An Affair with an older married lady... and the aftermath...

[rawboy83]

please share more updates ts, it's a nice story.

[sohbuckkong]

Originally Posted by Mann1

Was reading this story back in 2013. It was one of my favourites in the forum. Thought you had disappeared after the last chapter. Very suprised and glad you continued after all these years.

Please continue!

Reading this reminds me of my uncle and my auntie. A real story of my uncle and auntie.
My auntie was older then my uncle by almost 15yrs.
My uncle was in his 20s when he married my auntie who was in her 30s, an ex cabaret girl, both were happily married but as time pass by, when my uncle was in his mid 30s, my auntie was already in her 50s and soon my uncle had a mistress..........Then at last my auntie together with some Thais, murdered my uncle. A tragic end.

The Thais were sentenced to death , my auntie got 7yrs jail.

[hawk007]

Originally Posted by sohbuckkong

Reading this reminds me of my uncle and my auntie. A real story of my uncle and auntie.
My auntie was older then my uncle by almost 15yrs.
My uncle was in his 20s when he married my auntie who was in her 30s, an ex cabaret girl, both were happily married but as time pass by, when my uncle was in his mid 30s, my auntie was already in her 50s and soon my uncle had a mistress..........Then at last my auntie together with some Thais, murdered my uncle. A tragic end.

The Thais were sentenced to death , my auntie got 7yrs jail.

Was it on the papers?

[Nomsit]

Originally Posted by sohbuckkong

Reading this reminds me of my uncle and my auntie. A real story of my uncle and auntie.
My auntie was older then my uncle by almost 15yrs.
My uncle was in his 20s when he married my auntie who was in her 30s, an ex cabaret girl, both were happily married but as time pass by, when my uncle was in his mid 30s, my auntie was already in her 50s and soon my uncle had a mistress..........Then at last my auntie together with some Thais, murdered my uncle. A tragic end.

The Thais were sentenced to death , my auntie got 7yrs jail.

Wow so tragic...

[treff]

It is much better for TS to forget about Ann and try to start over hopefully with someone else again. Usually relationships like this go nowhere because of too many additional burdens and baggage, It is always tough to forget in the beginning but over time, the memories will slowly go away. Better to have short term pain and long term turmoil.

[sohbuckkong]

Originally Posted by hawk007

Was it on the papers?

Yes.

Originally Posted by Nomsit

Wow so tragic...

Yes, very tragic. My uncle murdered, wife 7yrs jail, some others sentenced to death, my uncle son only 1yr old , my grandmother heart broken.....Etc etc....

So what I'm saying is that if a man marry a women much much older then him, the aftermath can be quite bad because when the man in his 30s he still look good but his wife would be in his 50s and look like an old women and this may cause the man to seek other younger woman and from here a chain of unpleasant events will unfold.

[twinresist2]

Originally Posted by sohbuckkong

Yes.


Yes, very tragic. My uncle murdered, wife 7yrs jail, some others sentenced to death, my uncle son only 1yr old , my grandmother heart broken.....Etc etc....

So what I'm saying is that if a man marry a women much much older then him, the aftermath can be quite bad because when the man in his 30s he still look good but his wife would be in his 50s and look like an old women and this may cause the man to seek other younger woman and from here a chain of unpleasant events will unfold.

This is very true. I used to have something with a lady who is a few years older than me. She told me that in time to come, she will age faster and I will move on to someone younger.. i didnt understand at that time but today I realise those are wise words. Love will is like a sweet dream and reality may turn it into a nightmare.

[Shrouded]

Originally Posted by bloggert

This happened 8-years after Poly, so he would have been around 27-years old at that time. Ann was 10-years older at that time - meaning that she was 37-years old and got married at 22-years old. That's all about right.

The affair seemed to play out within about a year and the letter was received a year after that. So, by the time the letter was received - she would be 39-years old. It's good that she still remembered Mark.

The story transpired 5-years ago so Ann should now be 44-years old. I guess in 6-years time she will be menopausal so that by then it is unlikely that anything should happen. It is unlikely that she would abandon her 3-kids although the youngest would be 21-years old by now. Probably in 4-years, all the kids would be grown up and she would be free to leave her husband if that is still on the cards and the love for Mark is still there, and if Mark is still into her.

By then, Mark would be 39-years old and probably married with his own career and family. All things considered, I don't think there will be a realistic future to this. A meet-up perhaps, but sadly this is a romance that will not see a happy ending. Many things change with time.

Great story. I feel the pain.

Actually... Mark is 37 this year.... And I'm genuinely surprised there's still some readership.

[xnarsilx]

Hi Mark, I could relate to your story as I've been through similar situation myself. Got into a relationship with a married colleague with kids. The entire relationship was like fireworks. When it happened, things got heated up real quick, lots of excitement with the sex, but before you even realised, the whole show is over.

I tried to pen down my story in this forum but I dont think I finish writing it.

Anyway, good job in continuing the story after so long, I wonder is there one last passionate sex.

[Kovovo]

Omgwtf...This is the saddest thing I read in sbf

Originally Posted by sohbuckkong

Reading this reminds me of my uncle and my auntie. A real story of my uncle and auntie.
My auntie was older then my uncle by almost 15yrs.
My uncle was in his 20s when he married my auntie who was in her 30s, an ex cabaret girl, both were happily married but as time pass by, when my uncle was in his mid 30s, my auntie was already in her 50s and soon my uncle had a mistress..........Then at last my auntie together with some Thais, murdered my uncle. A tragic end.

The Thais were sentenced to death , my auntie got 7yrs jail.

[newyorker88]

Originally Posted by Shrouded

Actually... Mark is 37 this year.... And I'm genuinely surprised there's still some readership.

Good write up. Can relate in real life. I know a family friend fell for a older woman n left his wife n daughter. No news of him up to now. More than 20 years ago. Up to now, nothing. Daughter grown up n wife never remarried.

Sometimes, is it real love? But in such, there will one side that have tragic story.

[Westernbonk]

Great share bro TS, thanks!!

[Shrouded]

Originally Posted by xnarsilx

Hi Mark, I could relate to your story as I've been through similar situation myself. Got into a relationship with a married colleague with kids. The entire relationship was like fireworks. When it happened, things got heated up real quick, lots of excitement with the sex, but before you even realised, the whole show is over.

I tried to pen down my story in this forum but I dont think I finish writing it.

Anyway, good job in continuing the story after so long, I wonder is there one last passionate sex.

Well... Ann did say she would contact me when the time is right. And I was an overseas posting for most of the past 5 years pre-Covid.

[Shrouded]

Originally Posted by newyorker88

Good write up. Can relate in real life. I know a family friend fell for a older woman n left his wife n daughter. No news of him up to now. More than 20 years ago. Up to now, nothing. Daughter grown up n wife never remarried.

Sometimes, is it real love? But in such, there will one side that have tragic story.

I would prefer to think it's neither real love not tragic story on my end.

[newyorker88]

Originally Posted by Shrouded

I would prefer to think it's neither real love not tragic story on my end.

Perhaps just a passing part of ur life. Every will grow up n this just part n parcel of life. Nice share of ur stories