OPP

[Gallant97]

OPP considered NSA?

[Penofthewest]

I pray every night that thread starter’s wife, daughter and mother get fked by other men all the time, and that his daughter or granddaughter if any gets cheated upon by men their entire life

On my way to pray again…

Horny just spend money. Fk other people wife or husband for fk?

[UncleHasBeen]

Originally Posted by Gallant97

Bro, from your perspective for OPP, does it considered as NSA (No strings Attached) since you are aiming for ladies who are just seeking thrill and fun only? How do you know they are dick raiders or those aiming for FWB?

OPP relationship could entails NSA depending on how each party plays it.
I dont specifically aim for a niche genre or labels of women.
I approach all and gauge the response.
I cant be sure if they are in for the thrill or fun or just companionship.
Also, i wont know upfront if they are dick raiders or looking for something like FWB.

Women like most are an onion of emotions.
Could be complex or just simply layered up to be discovered all the way to their core.
We wont know exactly what they are looking for at first and still wont know after.
Many think these women just want a dick shoved up their pussies or asses.

I am sure the act of sex is just the by product of what they really want.

[UncleHasBeen]

Originally Posted by Gallant97

OPP considered NSA?

Also there is this perspective that many here might have missed.
About half of the women i have were single at the moment we started.
Hence on the context of OPP would be these women looking at me as an OPP than me at them.

OPP works both way and this thread is also for both ways.
I am surprised that many think local women are conservative.

They are conservative in their ideology, mostly i would agree.
But their desires, are not.
If they think they wouldnt be caught, what is stopping them.

I am absolutely fucking sure many other samsters here can attest or resonate with me.
There are plenty of local women will go for what they want even it means spreading their thighs.
I am not talking about commercial transactions.

Everything is a trade.
To women, sex is a pleasurable action if between willing parties.
If u are a player enough, old enough.
U know what i am driving at.

Do u really think our dicks can satisfy a women's lust?
A fuck is good enough.
Or that they want our dicks, really?

Sex has never been important or couldnt live without to women.
So why these women willing to stray or willing to start it with an OPP like me or u?
Why of all labels, OPP seems attractive to some and even those 'conservative' local women?

[UncleHasBeen]

Our last pic together during a sexcation 2022. Our fave nearest sexcation spot.
She was getting ready for her marriage, even cut her hair for it.

She is my 3rd loss this year, this one is bitter sweet for me.
We have been together for about 6 years.
We met in SG, 2017. She moved back to Malaysia last year.

She is 18 years my junior. She has the biggest of age gap with me among my FWB/OPP.
We met when she was 28 and I was 46.
We ended about 1.5 months ago, she got married.
Happy for her.

[UncleHasBeen]

Our fave sexcation spot, Nongsa Point Marina & Resort.

While she moved back to Malaysia, we still meet up once a month or so to fuck.
At that time, she already told me that she was meeting someone, and it could be serious and committal type.
Even so, we kept fucking.

She doesn’t meet me solely for sex, maybe it was at the beginning.
But as we know each other more through time, she has developed feelings for me.
Not the feelings for committed relationship but one that is dependable.
That is she can count on me for support emotionally.
And she reciprocates my support with intimacy and sex.

We met at a dance school too.
As I mentioned before, my fave place to meet them, dance schools.
I changed dance school almost every 18 months or so and I have willing pussies at every one of them.

[Peacekeeping]

Originally Posted by UncleHasBeen

OPP relationship could entails NSA depending on how each party plays it.
I dont specifically aim for a niche genre or labels of women.
I approach all and gauge the response.
I cant be sure if they are in for the thrill or fun or just companionship.
Also, i wont know upfront if they are dick raiders or looking for something like FWB.

Women like most are an onion of emotions.
Could be complex or just simply layered up to be discovered all the way to their core.
We wont know exactly what they are looking for at first and still wont know after.
Many think these women just want a dick shoved up their pussies or asses.

I am sure the act of sex is just the by product of what they really want.

Would you go on non-sexual dates with married women just to find out what they want? Your picture don’t look like a typical uncle. At least you are not fat. Good job maintaining it.

[necrolim]

Originally Posted by UncleHasBeen

Nice sharing. Were there more after this 'first' OPP?

Sadly no. Perhaps my experience can become as wide as yours one day.

[UncleHasBeen]

Originally Posted by Peacekeeping

Would you go on non-sexual dates with married women just to find out what they want? Your picture don’t look like a typical uncle. At least you are not fat. Good job maintaining it.

Of course bro! Its a must for me and my style of approach.
Any women who responds to my flirt (subtle and causal), i like to wine and dine them first.
It has to be that slow build up.
It is worth putting in the time at this stage if u are looking for a long term FWB (could be a OPP) rather than a Wham Bam Thank You Ma'am scenario.

Especially married women, they would appreciate such wine and dine approach more.
Though i met some who spread their thighs on the first wine and dine.
Usually these are the ones who is in it for the thrill only.
They are the 'dial-a-dick' women. Met some of these.
I am not fond of these.

Thanks for the compliment.
I dont have a sculpted bod but i just keep it average.
Exercise regularly, watch what i eat and get enough sleep.
More my own health than for the purpose of prowling for OPP/FWB.

