Singaporeans are Suckers at least thats what some think of us...

[Yokosi]

Another factor to think about is the Singapore economy, the strong Sing $ and your pay !.

The girls believe that Singapore is an industrial economy ( not developing nor 3rd world ), it is strong and moving ahead. The strong Sing $ is most preferred and you Singaporeans are generally well paid ( more so than your neighbouring countries cheongsters in general ). And hence really don't mind parting some $$$ for their upkeep.

With these factors considered, the girls set their target on you and believe that they can con away your $$$ more readily than , say, Malaysians who are paid less ,in lousy weak MYR, with a slow "developing economy ".

I joked and said i am Yipun, Korea or Sing and i had girls sticking to me ( happened in HCM, JKT, BKK ) !. I honestly commented that i am Malai and they are not so interested !!!!.

[DNAT]

Originally Posted by Ronaldo

And if you think you can make the difference or think you are the special one, you are most likely digging your own grave

Typical examples of the above are:

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Óáºé½ð(Сºé)Ãü°¸

ÉÆÔÕ .... ÉÆÔÕ ....

[adidas88]

Originally Posted by rocketscientist

That guy was the 3rd top ranking man in command at Tuas. Usually this type of thing is close on eye coverup but in this case maybe he piss off people from higher up so they dun give chance

definately kenna sabo ..... must have pissed some VIP off ...

[adidas88]

Originally Posted by Yokosi

Another factor to think about is the Singapore economy, the strong Sing $ and your pay !.

The girls believe that Singapore is an industrial economy ( not developing nor 3rd world ), it is strong and moving ahead. The strong Sing $ is most preferred and you Singaporeans are generally well paid ( more so than your neighbouring countries cheongsters in general ). And hence really don't mind parting some $$$ for their upkeep.

With these factors considered, the girls set their target on you and believe that they can con away your $$$ more readily than , say, Malaysians who are paid less ,in lousy weak MYR, with a slow "developing economy ".

I joked and said i am Yipun, Korea or Sing and i had girls sticking to me ( happened in HCM, JKT, BKK ) !. I honestly commented that i am Malai and they are not so interested !!!!.

well said bro ...
CN gals love singapore men ... possible reason other than we r honest, reliable, passionate and loving ... (some might not agreed) ...
they also believe we r naive and ignorant ....
this thinking is due to the past histories of singapore men cheonging in CN ...
we read lots of these in papers ...

my thai friend .. whenever he cheong with me in other country will never mention he's from thailand ...

to all singaporean .... we r very fortunate and blessed ...
so pls don't take it for granted ...

[Thai_Traveller]

Originally Posted by adidas88

it's "different" becoz it's a different gal all the time ...
it's "genuine" becoz they have not see the fake one yet ...


wait till u hear abt the house roof being blown away and need repairs and their home town buffalo got sick and need medications ...

that's a good one.....hehehe...but for me, i will never part with my $$$ if i hear fairy tale like this...

[Ronaldo]

Originally Posted by DNAT

Typical examples of the above are:

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ÉÆÔÕ .... ÉÆÔÕ ....

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[Ronaldo]

Originally Posted by adidas88

well said bro ...
CN gals love singapore men ... possible reason other than we r honest, reliable, passionate and loving ... (some might not agreed)

Nahz... They prefer Singaporean men because we can understand Chinese better on the average. Communication is the key...

Imagine, if she wants to convince you to "loan" her RMB5000, she needs to tell you alot of stories, with expressions, some tears and still act independent about it....

And you dont bloody understand what the hell she is saying, your conversation might be peppered with 我是说，我喜欢你，你知道？喜欢？， 不是你的钱。我是觉得，你就如我的知己，你知道？知己？可以和我，共患难？患难你不知道？ 天啊！！

How to make a convincing script? hehehehe

[adidas88]

Originally Posted by Ronaldo

Nahz... They prefer Singaporean men because we can understand Chinese better on the average. Communication is the key...

quite truth ... but don't forget taiwanese understand chinese too ..

Originally Posted by Ronaldo

我是说，我喜欢你，你知道？喜欢？， 不是你的钱。我是觉得，你就如我的知己，你知道？知己？可以和我，共患难？患难你不知道？

there must be some kind of course where the mm's can study these and memorise them ...
it's so familiar ....

[DNAT]

Originally Posted by Ronaldo

????

I was just citing 2 examples of \'diggin their own graves\' .... these are 2 homicides which involved CN woman & Sg man, which took place in Spore - big case mentioned in the media.

[DNAT]

Originally Posted by petrolheadsg

Also got many other stories about gals whose parents are sick and in hospital ...all cookie cutter stories....

I also cookie cutter cut loose and ...move on!!! many fish in the sea haha

Singaporlianz men are °×·ïÍè ....... ¸øÅ®ÈË³ÔµÄ - hehehe

[Ronaldo]

Originally Posted by DNAT

I was just citing 2 examples of \'diggin their own graves\' .... these are 2 homicides which involved CN woman & Sg man, which took place in Spore - big case mentioned in the media.

Oh.. it is encrypted where I see them... into some Arabic-like wordings....

[DNAT]

Originally Posted by Ronaldo

Oh.. it is encrypted where I see them... into some Arabic-like wordings....

opppps sorry, please use encoding to change it .. thanks

[petrolheadsg]

Here is more reports in the same vein... (reposted)

Mon, Oct 29, 2007
AsiaOne

Prostitute: Singapore men are stupid

Singaporean men are considerate, generous and yet, stupid.

