the same even if u r a millionaire the girl will only see u as a carrot head, nothing more than that.

mackewell · #32 23-12-2012, 10:03 PM

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Originally Posted by HCKing

TS there r still gd local girls out there lah, but the problem is, are u gd enough to be a gd boyfriend boh?

earn alot of $$$ so wat? if ur personality sucks the same even if u r a millionaire the girl will only see u as a carrot head, nothing more than that.

Bros, haizzz i already say liao the feelin of keep saying sg girls no good is not nice. You all want PR or real opinions frm me?? Enuff said, i going to stress that there are nice sg girls, but SIMPLE ones who dont think so much of the Cs are only handful or in extinct mode liao. I am toking abt low income bros who earn less than 2k, who can only support ourselves( we only work, no need go out relax sometimes?), we can hardly able to go out wif normal sg girls( their mentality is like tt thanks to gov , not their fault lol..)

Enuff lah, u want me give pr opinions? I dun do tt man unless working lah then bopian, i will just stay silent and read wad u all post lah and do my self reflection and evaluation lol....

wayne23416 · #33 24-12-2012, 05:48 PM

To my Dearest Mackewell Bro,

I'm in the same problem was u...I dont make enough..I'm not born good looking..I'm blind in one eye btw...I'm not tall and I do not have flawless skin like anyone else...I have a problem called Eczema..and yes I do make less than 2k a month after CPF...

But...

I've dated ladies who r hot...hot to the point where she is taller than me by 1 head (not dickhead) and curvier than the average singaporean girl...she stays in a really upmarket area that all of us dream of staying...and when we go out, guys stare at her and at me and watch in amazement...u know when u see a hot girl with an ugly guy? yea...that feeling...

what i'm trying to say is..its not always about the 5C's...u just have to make the lady feel special...I mean...come on, u dont wanna b the guy who wallows in self pity half the time and think y no one wants u rite? I was there before...in fact, I went speed dating a couple nights ago! No one liked me...probably cuz half the ladies there had a stick up their asses..

Well, i did see that u're tall and fat...y dont u hit the gym? Ladies love tall guys..and ladies love tall guys who r fit but shy...Charisma can b trained...trust me...I bagged an SIA girl who was 175cm tall when I'm only 165cm...and she was 25 when I was 19/20...i forgot...but I remember she was hella hot too... =-)

mackewell · #34 24-12-2012, 08:14 PM

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Originally Posted by wayne23416

To my Dearest Mackewell Bro,

I'm in the same problem was u...I dont make enough..I'm not born good looking..I'm blind in one eye btw...I'm not tall and I do not have flawless skin like anyone else...I have a problem called Eczema..and yes I do make less than 2k a month after CPF...

But...

I've dated ladies who r hot...hot to the point where she is taller than me by 1 head (not dickhead) and curvier than the average singaporean girl...she stays in a really upmarket area that all of us dream of staying...and when we go out, guys stare at her and at me and watch in amazement...u know when u see a hot girl with an ugly guy? yea...that feeling...

what i'm trying to say is..its not always about the 5C's...u just have to make the lady feel special...I mean...come on, u dont wanna b the guy who wallows in self pity half the time and think y no one wants u rite? I was there before...in fact, I went speed dating a couple nights ago! No one liked me...probably cuz half the ladies there had a stick up their asses..

Well, i did see that u're tall and fat...y dont u hit the gym? Ladies love tall guys..and ladies love tall guys who r fit but shy...Charisma can b trained...trust me...I bagged an SIA girl who was 175cm tall when I'm only 165cm...and she was 25 when I was 19/20...i forgot...b
ut I remember she was hella hot too... =-)

Bro wayne,

Thanks to guys like you, i am feeling more confident in bgr. You know wad, i am not gonna give a damn to what those stucked up pretty girls think. There are so many trees in the forest, i gonna show these bitches that i can land a equally hot chick like them but has substance and is not so materialistic.

However to make tt happen, i think its gonna take a few years down the road. I am locating a new gym to work out wif my other bro, shed a good 20 plus kilos, enhance my self grooming. Definitely, building my career is more important than women. i could care less even if i am single 5 yrs later. sometimes you just cant rush it. I am tall , its an advantage, i just need to have the freaking balls and confidence to make things happen.

