ShangHai Recommendation!

[tsuyoyi]

Bro shengge,
Happy duanyu jie to you too!
Hope you can make it back to base tomorrow!
Maybe we can get some bros together to celebrate?

To all other shanghai veterans and bros,
Have a happy duanwu festival!

Originally Posted by shengge

Dear Bros,
Wish all of you, happy 端午节。
Cheers!

Dear ???,
i've just came back from Shanghai. It was a great trip. Special thanks to bro shanghai papa for giving me much info and bro sgpshanghai69 and ultra88man for meeting up with me.

As i was there only for a short business trip this time round, i didnt expect much. The cheonging was not bad, but its the company and the hospitality i received from the shanghai bros that made the trip a thoroughly enjoyable one. But 1 word of advice, bring more bak kut teh, sambal chilli, and most importantly marlboro lights the next time any bros go to shanghai.... haha

looking forward to bro sgpshanghai69 and ultra88man when you come to beijing....

til next time...cheers!!..

and now for my contributions...

TRY HC

#31 Dan Dan
face: 6.5 cute cute type
body: 7 nice soft "zhong zhi"
BBBJ: 7
FJ: 7
attitude: 8 keep on saying she want some more and ask for round 2. i worry need pay extra for 2nd time and so didnt try.

in summary, TRY is a very safe place, so bros no worry, just go and enjoy, they wont even ask for extra tip 580net (oh and no need to sign anything too..haha)


sin huai hai HC

#99 dunno whats her name but from yangzhou
face: 8 very pretty
body: 7.5 tall slim and nice but fake "zhong zhi"
bbbj: 6.5
FJ: 6 standard
attitude: 6.5
place quite run down, and under renovation, almost couldnt find it. job was SOP but girls are quite generally quite chio. total paid 568 including 20 tip for girl.

All bros have a great "duan wu jie", and remember to eat more delicious zhong zhi..

cheers!

and now for my contributions...

TRY HC

#31 Dan Dan
face: 6.5 cute cute type
body: 7 nice soft "zhong zhi"
BBBJ: 7
FJ: 7
attitude: 8 keep on saying she want some more and ask for round 2. i worry need pay extra for 2nd time and so didnt try.

in summary, TRY is a very safe place, so bros no worry, just go and enjoy, they wont even ask for extra tip 580net (oh and no need to sign anything too..haha)


sin huai hai HC

#99 dunno whats her name but from yangzhou
face: 8 very pretty
body: 7.5 tall slim and nice but fake "zhong zhi"
bbbj: 6.5
FJ: 6 standard
attitude: 6.5
place quite run down, and under renovation, almost couldnt find it. job was SOP but girls are quite generally quite chio. total paid 568 including 20 tip for girl.

All bros have a great "duan wu jie", and remember to eat more delicious zhong zhi..

cheers!

[SGPshanghai69]

Originally Posted by ZhongGuoRen69

Dear ???,
i've just came back from Shanghai. It was a great trip. Special thanks to bro shanghai papa for giving me much info and bro sgpshanghai69 and ultra88man for meeting up with me.

As i was there only for a short business trip this time round, i didnt expect much. The cheonging was not bad, but its the company and the hospitality i received from the shanghai bros that made the trip a thoroughly enjoyable one. But 1 word of advice, bring more bak kut teh, sambal chilli, and most importantly marlboro lights the next time any bros go to shanghai.... haha

looking forward to bro sgpshanghai69 and ultra88man when you come to beijing....

til next time...cheers!!..

Dear Bro ZGR69,
Thanks for the compliments.
We did what we can for you bro to make your short trip a fruitful one if possible. Most fo all, we share whatever info we have here with u as it's merely encounters we accumulated nothing much to yell about!
Hope u really had a wonderful time here and shall look forward to your return comes month end, be in Shanghai here or Beijing!

Shall look forward to your Balachan chilli as trying to quit smoking so no ciggis la, thanks bro.
Hear from u soon, keep in touch. In the meantime, do take care there & see ya soon.
Regards.

[SGPshanghai69]

Dear all Bros,
Happy DuanWu Festival from Shanghai here..........

祝贺所有兄弟们，端午节愉快！

上海sgp69诚心祝贺。。。。

sorry i accidently double posted.
can anyone teach me how to remove it. thks!

[ultra88man]

Originally Posted by SGPshanghai69

Shall look forward to your Balachan chilli as trying to quit smoking so no ciggis la, thanks bro.
Hear from u soon, keep in touch. In the meantime, do take care there & see ya soon.
Regards.

ciggis for me mah !!! hahaha ...

[nongho]

Originally Posted by ZhongGuoRen69

and now for my contributions...

