Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by X_plorer

You are good man.. But you still got time to work meh? Unless you do Business and Vietnam also have. Otherwise normal working adults where have the time and money to fo it in this way, man.. I think should buy a house in Malaysia Kota Tinggi for your 2nd wife. Drive there easy and most of all, there is no ban of pumping petrol there..

Bro, i have businesses around the region. I normally fly HCMC twice a month even if there's no family commitments there. My 4 years of stay in HCMC was fruitful, learnt a lot while doing business there. After coming back for 2 years, i should say family life is now more stable. I have to stop at 2 families, i have to leave some resources for myself too

[gilagila100]

Originally Posted by SingViet

I am only responsible to the woman i love. As for being responsible, i ensure the children are really mine thru DNA test before i become responsible... heheh

Errr ... your wives dun get offended when you do DNA testings on ur kids ??
I mean do they know or you curi curi get a few drops of blood for testing ??

Juz curious ... Sound a bit like Hong Kong drama to me.

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by gilagila100

Errr ... your wives dun get offended when you do DNA testings on ur kids ??
I mean do they know or you curi curi get a few drops of blood for testing ??

Juz curious ... Sound a bit like Hong Kong drama to me.

I believe strongly in communication. I explain to them that DNA testing is necessary for me. Not that i don't trust them, but better to be safe than sorry. If you explain sweetly to your love ones, most of them will agree. As for your question, i don't `curi curi get a few drops of blood', i bring them to the authorised place and they also know they are going thru DNA testing.

[Honey Boon]

wao, your 24 hours/365 days need to split between two wives, double family/in-law maintanance

btw, just curious, how you split the contents in your sperm tank?

Originally Posted by SingViet

Bro, no special formula la. It took me a few months to pyscho my first wife. It was difficult at first, but gradually, things become better. I promised my 1st wife that i still love her and kids and will continue to provide for them. And i will only fly HCMC every 2 weeks and stay for a few days there, One month, 20 days for 1st wife, 10 days for 2nd wife,

[Honey Boon]

busybody a bit if you don't mind

just curious, how your 1st wife come to know about your extra-curriculum affairs? how you "pecah" the lobang?

before your 2nd wife agreed to marry you, did she know you already have a viet wife back in singapore?

Originally Posted by SingViet

Bro, no special formula la. It took me a few months to pyscho my first wife. It was difficult at first, but gradually, things become better. I promised my 1st wife that i still love her and kids and will continue to provide for them. And i will only fly HCMC every 2 weeks and stay for a few days there, One month, 20 days for 1st wife, 10 days for 2nd wife,

[papillon30]

Originally Posted by Tony Stark

If talking about going to Vietnam to cheong than no problem. But if going over to sian decent girls will be very difficult due to language problem.

Do you think that everyone who has landed in Vietnam for the very 1st time is
fluent in Vietnamese?

[X_plorer]

So is there anyone looking for a Vietnam Wife or GF at the moment?

[Thom07]

Originally Posted by SingViet

I notActually my first wife got to know about the 2nd wife recently and also accepted her, They are on very good terms now.

Is your 2nd wife legally married to you?

Originally Posted by X_plorer

So is there anyone looking for a Vietnam Wife or GF at the moment?

Me. Eligible?

[boysaigon]

Originally Posted by Torres_Mok

U can go to this webpage to look 4 viet gals. VietSingle.com - Vietnamese Friend Connection - All Listing. wish u luck in ur search.

thanks Bro T... been there...mostly written in vn le...me vn not so solid...

[X_plorer]

Originally Posted by Thom07

Is your 2nd wife legally married to you?



Me. Eligible?

anyone is also eligible when you have enough vitamin to spend on them..

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by Honey Boon

busybody a bit if you don't mind

just curious, how your 1st wife come to know about your extra-curriculum affairs? how you "pecah" the lobang?

before your 2nd wife agreed to marry you, did she know you already have a viet wife back in singapore?

All this while, my 1st wife knows that i kind of fool around outside sometimes, but she close one eye as she believes that as long as my heart is with her and the children, she will be alright. She started to suspect something amiss when i started to chat on the internet often. She has actually met my 2nd wife before when i was staying in HCM. But i introduced my 2nd wife then as a former student in Singapore. (i used to be a HOD in a large private school in Singapore for 18 mths) But in fact, its not uncommon for man to have a few wives in Vietnam. I know of a few vietnamese man having a few wives, one even have 6 wives.

Before my 2nd wife agreed to be with me, she knows that i am married. there were a few months when she struggled to distance herself to me. But eventually, she still came back to me. As for whether we are legally married, its NO. But we went thru customary marriage and her parents gave us their blessing. Such things may sound beserk in Singapore as singapore ladies will not accept such things to happen. But in vietnamese society, such things are very common.

[SingViet]

Many bros cannot imagine what i am going thru, as most bros have only recently entered the Viet scene. And most bros are only very much into the cheonging scene in both JC and HCM. Cheonging won't make u see much of vietnamese culture and the way of life in Vietnam. When i mentioned earlier that i used to have a bodyguard in HCM, most bros find it unbelievable. Why will anyone need a bodyguard in HCM? But because i was doing business in HCM and i had some business conflict with some local businessman. I also mentioned i bought a 7 room villa in District Ben Chanh, near to Phu My Hung Q7 and its facing the saigon river. Most bros don't believe, but there's a few bros who have been to my place before and they have seen it with their own eyes. 7 ensuite rooms and bathroom with jaccuzi. and it also comes with a sound proof Karaoke room on the top floor. All these sounds like HK drama huh? Go explore more of Vietnam , instead of only cheonging there. U will learn a lot.

[joker88]

Originally Posted by Norikasan55

Is this the legal type of OKT?

I think they should be lor...............

[KangTuo]

Nowadays staying in HCMC is expensive and demanding for the poor but there are apportunities and work. In HCMC, one need to rent a unit/house, travel alot to work and pay much more for petrol and food. If one go back province, there is no need to pay rent and no need to travel much as one they either don't work or work in own small plantation.

Which is better? Let your baxa / girlfriend stay in HCMC to work or go back to province and stay with family?

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

Nowadays staying in HCMC is expensive and demanding for the poor but there are apportunities and work. In HCMC, one need to rent a unit/house, travel alot to work and pay much more for petrol and food. If one go back province, there is no need to pay rent and no need to travel much as one they either don't work or work in own small plantation.

Which is better? Let your baxa / girlfriend stay in HCMC to work or go back to province and stay with family?

If your ba xa stays in the province, then you have to travel to province to meet her. Renting a car to go province is not cheap le. Unless you take public transport like buses or motorbike. The next thing being its time consuming to travel to the province