ShangHai Recommendation!

[wakk0]

Originally Posted by cateyes1001

I am here in SHA all by myself now. I appreciate if I can be included in any of the activities or outings here. I need to enlarge my circle of friends in SHA and I appreciates those brotherly friends who had PM me offering me emotional assistance. Thanks.

Same here... I have been working in SHA coming to 1 year.. Now, eng eng surfing SBF in office.. 'DAN' season in CN. Pls count me in for any TCSS session..

[SGPshanghai69]

Originally Posted by van aken

Thank you SIR !! Will try to locate the place.

Dear Bro,
U rmost welcome bro. Hope u have a enjoyable time there at 1 of the above HCs!
Dun 4get to post your FR here for all bros to share after your trip......
Cheers.

[SGPshanghai69]

Originally Posted by lobo1

Hi all bros in shanghai,
If anything I say is wrong or outdated, pls do not flame me, cos i've been away too long. Anyway, i remember that Hengshan Lu is an easy place to pick up chicks. I used to go to a place called Narcissus, where there are many gals there. Typically there r 2 types, working girls, and Working Girls. The first working gals i'm refering to r actually the office or executive people. These gals r usually quite friendly and if u buy them a drink it's easy to get their phone nos. Also, it's quite easy to get lucky with them.
The second category of Working Girls r those which r soliciting. They usually ask for 200-300rmb as tips and 800 for following u back. However, if the hour is late, u can usually get the price down to 500-800 for tips and the sextion after.
Hope u find this useful, I'll be in S'hai soon. Any bros there interested, we can meet up for some tcss n drinks sessions.

Dear Bro Lobo1,
Dun think you would be 'flamed' or anything of that sort as u r merely sharing here...as the old saying goes "one man's meat isanother man's poison" so I believed no one would 'flame' u!

Indeed it's true on what u mentioned is still the past & present scenes at Narcissuss, and in fact it's everywhere where there's bars, pubs.....be Park 97, GuanDi, Manhattan Bar, TongRen Road street of bars, etc.
What matters most is how much u r willing to spend to pick up a gal be it a normal white collar working-class gal or a 'working gal' as u mentioned here.
Picking up a normal working-class galss needs both time & money investment, as one might end up spending even more to pick up one like that in this class. Whereas, the other 'working gal' is a straight forward 'Battering Trade" deal which u pay for what u get & be done with it. Screw & forget....
For any bros who's here for a short trip be it Biz or Leisure, the latter option 'working gals' might be be a better option as u dun have much time to spend.
Above are my 1 cents worth of personal opinions, like I said earlier here at the begining of this reply, "one man's meat is another man's poison".....

End of the day, what matters most is all bros to have fun in each & every own way!

Cheers & best regards to all here.

[SGPshanghai69]

Originally Posted by wakk0

Same here... I have been working in SHA coming to 1 year.. Now, eng eng surfing SBF in office.. 'DAN' season in CN. Pls count me in for any TCSS session..

U r always welcome to join us. Do PM any one of us here & we'll catch up the next time round.
Regards,

[SGPshanghai69]

Originally Posted by cateyes1001

ya...I am still in a dilemma. I am here in SHA all by myself now. I appreciate if I can be included in any of the activities or outings here. I need to enlarge my circle of friends in SHA and I appreciates those brotherly friends who had PM me offering me emotional assistance. Thanks.
Cateyes1001

Feel free to PM any one of us who's here & we'll be most delighted to invite u along on our next gathering.

Just set your mindset straight & be objective about your work stint here bro. Think about how it would be like if one is back in homeland facing all those bad economic scenes.....

Take care there.....wish u well bro!
Best regards,

[lukim]

Originally Posted by Van Basten

ya easy to pick up these executives girls, but only if u r a foreigner!

You are MIS...consider foreign inport also wat.

[shengge]

Originally Posted by van aken

Thank you SIR !! Will try to locate the place.

Hi there,
Don just thank like that lah, you should at least up bro sgp69 points for his effort to go through this again and again.... So as many bros out there.
Cheers!
SG

[Faidenk]

Hi Cateyes,
Good to know you. I understand what you're going through. I suppose in a way most of us have gone through that. I know I have, more than my fair share.

I think it would be good for you to go away for a while. It would be very depressing for you to remain there - too much to remind you. No point wallowing in it. If it's meant for you to be together, it will, whether you wallow or not.

And whatever, you need to get away from those leg-stomping Chinese apartments (haha, you know what I mean), they really depress. You need a bright & cheerful environment. Take a trip to Hainan, refresh yourself. You owe it to yourself to be cheerful.

Take care. Hope I don't seem to meddling, forgive if I am.

[taxi_driver]

Originally Posted by Faidenk

Hi Cateyes,
Good to know you. I understand what you're going through. I suppose in a way most of us have gone through that. I know I have, more than my fair share.
I think it would be good for you to go away for a while. It would be very depressing for you to remain there - too much to remind you. No point wallowing in it. If it's meant for you to be together, it will, whether you wallow or not.

Dear Bro Faidenk,
If my life is that miserable, I would have told myself, hey what the @#$%@ I am doing here? I would rather balik kumpong.
Everyone has been talking about Shanghai, a great city to be in. To be bored and lonely, and need emotional help, probably a psychiatrist would be a better person to look for. I don't think bros here can help much nor this is a consiling site. The only way, is like you said, help yourself, we don't deserve to be in this situation.

