OPP

[UncleHasBeen]

Originally Posted by itguy2008

I am also 52! hahaha.

I have been learning mainly ballroom.

We are young seniors then
U should try switching around if u prefer younger women.
Jazz and Funk Jazz are good and suitable.

Another good place is pottery classes

[UncleHasBeen]

Originally Posted by Yydsuncle

reading this thread the whole morning while ignoring to reply my emails. LOL

1 thing I learned from here is 'fuck the pussy but never fuck with their heart'. I salute uncle for the mental capability to just say 'no' and walk away when the girl open their heart to you. I always am struggling in this part.

Senior uncle can teach me this new uncle?

Wow so hard working fellow uncle or young senior like myself
The heart part will be hard, not going to lie.
Especially when the OPP is using us as an escape or transient refuge.
Now that really hits to the core.

Also when it comes to matters of the heart, its almost impossible to be clean and clear cut.
Hence i prefer to watch, then wine and dine before making the decision to move inward.
And also needs to have the discipline to halt when u think u are in too deep.
Just not worth the risk.
After all, its a mutual beneficial fuckship and not hardship right?

Nothing to teach, just sharing my journey here.
Had too many crashes and burnt in the beginning, so now i am not that easily distracted or off-focus.
Saves time and effort too.

[UncleHasBeen]

This how some days look like for me when my OPP/FWB is bored, lonely and horny
The struggle is real, not going to lie

[UncleHasBeen]

Some days are hard and some days are harder

[UncleHasBeen]

I am being tested like this very often

[UncleHasBeen]

[UncleHasBeen]

The force is quite strong in this one

[Peacekeeping]

Wow this one is so full of energy. I don’t think I can handle this type. What exactly did you do to her young uncle? Lol

[sbwow]

Guys who feedback they have sexless marriage, dude your wife's getting laid by another guy.

You paid for the marriage, do all the housework, take care of this and that shit but gets showered with all the drama in return. In comparison, this guy gets all the fun for free, receive consistent text of wanting to be fucked by your wife, gets the thrill of dominating another man's pussy. That's a champ. HAHAHA.

[Blackenrose]

Originally Posted by UncleHasBeen

The force is quite strong in this one

Hahaha, guilty

[Yydsuncle]

Originally Posted by UncleHasBeen

Wow so hard working fellow uncle or young senior like myself
The heart part will be hard, not going to lie.
Especially when the OPP is using us as an escape or transient refuge.
Now that really hits to the core.

Also when it comes to matters of the heart, its almost impossible to be clean and clear cut.
Hence i prefer to watch, then wine and dine before making the decision to move inward.
And also needs to have the discipline to halt when u think u are in too deep.
Just not worth the risk.
After all, its a mutual beneficial fuckship and not hardship right?

Nothing to teach, just sharing my journey here.
Had too many crashes and burnt in the beginning, so now i am not that easily distracted or off-focus.
Saves time and effort too.

Do you discuss with her about the mutual normally? How do you engage with the conversation?

[thor1981]

Originally Posted by sbwow

Guys who feedback they have sexless marriage, dude your wife's getting laid by another guy.

You paid for the marriage, do all the housework, take care of this and that shit but gets showered with all the drama in return. In comparison, this guy gets all the fun for free, receive consistent text of wanting to be fucked by your wife, gets the thrill of dominating another man's pussy. That's a champ. HAHAHA.

well said bro

[UncleHasBeen]

Originally Posted by Peacekeeping

Wow this one is so full of energy. I don’t think I can handle this type. What exactly did you do to her young uncle? Lol

She is not that full of energy but excited i think.
Her man is on a 6 weeks work stint overseas, so she cant contain that excitement.

It has little to do with me because she knows i cant and i am not her 24/7 Grab-dick
But our conversation is mostly sexualized and it makes our communication interesting too.

Good thing about such a fling long or short term, if it is out of your ability to handle, u can always walk away from it.

[UncleHasBeen]

Originally Posted by Blackenrose

Hahaha, guilty

Oh guilty?

I like that.
I appreciate and enjoy being teased and pushed.
To me it is a form of desire.
And to be desired is one of the biggest compliment one can get, be it if u are a man or woman.

Keep teasing, i bet u can turn on your man at an instant

[UncleHasBeen]

Originally Posted by Yydsuncle

Do you discuss with her about the mutual normally? How do you engage with the conversation?

Yes i do and for me its after the 2nd sexual encounter.
It has to be sex done before i lay my cards down with her.
And best is after 2nd. Which means at the very least, both of us are okay with the sexual index so to speak.

Also after the 2nd one, its time to decide if this is a short term or long term based on the expectations of both parties so far.

I will reiterate that i am happily married.
And i just want to have fun outside of my marriage.
I feel like this sex fling between us is what i want and i want to be in this with her as long as she wants it.

Then we move on to your own pet peeves but bring this up slowly as u go.
Dont have to be upfront. List your critical pet peeves or triggers up front first.

Like make it clear u are happily married and only looking for fun outside of it.
For me, i made it clear that at any moment if she is not comfortable with the relationship, just leave and drop me a text.
No explanation required.

However having said all these, the content and the approach on this 'talk' is still very dependent on her maturity and not just age.

I find it super easy discussing such with a married/divorced woman in the late 30's and beyond.