TRY HC

#31 Dan Dan
face: 6.5 cute cute type
body: 7 nice soft "zhong zhi"
BBBJ: 7
FJ: 7
attitude: 8 keep on saying she want some more and ask for round 2. i worry need pay extra for 2nd time and so didnt try.

Hi Bro,

Nice FR.
I don't think you need to pay twice if the girl ask you for second time right?..
Next time ask the girl jokingly need to pay for the 2nd one mah...

As I always ask to do it twice with my girl...hahahahaha
once during BBBJ and the second one during FJ....after that shacked out already...then relax at the TV room and have a bowl of dumplings before leaving the premise.

been sometimes since visiting TRY...sigh...
back to work
cheers
nongho

[cateyes1001]

Originally Posted by cateyes1001

Hi PTR, Shanghaitan, dumbass and nongho,

I thank you all for giving your valuable experiences information about living in SHA. I appreciate all your open arms in accepting a new comer to SHA. I will come back to you guys again for more guidance once I am more settle down in SHA. I am arriving on the 18 Mar.

Since I am traveling in and out of China frequently during my stay in SHA, I am taking nongho's advise of not registering with the local authority for temporary residence permit.

Best regards,
Cateyes1001

Hi PTR, Shanghaitan, dumbass and nongho,
Thanks for your previous advice. I just wanted to update you all regarding my stay. I moved to SHA in mid March and live in a poor man area called ZhaBei. Rental is cheap becoz it is their local "HDB" mah. It is like back in the 60's 70's housing we had in Singapore. I am definitely not used ot it.

It is very different when you VISIT a place as tourist and LIVING in a place. Living in SHA for this short period of time is an eye opener for me.

Since I moved there, I traveled out of China 3 times till now with each overseas trip lasting about 2 weeks. No problems with the imigration because I followed the instructions given by bros here. I am now back in SIN and comptemplating whether to go SHA again next week.

I have a SHA gf who live with me in zhabei. I must say it is a tough experience living together because of different up bringings and cultures. About 3 weeks ago, I had a big fight (not physical lah) with my gf. In a fit of anger, I moved out and temporary housed in one of her best gf empty appt in beijing xi lu. Her gf tries to mediate things for us and at last my gf said maybe it is better for us to live separately for awhile. I left for HKG on business 2 weeks ago and I just got back to SIN. Me and my gf still talks casually phone the phone but avoided sensitive subject of me moving back to her place.

On one hand, I am looking forward to go back to SHA next week but on the otherhand, I am afraid to live alone in her gf empty appt. Yes, afraid. Afraid of boredom and loneliness. I have got no friends in SHA except my gf and her gf only. My work does not requires me to live in China because my customers are non-china. Everyday after I done with my emails, there is nothing much I could do in SHA. I came to live in SHA is because of her.

I wanted to ask all the experience people here, is it difficult to live in SHA alone? ie no office, no gf, no friends and etc. I may give it a try next week when I am in SHA to live alone. Is there any bros here which I can meet up for chats or outings next week?

cateyes1001

[taxi_driver]

Originally Posted by cateyes1001

On one hand, I am looking forward to go back to SHA next week but on the otherhand, I am afraid to live alone in her gf empty appt. Yes, afraid. Afraid of boredom and loneliness. I have got no friends in SHA except my gf and her gf only. My work does not requires me to live in China because my customers are non-china. Everyday after I done with my emails, there is nothing much I could do in SHA. I came to live in SHA is because of her.

Dear Bro cateyes1001,
U r a fortunate guy, u
1. don need to wake up 7m8m to go to office
2. don need to deal with tough customers
3. don need to face the difficult employees
4. got gf
5. free and easy
6. ......
What else do u need?
Zhabei may be a little bit worn down compare to other districts, however, fr the place u stayed, u have exposed to the local tradition & culture, most of us don get this chance. U should have benefitted a lot through the experienced and these should have made u a better person.

I do not have much advise to give, however,
if u don like Zhabei, u can always find another place to stay,
if u feel lonely, may be u can ask ur parents to come,
if ............
what else do u need? U tell me, how many bros here can help u on this matter? Afterall, don make life difficult for urself.

Shit! I better go to work, otherwise, cannot meet the daily quota to cover the car rental and petrol.......

Vroom..........

[Faidenk]

Originally Posted by cateyes1001

I have a SHA gf who live with me in zhabei. I must say it is a tough experience living together because of different up bringings and cultures. About 3 weeks ago, I had a big fight (not physical lah) with my gf. In a fit of anger, I moved out and temporary housed in one of her best gf empty appt in beijing xi lu. Her gf tries to mediate things for us and at last my gf said maybe it is better for us to live separately for awhile. I left for HKG on business 2 weeks ago and I just got back to SIN. Me and my gf still talks casually phone the phone but avoided sensitive subject of me moving back to her place.

