Need a help(Serious Issue)

[i1papaya]

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

Should be "So my ADVICE....".

"Advise" is a verb.

Bro Sammyboy,

I have been seeing you so busy to give your "ADVICE" to almost every thread hor.

Good Teacher. Double thumbs up

[cheongsan]

Since you have the courage to post here for sincere advice, I shall be more blunt but I am definitely sincere with my comments.

Of course you can still go and try losing weight but at the end of the day, there is a limit as to how much you can improve on your physique and your face without surgical means.

People here are mostly right in saying that you should study hard and make yourself here qualified enough to probably earn a fat pay check.

If you are looking for a life-long partner in Singapore but don't have the bare minimum in terms of look, then it is going to be very difficult because Singaporean girls and women are generally not financially deprived so they can afford to be more choosy. I don't blame them. Of course you do see some fat boys and men walking around with SYTs but there is always something tangible to gain from this type of "relationship".

Girls and women from the Third World countries are generally more financially deprived so money is the foremost consideration when they choose between a better looking guy and a very fat husband. Therefore you have a much better chance there because as long as you tell them that you are a Singaporean, any fat, old and ugly Singaporean men will suddenly turn into a muscular, young and handsome hunk. But mine you, these women from the Third World Countries would have mostly given their most remembered love and precious virginity to their boyfriends already. This is why they are willing to marry you for stability.

This is the reality that not many men are willing to accept. But if you can accept such reality, then don't lose hope over you look. Work harder in other compensating areas.

[tigerprawn]

When I first started reading your post and before I click on your pic, I was thinking do you look like the elephant man or something.

Obviously not, you are just average joe like all the average joes walking the planet now. Your problem is not your looks but your mentality. You got it all wrong. You want to have the looks of some teenage boy band idol thinking that girls will go crazy over you by one look? You are so missing the point.

All senior bros here have pointed this out to you already. First and foremost, stop feeling sorry for yourself. There is no greater turn off for girls than inferiority complex in a man. If you dont even like yourself, how do you expect anyone else to like you?

Since all bros here have already said so much I wont repeat. Probably just want to add : that is not to say looks is not important. Looks is important to the extent that you have to have basic proper grooming and hygiene. Improving dress sense etc all helps. It is all part of how you carry yourself and part of the overall image you portray and message you send out to girls re WHO YOU ARE. So dont ever be sloppy and dirty. Sure different people have different styles but the key is EFFORT. It shows when you put in effort and take care of your overall grooming. No need to carry to extremes of course.

[Chinapuss]

Every individual was created to be beautiful in God's eyes...if you are lacking in the outer beauty, than try bringing out the inner beauty in you...important thing is to be yourself and be honest about it...dont imitate or envy others...

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by Chinapuss

Every individual was created to be beautiful in God's eyes...

I've never heard such bullshit in all my life.

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by Manow

I give you 3 very simple advice young man.

"Advice" is a non countable noun. You cannot say "3 very simple advice". The correct term is "...3 very simple PIECES of advice".

[no_faith]

looks? money is more important than looks lah.
u stick stacks of thousand notes all over u, u see got any gals bo?

put it this way, michelle reis chio rite? she married to a rich farker but his looks CMI.

lin zhiling swee rite? she got rumours of getting married wif a rich farker selling toilet bowls yet the farker looks also CMI.

wat does this tell u?

[steamsteam]

bro have u ever ask ur parents wheather u look good or not?
and why borther how other gals will look at u
do not break the hearts of those who loves u rather than those who do not,wats is the use? so wat if the gals or WL finds that u look good,the attention should be given back to those who loves us

[The_Rules]

and heres a pic of mine (not sure if the link is dead or what,but i didnt take it off by myself:


http://img61.imageshack.us/img61/6590/image134yv0.jpg
and here are my few questions:
i)is there a ways that can makes me look better without plastic surgery ???(by growing a goatie,change a hairstyle)

ii)does my look really horrible ??

iii)by any chance i can get a decent looking gf on my life (u maybe say that im selfish,but thats a men's wish) ??

And pls,bros,just tell me the real answers straightly,i can face the truth,and it will be strongly remembered and appreciated,I've been struggling from this problem for almost 5 years,and im trying hard to get myself out of this hella problem.

[The_Rules]

Originally Posted by Norikasan55

why your pic always can't view? or removed by imageshack?

very scary?

Why don't you put your photo as your own avatar?

Mine is a pretty girl you can see right?

i think this sammyboy bans the image link.

[The_Rules]

or heres my friendster
Friendster - Show Stopper

[slyer]

TS after looking at ur friendster pic i find you are average looking like many of us... don't worry so much abt your looks.... looks won't last long... everyone will age.... career and money more impt than looks... every gal wants a successful husband... in sg success = money

[Fuckster]

TS, trust me, at your age, all that's in your mind are gals and chicks or in technical terms, CB Its normal that you will feel sad when those CB treats you like dirt because of your looks.

However, when you reach the age above 30 like me, CB is no longer in your top piority. You will then know the power of money and spend most of your time cracking your head to earn more money because :

"Got Money Got CB, NO Money No CB"

Maybe you shoukd also take a look at my thread :
http://thesbf.shop/adult-d...ml#post2606669

Read through this and see if you still want to have a sg gal as your gf


Whatever it is, no point spending so much of your time looking down on yourself and knocking your head against the wall every now and then trying to find a way of how to get a gf.

Spend more time thinking of how to get a degree for yourself, hold a highly paid job after that, buy a sporty car and provide your parents with luxury life that they dserved to have.

By then, hundreds of CBs will be floating towards you for sure.

All the above are just my humble opinion, no hard feelings.

[SammyHulk]

bro, sum of e bros here offered valid insights. FOCUS on ur strength rather than ur lack cos either it will manifest upon u in ur reality.

Look @ ur own posts again n apparently u r focusing on ur lack tat makes u unhappy. u r typing out wat u don wan. Y not by replying back positively 2 bros who show concern n start typing out wat will make u feel better or even good?

Words r tools 4 e brain.

[slyer]

Originally Posted by Fuckster

By then, hundreds of CBs will be floating towards you for sure.

i'm waiting for this day to come til neck long long when one start to work he will realise the importance of money in this society...