Ever fall in love with a massage girl

[world_traveler]

Originally Posted by Unseenuser

It has been probably close to 1 month since I nvr talk to the viet ML I dated. But till today I still quite pissed and feel I need to make her pay back emotionally.

The viet ML who I once dated said her family finances is poor and wants to send her sister to school and today I saw her ig living lavish lifestyle and high maintenance, i just want make her pay for it emotionally, because she said her friends in Vietnam dun know she work ML (prob because of embarrassment) I want just let all her friends know and recently heard she got fired from the job and finding new place to work. I got evidence of her ranting abt the boss and some msg which could prob put her in deep shit also.

As it was my first time I got to admit I was naive, because she and her sister are working here in sg as ML. Which I thought she could not be lying if both of them are here in sg working as ML and yes she showed pics as evidence too

But on one hand luckily I nvr give her a single cent. But still I felt she played me emotionally. And I want her to feel the same. Sry I need to vent my anger out here lol

Since you never gave her a single cent. Move on bro.

[Unseenuser]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

If this is the 1st time you come out chiong, easily sympathize people, take it as lesson learned and move on. Hardened your heart and cheong better. Anyway you are not financially hurt.

usually their story is true that the family is poor and she work this line to help family. It does not mean that they cannot spurge on themselve after hj so many dicks. Bare in mind that those in vice trade are verybhigh income earner, so they can afford to spurge

But the feeling I am having is I still like her and want to make things work I have this feeling of attachment with her alr.. and I actually never become her customer before at all not even once.. I just message her and we ended up going out together on dates which I find that is very different and unique from other ML, feels genuine to me..

And she is not the typical ML, she is around my age and shld actually be studying that kind but is working this so I can so called connect her well because we around the same age..

And even I nvr become her customer before she said she will never treat me like a customer and she value our relationship

But of course I’m sure u read the post I made a few days ago regarding cny where I never initiate and give her cny red packet on that day and that was when she rant to me and say I was nothing in her life.. which I feel maybe is a misunderstanding as well because she cannot communicate well in English too and always using Google translate which is how we communicate..

But she also said if I had money to help her she will treat me differently (But of course I mentioned in my post that I told her before until I know her well enough and trust her enough then I can be more open to even help her) but she did not so idk I am like on fence on this for last few weeks.. if I should msg her again

[Wee0502]

Originally Posted by Unseenuser

It has been probably close to 1 month since I nvr talk to the viet ML I dated. But till today I still quite pissed and feel I need to make her pay back emotionally.

The viet ML who I once dated said her family finances is poor and wants to send her sister to school and today I saw her ig living lavish lifestyle and high maintenance, i just want make her pay for it emotionally, because she said her friends in Vietnam dun know she work ML (prob because of embarrassment) I want just let all her friends know and recently heard she got fired from the job and finding new place to work. I got evidence of her ranting abt the boss and some msg which could prob put her in deep shit also.

As it was my first time I got to admit I was naive, because she and her sister are working here in sg as ML. Which I thought she could not be lying if both of them are here in sg working as ML and yes she showed pics as evidence too

But on one hand luckily I nvr give her a single cent. But still I felt she played me emotionally. And I want her to feel the same. Sry I need to vent my anger out here lol

Hi bro, even if they live lavish lifestyle, it got nothing to do with you.
I think you get emotionally too attached and overvalue yourself. Please move on. I don’t think it is right for you to sabotage her. You have no right at all based on what you said

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by Unseenuser

But the feeling I am having is I still like her and want to make things work I have this feeling of attachment with her alr..

since already never talk for 1 month, continue till 1 year, 10 year. You are KC-ing yourself to feel attached to her.

You say you feel connection with her because of same age group. You have not connected with her well by not understanding the language and culture of Viet. Frankly, handling viet is not easy feat. All your thoughts are coming from a mindset of a protected Sillyporean.

As for the CNY ang bao and the "initiative" case you posted, you also need to understand women are indecisive creature which you need many methods to handle.

The soonest you let go the better for you.

I also read your post in Venues One Spa thread. Is the ML working there?
anyway northstar88 is just an advertiser for that thread and he/she not oblige to answer your PM.

[Unseenuser]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

since already never talk for 1 month, continue till 1 year, 10 year. You are KC-ing yourself to feel attached to her.

You say you feel connection with her because of same age group. You have not connected with her well by not understanding the language and culture of Viet. Frankly, handling viet is not easy feat. All your thoughts are coming from a mindset of a protected Sillyporean.

As for the CNY ang bao and the "initiative" case you posted, you also need to understand women are indecisive creature which you need many methods to handle.

The soonest you let go the better for you.

I also read your post in Venues One Spa thread. Is the ML working there?
anyway northstar88 is just an advertiser for that thread and he/she not oblige to answer your PM.

What is kc? And not from that shop

[world_traveler]

Originally Posted by Unseenuser

What is kc? And not from that shop

KC = kang Cing = 感情

[pikachu007]

The ML that I’m visiting recently asked me to help buy a few hours of her time so that she can go home and rest because she is not feeling well.
Anyone faced such situation before?

[world_traveler]

Originally Posted by pikachu007

The ML that I’m visiting recently asked me to help buy a few hours of her time so that she can go home and rest because she is not feeling well.
Anyone faced such situation before?