On one hand, I am looking forward to go back to SHA next week but on the otherhand, I am afraid to live alone in her gf empty appt. Yes, afraid. Afraid of boredom and loneliness. I have got no friends in SHA except my gf and her gf only. My work does not requires me to live in China because my customers are non-china. Everyday after I done with my emails, there is nothing much I could do in SHA. I came to live in SHA is because of her.

I wanted to ask all the experience people here, is it difficult to live in SHA alone? ie no office, no gf, no friends and etc. I may give it a try next week when I am in SHA to live alone. Is there any bros here which I can meet up for chats or outings next week?

cateyes1001

The paradox is - when we are alone, we want to have someone to snuggle up to, but being human, this inevitably brings conflicts, then we are pissed. This is true not only for your situation, but for a typical married life as well.

I don't know how many times I wished I had never married, but now that I am, I just couldn't bear the idea of being alone without the family.

Life itself is a paradox, for example, a couple meet, found each other attractive and ends up in bed. Underneath the surface, each of them has a different reason and motivation for staying together. The man gives her love in exchange for sex, while she gives sex in exchange for love. One action, different reason.

So my friend, whether it is this girl, or that, the problem exists and will not go away. If you think it's bad now, wait till she becomes your wife. Not to discourage, not your fault nor the female party, but I think it's just a sad fact of life.

[cateyes1001]

Hi TaxiDriver,
Thanks for your advice. Ya, I may seem a bit lucky in terms of my work freedom but I believe every jobs has its pros and cons. As for my job, I am being electronically chained 24/7 via mobile, emails and blackberry; even when I take my vacations, I had to lug around my laptop too.

You are right regarding Zhabei area. It is a eye operner for me.

Bringing my parents to SHA is out of the question lah. Medical care is so much better in SIN than in whole of china unless one is willing to pay exorbitant medical price for 1st class service.

I hope I can enlarge my circle of friends in SHA if I want to continue to stay in SHA. I am currently temporary housed in one of her gf empty appt. If I can overcome my fears of living alone in SHA (fear in terms of boredom and loniness), I may have to look for a nice appt to rent and stay.

I will be in SHA next week and I hope I can meet up with you one of these days.

Cateyes1001

[cateyes1001]

Originally Posted by Faidenk

The paradox is - when we are alone, we want to have someone to snuggle up to, but being human, this inevitably brings conflicts, then we are pissed. This is true not only for your situation, but for a typical married life as well.

I don't know how many times I wished I had never married, but now that I am, I just couldn't bear the idea of being alone without the family.

Life itself is a paradox, for example, a couple meet, found each other attractive and ends up in bed. Underneath the surface, each of them has a different reason and motivation for staying together. The man gives her love in exchange for sex, while she gives sex in exchange for love. One action, different reason.

So my friend, whether it is this girl, or that, the problem exists and will not go away. If you think it's bad now, wait till she becomes your wife. Not to discourage, not your fault nor the female party, but I think it's just a sad fact of life.

Hi Faidenk,

Your paradox of life is well said and I totally agreed with you. I will be in SHA next week and I hope we can meet up for a drinks.

Cateyes1001

[nongho]

Originally Posted by cateyes1001

On one hand, I am looking forward to go back to SHA next week but on the otherhand, I am afraid to live alone in her gf empty appt. Yes, afraid. Afraid of boredom and loneliness. I have got no friends in SHA except my gf and her gf only. My work does not requires me to live in China because my customers are non-china. Everyday after I done with my emails, there is nothing much I could do in SHA. I came to live in SHA is because of her.
cateyes1001

Hi bro,

U sound to me like one love lost puppy. Different people got different backgrounds and cultures. U can't force her either can she force you. You just have to adapt to the surroundings and environments as well as accept the people and their cultures here.

Not many people gets to live in Shanghai and experience what you are experiencing. Take it as a nice experience. You just have to find yourself where you would fit in to the society here.

If you are really facing problem with your gf. Talk to her. Communication is an important aspect in a relationship. What do u guys want to achieve out of this relationship??...Try to solve the problem and not shy away from it.
Then think for yourself too.. is Shanghai really the place you want to stay? What is your future plans?...

U r staying alone and not paying rent...what more you want to ask??....This is Shanghai...there are many girls out there for you to choose from...staying alone means you can bring different girls to your place for an overnite party...hahahahaha....can even have different gfs every week too..hahaha..

If you r afraid of boredom and loneliness....go find yourself a hobby...Shanghai is so big for you to go around and explore. I'm sure there are plenty of girls out there waiting for you.
You just have to find a way to cure your own boredom and loneliness...none of the bros here can help you much i reckon.

Only advice I can give is solve your gf problem first then decide where you want yourself to be or where you think you would like to be....

ok ok i better stop...if i keep going on bro shengge will ask me how come I not doing work...hahahahaha..

cheers
nongho