[UncleHasBeen]

Originally Posted by necrolim

Sadly no. Perhaps my experience can become as wide as yours one day.

Strive and works toward one that will stay with u the longest.
That would be the ultimate goal of having OPP/FWB otherwise its just another fling with way too much risks. Not worth it.

[UncleHasBeen]

Our first pic together in 2017 for dance project. She was not my dance partner, never did.
But she is my sex partner since.

Early 2017 I joined this dance school in the CBD.
She was already there when I joined.
Never really noticed her at first.
Then one day overheard the younger women were talking among themselves about her.

Heard her name mentioned. It was then I was curious about her.
I started to find out more about her and I saw and noticed her the first time.
Love her figure, those chubby Bak-Bak type. More than ample size breasts and hips.
Meaty all round, my type. Started talking to her casually.
Not even flirting yet.

She was friendly and a little shy and maybe wary.
The younger women in the dance school was poking fun at her figure.
Ya, women body-shame other women are the worst.
Seen it so many times at other setting. Same shit.
No one can judge critically as a woman can, not even exaggerating here.

Anyway, I slowly up my communication style with her to sublime flirting.
Then causal flirting. Suggestive flirting. Casual body contact.
About 6 weeks later, she asked me out for a drink.
She asked me do I have to freedom to go out with single women as I am married.

Yup, that tone and language is a precursor for things to come.
I was bidding my time all the way. Then we went out for drinks.

[UncleHasBeen]

She is a square pussy. She is aware of her figure, and she does not sexualize it or embrace it.
According to her, her parents did a number on that. Typical Asian Chinese parents on daughters.
Quite hard to find pic of her in a revealing outfit in public.

On the 8th week, which is the end of my dance course, we went out for sort of a celebratory dinner.
I told her I will not continue with the next tier of dance class as I was busy with work.
I need to be overseas for an extended period, like a month.
She suggested we have a drink before I leave and I accepted.
2 nights before I fly off, we had drinks together and that night we kissed for the first time.

I told her I will call her when I am back.
I was back 4 weeks later.
I didn’t meet her until another week later, I need to spend time with my wife too.
She was puzzled that I didn’t agree to meet her immediately.
I am good at that and it is my level 99 one punch skill. I can tahan.

Then we met for drinks. Just kissed that was all.
The very next day during lunch time she called me and asked me if I want to spend the night with her at a hotel that very night.
It was a Friday and that was how we started.

[UncleHasBeen]

This was taken when she was in Malaysia, her home.
She started sending me such pics more often than usual.
Liked I said she is a square pussy and she does not send revealing pics.
And with this we met and fucked about once a month even when she started a new relationship with her soon to be husband.

So to keep me wanting her still, she kept sending me this pics to showcase her maintained figure.
Sex was good, not great but good.
It's hard to get her to do anal. Doing anal is not a deal breaker for me.
But it is a mental test, dipstick or evaluation for me.
Its like a litmus for a lot of things.

She is very obliging and explorative.
Most chubby girls or skinny girls are like that.
In a nutshell, women who has little confidence with their body types will go out of their sexual comfort zone to make their sex partner satisfied.

Now for the kicker. Why would someone like her at the age of 28 willing to have a go with me, an uncle of 46 then?

First, at the school I was the only one who make her feel comfortable and confident.
The other younger bitches were fucking toxic and bullies. But I thank them for that.
By the way, those bitches are everywhere in dance, gym and arts school.

Second, when we first met, she was dumped by her then BF.
She thought he was the one until she found out he has been cheating on her.
Worst thing? They are both Malaysians, came to SG to work.
Lived together but he was mesmerized by other chicks.

Ironically, the girl he was fucking was also Malaysian.
When she met me, she was broken, and the dance school bitches were also driving the extra nail to her coffin so to speak.

[UncleHasBeen]

She kept sending me such pics. Its a sign of confidence-lacking and probably anxiety.
But that did make me feel wanted and treasured. It was definitely a compliment and i appreciate it.

Until a seemingly mature uncle came along.
Average looks with a sense of humour and charms.
Very caring and patient. Knowledgeable and understanding.
I was very attractive to her even though I told her I was married.
These are the qualities she find in me, her words.

After being in SG for 5 years, she decided to return to Malaysia at her parents beckons.
To be honest, I was getting worried for her if she stayed in SG.
Career per se, she wasn’t advancing when she should.

I think the fact that she is very comfortable being my side dish or being together with an older married man has caused her to lower her own expectations in life.

I do want her to be my piece for the longest time but she is too young and has a lot more going for her.
So I encouraged her to take her parents advice to return and restart her career there.
It took her quite a fair bit of time and I was really worried that our relationship might have clouded her judgement.
Eventually she saw it. And she left. It was hard for me but I am glad that she did that.

I want the pussies but I have no wish to tatter their lives when I can easily walkaway.
Especially the young and single women.
Men are mostly rule by their dicks while women are by their hearts.
I always advocate, fuck their pussies but not their hearts.

[Peacekeeping]

She has the Constance song vibes.