the 3 that changed me

[kittymae]

Originally Posted by efftee

Mmmm... I guess it's always expectation that kills everything.

I had a similar story starting.. Met someone from here, progressed along and before you know it, things happened *smile* The difference is probably that while it was a one off thing, I still meet her once in a while, but hasn't hit the sack since that once.

I guess sometimes you can't control what life gives you, and if it gives you something good, just enjoy it while it lasts. Enjoy it while waiting for something more lasting to swing by.

I don't think I've said it earlier in this thread, but I appreciate the ladies sharing their point of view of their experiences, and that means you *wink*

The difference being, u were willing to take that step to be- friends.
What happens if that's not the case?
If both are genuine abt it, even if it takes time, i sure either party is willing to give it.
I was the foolish one here. That's all.

[kittymae]

Thank u all for tuning in the my stories. There won't be any further continuations.

[kittymae]

Originally Posted by Sen5eS

sorry will keep camping for the rest of the story to unfold then

No worries... :but u just marred the controversy that u are T tho...hmm..
And if u happen to guess or find out, shhhh.

Originally Posted by Sen5eS

The phrase "RAW is WAR" applies hmmm ... well ... you have 9 lives to spare ... clean or not is 1 thing ... you don't want 2 end up with a bun in the oven

If that happens, I'll keep e bun for myself. T doesn't have to share it with me. He should bake one in a oven or his own choosing eventually...

Funnily, I still do care about T despite everything that has happened. I still do now even tho i've been hurt, and I guess I always will care for him.

[queeniegal]

你爱上不该爱的人。。。性爱不可以取代原本的游戏的规则。。，一旦另一方感情用事。。，另一方就会抽身。。 。
要记得。。，男人一旦决定游戏规则，。。如果你原本已知道。。 不要再陷入下去因为他很难走入你的世界。。假如他也很伤（原本）那更难。。 要关心一个人不可太单刀直路、要帮他走出来不开心的事也要他肯愿意接受，愿意走出他的世界 。如果他不肯受伤的人会是你。。你也许会认为你很傻其实他也不好过（如果他也对你感动过）。
嗨！只能说再错的时间遇到对的人。。
女人和男人的不同是男人一定要有性可以不要爱。女人往往把性和爱连接再一起。认为有了性就会有爱。好多女人 也因此而伤的很深。
kitty 希望你能遇见对的人。 再伤也要承受。人会有自我治愈加油！
T 希望你能走出你的世界，没有人可能帮助你只有你自己要不要接受、改变，如果不要那也许也不要再伤害令一为女 人。

[Rickey]

Originally Posted by kittymae

Thank u all for tuning in the my stories. There won't be any further continuations.

Thx u too for ur exciting stories, esp the last instalment, kitty ...sad to hear its the last ...do come back n tell us more if u hv...meantime, take care n all the best to u for the future

[acidicavex]

Wow Mr T with big tool hmmm that is that ? Duhz well do update if happen there is Mr S or Mr D or Mr alphabet......

Roll roll roll your boat roll into the sea merries merries merries.......

[onlyhuman]

Thanks for ur story...after reading, my thoughts were u really to set urself free...never be afraid of getting emotionally hurt...cos isn't lwhat life is all abt?
And yes, Ian is right...smile and the world is with you ... So smile always

Onlyhuman

[Sen5eS]

kekeke If I were him (i.e. Mr T), there isn't any need to be here asking "guess I wunder who T is" right ? kekeke

BUT if it were up to me, I'd get those barriers ingredients in place before we start baking anything in the oven.

Enjoying "heck-it-let's-RAW-&-I-can-always-withdraw-the-troops-in-time-OR-I-hold-it-in-anymore-Boomz-let's-make-crème de la pie" was amazing but it was NOT a good consequential experience to be in limbo land after going thru 2 mths + of missed appointments with a particular 大姨妈 and getting relieved/frustrated (1 after the other) for the weekly pee-ing on the stick lottery draw ...

Keeping the bun on your own in this day and age isn't a biggie. But for the well-being of your mental/physical health and having to explain to your child how they got here in the 1st place would be a challenge. You can live with it, but can the "non-existant-father" or child be able to? I hope the idea's just a joke

Thanks for sharing though

Anyway my above comments are from my own experiences and my apologies if its in any way offensive or distasteful. Sorry for being so long-winded.

Let's agree to disagree

[acidicavex]

Originally Posted by Sen5eS

kekeke If I were him (i.e. Mr T), there isn't any need to be here asking "guess I wunder who T is" right ? kekeke

BUT if it were up to me, I'd get those barriers ingredients in place before we start baking anything in the oven.

Enjoying "heck-it-let's-RAW-&-I-can-always-withdraw-the-troops-in-time-OR-I-hold-it-in-anymore-Boomz-let's-make-crème de la pie" was amazing but it was NOT a good consequential experience to be in limbo land after going thru 2 mths + of missed appointments with a particular 大姨妈 and getting relieved/frustrated (1 after the other) for the weekly pee-ing on the stick lottery draw ...

Keeping the bun on your own in this day and age isn't a biggie. But for the well-being of your mental/physical health and having to explain to your child how they got here in the 1st place would be a challenge. You can live with it, but can the "non-existant-father" or child be able to? I hope the idea's just a joke

Thanks for sharing though

Anyway my above comments are from my own experiences and my apologies if its in any way offensive or distasteful. Sorry for being so long-winded.

Let's agree to disagree

Agree although not comment not directed at me. But the stree and mental torture shit hell I ain't going to be there again once is enough the decision was the most FUCKing cruel thing I have done all this life but.......