I just gonna be neutral towards most girls from now, put up a pr face. Expand my options and see how. I probably will condemn the stucked up ones via one or two meetings. But why worry? They say as men get the older, we get more charismastic and physically attractive, so game on!!! Time to stop talking and pull my socks up and make de girls want to know me instead of me knowning them lol....

Azmodan · #35 25-12-2012, 04:15 PM

all the best man, i can see it frm ur pov, but i believe that your prob does not only happen to low and middle income sporeans. it happens to everybody who have been screwing around too long and has commitment issues. When you stop seeing women as commodity and as human beings, i believe u will find what u r looking for. cheers

indianmagicoil · #36 26-12-2012, 03:07 AM

Mail order brides! Waaa... the 18 y/0 in the video chio man...

mackewell · #37 26-12-2012, 08:13 AM

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Originally Posted by indianmagicoil

Mail order brides! Waaa... the 18 y/0 in the video chio man...

Thanks bro! nice vid but outdate liao , watch so many times liao.... Can someone post something on SG girls? lol...

SammyNewbie · #38 26-12-2012, 09:09 PM

Have some angry music and my thoughts on the matter ^.^

mclovin_boy · #39 27-12-2012, 12:57 PM

My point of view as a high income person is that simple. Local gals are damn wild in sex n one of the most shiok compared to foreigners but they are also very very very materialistic. Sometimes I wonder why they stick with me, n it's obvious not for my good looks or heart but because my $$$ can sustain their shopping desire. I shared before that my wife spends about $8K every month on shopping alone n don't forget the kids too. I spend at least $15K per month in family expenses (including her shopping). With this kind of money, I can have fun thrice a day non stop till I die.

centvin · #40 27-12-2012, 03:15 PM

being a local n having a foreign wife, i would summarise the pros n cons:
local wife- intellecture but not as virtue
foreign wife- virtue but lacks intellecture

the world is always not perfect, it would depends which qualities attracts u most..

banana81sg · #41 27-12-2012, 04:41 PM

consider getting a china bride? ( looks like china area)

mackewell · #42 27-12-2012, 08:11 PM

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Originally Posted by banana81sg

consider getting a china bride? ( looks like china area)

NO offence bros, chinese girls(be it sg or wad) are out of my league due to chinese' ppl materialistic nature and face issues....

mackewell · #43 28-12-2012, 09:13 AM

This vid is abit exaggerating lah, but to a small extent, it could occur in real life when you have sg gf.

In chinese saying, this kind of bitchy girls are known as 'Female Tiger'

However if i happen to be a sissy and loser bf, my sg gf sure makan me lah lol....

picco · #44 28-12-2012, 04:14 PM

I belong to the mid-high income range. What you said does not shrike a chord because simply in order to love a girl, you need to understand them.

If we can come out a long list of exhaustive reasons of whys, then we really still don't get it.

I have part of 5Cs. (Car, Career, Credit Card, Condo-- Cash i am not sure how much you all deem enough) I have never lamented on any time when my gfs leave me because I understood 1 thing.

Girls these days are different from the past as compared to our mothers.

Girls now are getting more and more highly educated. You put yourself in a girl's shoes. You studied till university. You get a starting pay of 2000+ and you work up the ladder getting a senior exec position or managerial post. You start earning 3+ to 4000+ or even more.

Your boyfriend has a starting pay in the same manner as you. But gets less opportunities because he lacks socialising, networking. In short to say, less promotional chances and not being able to scale up the ladder as quick.

The Guy will realise he is not keeping pace with the girl he likes. As the girl what will you think of this guy?

Everyone only lives life once. They would want to have the best that they can find. No longer are we looking at kampong girls or lower educated girls but highly educated ones. You go anywhere, its the same not only SG girls.

The world is revolving everyday and things change. We cannot expect the world to change for us.

When girls are choosing us, in fact, I am also choosing them. If my girl wants to choose someone who is eligible, has money, has career, I on the other hand have my criterias to choose as well. So it isn't about them being choosy, because I would want to choose as well.

picco · #45 28-12-2012, 04:17 PM

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Originally Posted by centvin

being a local n having a foreign wife, i would summarise the pros n cons:
local wife- intellecture but not as virtue
foreign wife- virtue but lacks intellecture

the world is always not perfect, it would depends which qualities attracts u most..

Intellect girl lacks virtue because she would be out there in the corporate world working in order to maintain her intellectual quotient. Once she stays home and that's it.

That is why I will never want my future partner to be a housewife or be unemployed. It makes them "degenerate" no matter how intellect they are.