How to know if she truly loves you or just wants your money

[Rubbaking]

Originally Posted by Chillbill

We live in a hedonistic world; don't expect love or romance without money. Let's be practical here. We are not talking about school days as teenagers Back then, I could still take my gf for a stroll at East Coast Park after school, happy to enjoy the sunset together.

Spot on. Even normal girls nowadays look at status, salary, and background. Let alone these wls.

[Chrisk456]

Originally Posted by musangk1ng

Yes, like something that already becomes a habit bro. and the more we try something new, the more we want it. Becomr addicted . Even maybe we want to stop ,but they like give attractive offer so we come back
But im sure ,we will have era to stop

Agree with you. At some point in time these activity will go down the sinkhole until it calls us back again. Before, I was going GL/catching FLs/clubbing almost everyday. I spent 2k on average at GL alone not until I met someone and suddenly I woke up with my priorities have changed. Not excited about the thought of GL or anything about FLs anymore. I just want to settle with the woman I love right now. I hope Ive buried the hatchet forever.

[Darge]

Originally Posted by Chrisk456

Agree with you. At some point in time these activity will go down the sinkhole until it calls us back again. Before, I was going GL/catching FLs/clubbing almost everyday. I spent 2k on average at GL alone not until I met someone and suddenly I woke up with my priorities have changed. Not excited about the thought of GL or anything about FLs anymore. I just want to settle with the woman I love right now. I hope Ive buried the hatchet forever.

Wish you best of luck with your woman 🌈

[Chrisk456]

Originally Posted by Darge

Wish you best of luck with your woman 🌈

Thanks man. I hope we bury this thread for good because if she truly loves you whether she is a lady from GL/FL/ML/normal lady frm your workplace, you will know. Trust me you will know and you will feel it. As I have known myself from my girl.

My personal advise is dont get drowned so much on thoughts about a woman whether she loves you or not. Because you will not know not until she lets you know and makes you feel her love and not because you paid her $60/$100/$200 per 30/40/60 minutes of her time.

Especially if the lady is from GL, its hard to know. As I have mentioned in my previous posts, no one will know that she might be saying the same thing to other guys inside the room or going out with other guys on her offdays. Its mentally exhausting. But trust me, if she loves you, you will know. And if not just move on. GL is not a place for love. Work on yourself first before rushing to have someone as your partner. It will come at the right time and with the right person.

[Rubbaking]

Originally Posted by Chrisk456

Thanks man. I hope we bury this thread for good because if she truly loves you whether she is a lady from GL/FL/ML/normal lady frm your workplace, you will know. Trust me you will know and you will feel it. As I have known myself from my girl.

My personal advise is dont get drowned so much on thoughts about a woman whether she loves you or not. Because you will not know not until she lets you know and makes you feel her love and not because you paid her $60/$100/$200 per 30/40/60 minutes of her time.

Especially if the lady is from GL, its hard to know. As I have mentioned in my previous posts, no one will know that she might be saying the same thing to other guys inside the room or going out with other guys on her offdays. Its mentally exhausting. But trust me, if she loves you, you will know. And if not just move on. GL is not a place for love. Work on yourself first before rushing to have someone as your partner. It will come at the right time and with the right person.

Truly agreed and good on you. You truly met that someone who can influence you to give up gl and fl and ml. I know it is not easy and wishing you all the best and blessings for a long time with your love.

[bradpitt968]

Originally Posted by bradpitt968

One surest way that you can know that this WL is really into you is when she tells you about everybody in her family, show you pictures, even let you say hi to the family members during video calls.

To round this all up, is when they brings you back to their home in Thailand to meet the whole family.

When you go out with them and other WLs from the same house, they will not expect you to treat everything or buy everything. When makan, they will go AA or "dutch". When buying stuff, they will pay for it themselves.

If the WL that you know does all the above, you can be pretty sure that she is serious about you.

The question is whether are you ready for it?

[Lawrencegan]

Originally Posted by bradpitt968

If the WL that you know does all the above, you can be pretty sure that she is serious about you.

The question is whether are you ready for it?

Yeah all done before- the point is when you are not around or near them, what do you think? Do you think they are sneaking out to find another man? Can you trust that they are not selling their pussy for more money?

[Darge]

We MAN love challenges, thinking we can be hero saving WL… 😂

[Chrisk456]

Originally Posted by bradpitt968

If the WL that you know does all the above, you can be pretty sure that she is serious about you.