Do what u like enjoy what u want but regardless always always have protection even it means killing the mood I rather get a cold shower even being call lame by the gal or losing the only chance with her in the heat of a moment. Will I do it RAW with anyone Mentally stress and the deed of calling the decision when something go amiss. Jeez

[Sen5eS]

Bro Acidic - You can always HJ after "exhausting" out the woman with every possible way w/o actually engaging the pistons if you're not wearing the proper gear

Unless you want to "believe" that she's on the "PILL" and coaxes you to "fire in the hole" with wild abandon.

Anyway ... you can "abuse" your body in anyway you like but dun do the same to the people around you who care ... coz you'll end up hurting them in-directly ...

I was lucky then ... I didn't think too much and at times the urges/situations were over-whelming ... now that I re-call ... it's very silly of me to rely on FATE/LUCK.

Anyway ... returning you to your regular channel

[Fatboy81]

Thank u kitty for the nice life experience story..
As a silent reader n follower, wish u all the best.

[acidicavex]

Originally Posted by Sen5eS

Bro Acidic - You can always HJ after "exhausting" out the woman with every possible way w/o actually engaging the pistons if you're not wearing the proper gear

Unless you want to "believe" that she's on the "PILL" and coaxes you to "fire in the hole" with wild abandon.

Anyway ... you can "abuse" your body in anyway you like but dun do the same to the people around you who care ... coz you'll end up hurting them in-directly ...

I was lucky then ... I didn't think too much and at times the urges/situations were over-whelming ... now that I re-call ... it's very silly of me to rely on FATE/LUCK.

Anyway ... returning you to your regular channel

Hehe maybe typo above but regardless to HJ off hmm very use to it even in my present situation. Maybe of age catching up can hardly cum with doing the normal deed.

But hurting other is one thing I do not wish too worst feeling is if if the pills fail or the gal might lie or the so call believe of save period. The worst feeling is killing the innocent one unborn to this world. It is the darkest hour in once life..... That why I said if really really wish to get it on using protection be responsible to everyone. Especially if u do not want to live life in shadow of murdering the unborn.......

Cheer practice save sex regardless whether partner willing or not there is always different type of condoms for different pleasure. Ain't no saint but the darkness creek back once in awhile and trust me u don't want to feel it.

[rubberduckygirl]

when i read your story, there somehow a sense of familiarity.
who i am today... indeed was changed by my past few failed relationships.
everytime i try to crawl and learn to stand, i just fall all over again.

probably a decade ago.. when im still in poly i would have thought likewise - to save it up for marriage. afterall its a sacred thing. but hell, midway thru university, i lost it. due to some reasons, we broke up.. then i got together with another guy.. and 3 months later, i got dumped. till date i dont know whats the reason, and neither am i keen to know. cos deep down in my heart, i know. he's probably looking for gratification.. of sorts. and i happen to share the same wavelength as him.

once bitten, twice shy. as much as i wanted to look for someone to love again. a part of me is also afraid that guys these days just wanted to a hole to unload their ammo in and not looking for commitments. its just saddening to know once guys get past the pleasantries stage, they would ask for more, e.g. kiss and hug (nothing harmless right) and then before you know it, their hands would wander around, and you know whats gonna happen next.

my fwb is one i met online. and right from the beginning, he was outright about his status. he obviously couldnt offer me things that other guys could - like going for movies, going on dinner dates etc. but things were a lot better as we progress, and i gotta admit there were a lot of times i wanted him to be mine only. but i know i couldnt. i had to get tough sometimes to remind him theres someone else who needs you more than i do. sometimes i get to see him only once a week if im lucky. or when im not i might only get a glimpse of him once a month.

so kittymae, jiayou. one day you will meet someone who can make you forget that you were once hurt before. =)

[Iluminati]

Originally Posted by Sen5eS

But for the well-being of your mental/physical health and having to explain to your child how they got here in the 1st place would be a challenge. You can live with it, but can the "non-existant-father" or child be able to?

Exactly, I agree with Bro S here. If you choose to go down this road, you are robbing the child of a perfect childhood. Remember the child is innocent here. The situation would be different here if you were a divorcee. At least the child has someone who he/she can comfortably called papa.
Who should the child called papa? How would he/she feel during Parent & Teacher day to see other children having papa around while he/she don't?
I know it's not a big deal nowadays for a single parent to be raising up the kids. If it's a girl, lucky you, at least she can look up to you for fashion and barbie doll. What if it's a boy? Can he relate to you for computer games and sports?

Just putting things in perspective. Pardon me for my blunt approach.
Life ain't "Gilmore Girls"

[kittymae]

Queenie: 在这网站遇上的往往是「性」而不是「爱」。 这点我非常清楚。但若谈得来，做个朋友何尝不是件好事？ 「爱」从未在我脑海里浮现。
感谢您的鼓励，和长日以来的支持。

Originally Posted by Rickey

Thx u too for ur exciting stories, esp the last instalment, kitty ...sad to hear its the last ...do come back n tell us more if u hv...meantime, take care n all the best to u for the future

Thanks for sticking thru since day 1!
There was more with T.. More things we attempted but I neglected to include as I wasn't sure of the sequence. Chose authenticity over the thrill i guess.
I too hope here will be updates, esp with T.. He's the best thus far & I enjoyed every moment with him
But that's really not up to me to decide..(not about the sex either- we both agreed it was good)

Originally Posted by acidicavex

Wow Mr T with big tool hmmm that is that ? Duhz well do update if happen there is Mr S or Mr D or Mr alphabet......
Roll roll roll your boat roll into the sea merries merries merries.......

T = Tool? Lols
Keep guessing...I prefer to stick to just Mr T ... For now
If possible