This is a very common case. She is asking you and other bro. And if 3 of her regular customers buy hour for her. She is making big profits and worse case scenario is. She is probably going out with her bf and you are the one paying for it 😂

[Sinser]

Originally Posted by pikachu007

The ML that I’m visiting recently asked me to help buy a few hours of her time so that she can go home and rest because she is not feeling well.
Anyone faced such situation before?

Yea she probably ask all her customers see who buy lor

My ML also reccently finally asked me buy hour last month cause she code red cramp hard to work want go home rest. I also think she ask all her customers and maybe go out with bf. but i just buy 2.5hr with no expectations since i know her 8 months+
maybe she scared I anyhow think... she otw home until home keep audio chat with me then take photo in bathroom at home for me
so see you lor if know her well can afford just buy lor. spend abit to know her better like me

[RedFurBull]

Originally Posted by Sinser

Yea she probably ask all her customers see who buy lor

My ML also reccently finally asked me buy hour last month cause she code red cramp hard to work want go home rest. I also think she ask all her customers and maybe go out with bf. but i just buy 2.5hr with no expectations since i know her 8 months+
maybe she scared I anyhow think... she otw home until home keep audio chat with me then take photo in bathroom at home for me
so see you lor if know her well can afford just buy lor. spend abit to know her better like me

Dun be stupid is all I can say
Dun ever buy hours for ML to ‘rest’
It’s a ploy and u will feel lousy when u find out the ‘truth’
So the best is - dun help to buy the hour - when they say cramp, tired, sick this that other, just say “oh then rest in shop’ cos like that no one need to pay anything, especially not u the stupid carrot head da shu

[sexyback]

I know mine is tired and she on code red, so I auto want to buy her 2 hour early for her go home rest, instead she tell me going to end work soon anyway, don't waste money. Also she just tell shop she not taking customer so she just rest in shop.

[Sheepheadram]

Originally Posted by PotatoHead123

Need advice from the experts here. Only started visiting MLs recently and met one which I like and visited her 4 times so far.

Today, on the 4th visit, she told me she needed 70k sgd, and if I can give her 10k sgd. She is not comfortable to let me know why she needed the money. Give, not loan. Alternatively is if i can give her a few k sgd a month....and she can spend more time with me while she is here. She asked me to think about it and let her know. We have a 19 yrs age gap, i am a divorcee.

Is this normal?

I should not under any circumstances say yes I guess. Should I reject and see how she react, or just run far far away...

I think you give to those special needs kids abandoned by their parents in orphanage and lonely old folks staying alone is more meaningful than a person you can just pay 1b-2b tips to touch your privates.

Don't fall for such blatant cash grab please.

[Sheepheadram]

Originally Posted by sexyback

Guys need some advice, I know this is for ML but do let me hijack for advice.

I am a normal looking guy, not rich, not handsome, not fit. I came to know this actress (in her 30s) and after a few meet ups we fall in love with each other. She has many suitors, from work or the public. But she will always share with me what are the chats about and tell me not to worry as I am the only man she love. Whenever she has the pocket of free time during her shoot and I am there, she will make sure to accompany me even for a short 30 mins just to cuddle and kiss inside my car. Her off days are reserved for me, so we will spend time together (most of the times will end up having sex). She even gave me her house keys so I can go up as and when I am free. We chat everyday without fail, unless she is acting, once free she will message me. Everyday she will say love me, miss me, want to hug and kiss me without fail.
But I have this fear, she's a pretty and cute actress and got so many suitors that are better off than me which makes me feel she is toying with me. She everyday with so many yandao actors, then sometimes rich guys bring her out to eat etc. Although she will always tell me, I still feel insecure.
What will the advice be from senior bros here?

Just ride the wave and don't rock the boat. Control your emotions and see where this goes. Simply put, maintain status quo.

[pikachu007]

Originally Posted by Sinser

Yea she probably ask all her customers see who buy lor

My ML also reccently finally asked me buy hour last month cause she code red cramp hard to work want go home rest. I also think she ask all her customers and maybe go out with bf. but i just buy 2.5hr with no expectations since i know her 8 months+
maybe she scared I anyhow think... she otw home until home keep audio chat with me then take photo in bathroom at home for me
so see you lor if know her well can afford just buy lor. spend abit to know her better like me

Wah I see, in the end I did pay for the hours so she can rest but I didn’t expect much. I’m thinking of not visiting anymore also hahaha. She did text but no photos etc

[Sinser]

Originally Posted by RedFurBull

Dun be stupid is all I can say
Dun ever buy hours for ML to ‘rest’
It’s a ploy and u will feel lousy when u find out the ‘truth’
So the best is - dun help to buy the hour - when they say cramp, tired, sick this that other, just say “oh then rest in shop’ cos like that no one need to pay anything, especially not u the stupid carrot head da shu

1. In shop cannot rest if boss is around and got customer. Boss (Cat 1 Spa) wants $$$ Make ML work past closing time if got booking and even customer buy hour let ML in shop boss will make ML work if got walk-in. Double earnings $_$

2. I been tracking her code red previously so I roughly guess she is telling the truth. And it was like after 7 months+ then she ask me. I previously offered she rejected every time ask me don't waste money. Tell me buy 2hrs go massage she use less strength. I tell her sit massage my head and shoulders and legs

3. Already progressed to other stuff so I buy hour then is well worth. Just don't want to elaborate because I respect current ML

BUT I know ML like $$ also. I got cheated by another ML before only a few hundred so whatever (self ask one). So I very cautious with this ML
If you think is carrot then carrot lor. I just say my POV for poster