The question is whether are you ready for it?

Agreed on this.

Singapore: Level 1
Long distance relationship: Level 2
Married with WL: Level 3

Folks, one must understand that this is a long game and in every level the difficulty notch goes up. Better to play blackjacks in casino with me you'll have a better chance of winning.

[Rubbaking]

Originally Posted by Lawrencegan

Yeah all done before- the point is when you are not around or near them, what do you think? Do you think they are sneaking out to find another man? Can you trust that they are not selling their pussy for more money?

Safest way is either have a cctv back at her home wherever there is or keep her by your side daily. The dutch and all rules I have encountered before as well but when she is low on cash, there is a tendency all will be back to square one. So unless one is ready to support her adequately for life, or enable her to have a decent business (but even business fails). These girls put survival above relationship, period. And to be fair, you cannot blame them as they do not have any back up.

[Chrisk456]

Originally Posted by Rubbaking

Safest way is either have a cctv back at her home wherever there is or keep her by your side daily. The dutch and all rules I have encountered before as well but when she is low on cash, there is a tendency all will be back to square one. So unless one is ready to support her adequately for life, or enable her to have a decent business (but even business fails). These girls put survival above relationship, period. And to be fair, you cannot blame them as they do not have any back up.

Its a rollercoaster ride of emotions. Hundreds of quarrels due to mistrust. Endless cycles of thoughts whenever she goes out alone without you or not sending prompt replies via message. Its mentally exhausting. I can only imagine. Just stop. Unless someone can watch her almost 24/7 then go ahead (which is impossible) otherwise just give up and find another woman. Not from the nightlife. They deserve love also but as a man, we also deserve peace in our romance life.

[abcchinese8inch]

Originally Posted by bradpitt968

One surest way that you can know that this WL is really into you is when she tells you about everybody in her family, show you pictures, even let you say hi to the family members during video calls.

To round this all up, is when they brings you back to their home in Thailand to meet the whole family.

When you go out with them and other WLs from the same house, they will not expect you to treat everything or buy everything. When makan, they will go AA or "dutch". When buying stuff, they will pay for it themselves.

I'm in this relationship for 6 month. Return thailand with her, met her family, had meal etc.

Even when going out, certain day she paid for the bill.

But guess LDR really doesn't work for ex-WL. When they spend finish their saving, they more or less going back to the same trade. That what happening to me now. Guess I should really just face the reality and move on.

[Chrisk456]

Originally Posted by abcchinese8inch

I'm in this relationship for 6 month. Return thailand with her, met her family, had meal etc.

Even when going out, certain day she paid for the bill.

But guess LDR really doesn't work for ex-WL. When they spend finish their saving, they more or less going back to the same trade. That what happening to me now. Guess I should really just face the reality and move on.

Do you understand the only way she made money is through the flesh trade ofc shes going back into it when everything is gone alr especially if you let her pay the bill on your dates. Lol. They didn't finish any education and can't find any job that would sustain her living expenses. Not even rent.

[abcchinese8inch]

Originally Posted by Chrisk456

Do you understand the only way she made money is through the flesh trade ofc shes going back into it when everything is gone alr especially if you let her pay the bill on your dates. Lol. They didn't finish any education and can't find any job that would sustain her living expenses. Not even rent.

FYI I'm been giving her monthly allowance. Sufficient for basic needs plus condo rental. Initially promised to work normal office job as she was a uni graduate. Now after awhile whining about the low pay and tiring to work in bangkok office.

Guess she used to the high maintenance standard of living and spurging money.

[Chrisk456]

Originally Posted by abcchinese8inch

FYI I'm been giving her monthly allowance. Sufficient for basic needs plus condo rental. Initially promised to work normal office job as she was a uni graduate. Now after awhile whining about the low pay and tiring to work in bangkok office.

Guess she used to the high maintenance standard of living and spurging money.

Then there must be something were missing here. Perhaps she's doing this trade for a long time and change is irreversible. She tried to change but the push wasn't enough (money and your time with her) at some point she felt lonely. Condo rent + basic needs is atleast $800-1000 in BKK, even cheaper in other locations and plus her salary perhaps she needed more for her family?? Or maybe she just like doing the flesh trade and shes missing it?? What did she say?? Its definitely more tiring getting fckd for 12 hours rather than working in the office (with freedom to go out after work).