I don think most bros, like myself, visiting this site and found out that someone is crying and need help while he is staying with a gf.
Please don get me wronged that. How are going to offer our help but in this aspect, if one really not prepare to help himself, it is really beyond us.

Let's make this site more interesting with more readers sharing their valuable encounters and experiences, that all of us can benefits. And getting valuable guidance from veteran like SGP69, PTR and etc.... This is the best way that we can growth ourselves to be better.

Vroom, no more posting from me.

[SGPshanghai69]

Originally Posted by shengge

Hi there,
Don just thank like that lah, you should at least up bro sgp69 points for his effort to go through this again and again.... So as many bros out there.
Cheers!
SG

Thanks for the compliments Bro Shengge! Whether to up my points or not is irrelevant just as long as the other bros here get the info they need & have fun!
Best regards to u Bro Shengge, and all bros.
Cheerios.........

[shengge]

Originally Posted by SGPshanghai69

Whether to up my points or not is irrelevant just as long as the other bros here get the info they need & have fun!
Cheerios.........

Bro SGP69,
You are the ambassador of Shanghai mah. If your points is not going up, people may not know lah, this is a way to show our appreciation to the help.

By giving points would also encourage bros to share their experiences in all aspect, not necessarily FR. （I have "up" those bros that that posted recommendation and FR here, unfortunately only 4 points）I am sure through this, we may get more people sharing then this site will get more interesting and informative. Don't you agree with me?

Cheers!
SG

[SGPshanghai69]

Originally Posted by shengge

Bro SGP69,
You are the ambassador of Shanghai mah. If your points is not going up, people may not know lah, this is a way to show our appreciation to the help.

By giving points would also encourage bros to share their experiences in all aspect, not necessarily FR. （I have "up" those bros that that posted recommendation and FR here, unfortunately only 4 points）I am sure through this, we may get more people sharing then this site will get more interesting and informative. Don't you agree with me?

Cheers!
SG

Dear Bro Shengge,
Thanks again for the compliments, flattery & the 'tall hat' u bestowed on moir....
I'm no Ambassador of Shanghai at all....like I said earlier here & many times before, I'm just merely sharing my past encounters with all bros whom might find it all useful if possible....that's all.

Last but not least, agreed with u on the matter that making this site more & most interesting with all info we can all share here.
Cheerios to all bros.
Best regards,

[shengge]

Originally Posted by SGPshanghai69

Last but not least, agreed with u on the matter that making this site more & most interesting with all info we can all share here.

Hi there,
See! Your points go up liao! Look like many bros agree with me...
May be you can start off with some of your experience?

Yes, we share here, not give and take.

Cheers!
SG

[cateyes1001]

Originally Posted by Faidenk

Hi Cateyes,
Good to know you. I understand what you're going through. I suppose in a way most of us have gone through that. I know I have, more than my fair share.
I think it would be good for you to go away for a while. It would be very depressing for you to remain there - too much to remind you. No point wallowing in it. If it's meant for you to be together, it will, whether you wallow or not.
And whatever, you need to get away from those leg-stomping Chinese apartments (haha, you know what I mean), they really depress. You need a bright & cheerful environment. Take a trip to Hainan, refresh yourself. You owe it to yourself to be cheerful.
Take care. Hope I don't seem to meddling, forgive if I am.

Hi Faidenk,
It was a nice pleasure meeting you last Friday evening. I enjoyed a nice simple evening with you and your ang-mo friend. Hope you had a good trip back to SIN.
Going away is no problem as I will be on biz trip to Macau and Taiwan next month. These would easily takes up 2 weeks. As I have said before, visiting a country and living in a country is completely different. I need time to move back to SIN because I just cannot tell my company now that I want to re-re-locate again.
Luckily, I am now living in a decent appartment which is so much different living in those local "HDB". You are right, proper housing is important to make a person re-vitalized.
You are not meddling at all. In fact, you gave me sound advice and also shared some of your experiences here. I appreciate it very much.
Hope to meet up again real soon.
Cateyes1001

[cateyes1001]

Originally Posted by taxi_driver

Dear Bro Faidenk,
If my life is that miserable, I would have told myself, hey what the @#$%@ I am doing here? I would rather balik kumpong.
Everyone has been talking about Shanghai, a great city to be in. To be bored and lonely, and need emotional help, probably a psychiatrist would be a better person to look for. I don't think bros here can help much nor this is a consiling site. The only way, is like you said, help yourself, we don't deserve to be in this situation.
I don think most bros, like myself, visiting this site and found out that someone is crying and need help while he is staying with a gf.
Please don get me wronged that. How are going to offer our help but in this aspect, if one really not prepare to help himself, it is really beyond us.
Let's make this site more interesting with more readers sharing their valuable encounters and experiences, that all of us can benefits. And getting valuable guidance from veteran like SGP69, PTR and etc.... This is the best way that we can growth ourselves to be better.
Vroom, no more posting from me.

Hi Taxi Driver,
First of all I apologize if I had ever painted a picture that seek sympathy nor seeking counseling. It is not my intention nor is it my motives. No one can help in what I am going through now.
I am only seeking help to enlarge my circle of friends here as what you had said earlier to help oneself. I am actually planning to re-re-locate my myself back to SIN but it takes time because I cannot simply tell my company that I want to move back now. But there may be a possibility that I may never want to move back to SIN if given time here with enlarge circle of friends.
Once again, I apologize if I have set a different mood or tone in this Shanghai Thread.
Cateyes1001