Such was the conclusion of a former Geylang sex worker, when she revealed her thoughts and feelings about working in Singapore's red light district.

The 36-year-old woman, who is not identified, says she is from Hunan, China, had personally delivered an open letter to Lianhe Wanbao. It was featured on the Chinese evening daily's front page yesterday. The letter was titled: The Men and Women of Geylang.

She observes in her letter that the attractive Geylang streetwalkers attract men's attention, and Singaporean drivers like to pass by Geylang to ogle at the scene. She also notes that while Singaporean men are generally lowly-educated and not very rich, they know how to maintain themselves, are polite and well-mannered.

The woman was dressed simply in a white shirt and shorts, with light makeup and slightly permed hair. She had a calm, quiet manner, and spoke with a gentle tone to the Lianhe Wanbao reporter.

She said she wanted to chronicle her four months working as a sex worker before returning to China. Having spent time here in Singapore, she claims that she had feelings for the country and the letter included her thoughts and reflections as well as her personal experiences in Geylang. She even had thoughts of settling down with a local man, but decided against it because Singaporean men were naive and fell easily for the charms of streetwalkers.

The woman claimed that she turned to vice after she could not find work here. She said she used to own a factory in Hunan, but encountered difficulty after her husband was sentenced to 15 years' jail for corruption in China. She became a taxi driver to support her family, but was involved in an accident and had to pay compensation of about $20,000.

But she had felt ashamed initially about becoming a sex worker. But after her 11-year-old son in China asked if she had found a job, she felt so sad that she decided to cast aside her pride.

In the letter, which took her a week to complete, she penned her thoughts about the men who are her clients.

"No matter how well you treat these streetwalkers, they will always see you as a fool. When you sympathise with them, you will definitely offer them money to support them. But behind your backs, they call you stupid and laugh at how they have just conned you of your money."

Working from 8pm to 7am every day, she would get 7 to 8 customers on a good night, and charged $40 to $50 per session. Customers would give tips occasionally too. In a month she can earn $3,000 to $4,000. But she stressed that she was not proud of how she earned her keep.

She had a word of advise for her clients, who come from all walks of life: "Don't spend all your money in a moment of lust, because you have also worked very hard for it. You are not only hurting your health, but also your wallet. You are also putting your family's harmony at risk."

[3dee]

this is an interesting topic to talk about, let me also contribute my personal view points...

Originally Posted by PuTonRen

Agree with you, Brother,
After more than 16 years in China, my humble conclusion is that Singapore Men are not stupid, but too soft or kind hearted. I behaved in this way when I first set foot in China. For some KTV girls whom I liked, I felt that they should not have been in this line at all, and tried my best to help them. In the end, disappointment and feeling cheated are the results.
For younger Singapore Men, please wise up, there are good and sincere girls, but the bottom line is that, they are working in this line for one reason: Money, no matter whether it is due to hardship or other reasons best known to themselves.
My 2 cent worth.

i bet most of the cheongsters have gone through the similar way as you.

even you give the advices to the newbies, but very likely, your advice will never be heard... or maybe, he heard, but the small head will overwrite all the logical decisions made by the big head...

what to do, no pain no gain, and that is how we become wiser. experience is something that cannot be taught, you need to go through the process in order to own it.

by seeing bros in-and-out CP/CA/DG every month, sad to say that the same stories happening every month...

Originally Posted by petrolheadsg

So true but I guess most of these lessons need to be learned the hard way. EVerytime I come across a brother who is "mesmerized" I hear the same/similar story but every brother who is "mesmerized" also insists that theirs is "different" and is a "genuine" case!!!
Here is a recent example to prove your point of how lazy these girls are. Btw I must qualify that I help but only to limited extent (dont go too far and they need to help themselves too)
I also cookie cutter cut loose and ...move on!!! many fish in the sea haha

bro, life in singapore is too stable... or the impolite word: "boring".

when you cross over there, out of the thousand girls, it is very easy for you to find some that meet all your criteria, your dream girl! that will likely to create the hope.

life without hope is boring, life with the hope is exciting. when you have hope, the day is always birght, the sun is always shine, the flower is always smiling on you and you will feel that you are the real HERO or the SUPERSTAR!!!!

that is one of the reason why every bor who is "mesmerized", will still always insists that theirs is "different" and is a "genuine" case...

Originally Posted by Ronaldo

Hahahaa... Good one there...
But then again, while we are pointing fingers, we must also know where we stand. Some bros will tell the girls this and that, the sex, lies and videotapes kinda shit... Some of us are married with families in Singapore, yet behave as though as they are single.
I guess this cheonging game, it can only be fun if both parties know the rules.
My favourite line is 我很喜欢你，但是我们相遇的地方不对。如果是在另一个地方，我一定会和你在一起！
Well, it sorta gives the girl the line drawn and also, a good KC fuck in the night... Hahahaha... Bringing them into the Taiwanese drama scene where they think they are the lead actress... Often forsaken but will do everything for LOVE...

i like your line, "我很喜欢你，但是我们相遇的地方不对。如果是在另一个地方，我一定会和你在一起！", cool man!

it is good that you let the MM to feel that they are like the actress; but one point to note, they are facing the customer everyday, they are on the training ground everyday, their acting skill could be higher than you.

singaporeans are always being recognised as the protected population, and never been to the real and cruel war, what makes you feel that you have the higher skill than them?
(just an open questions, no offence though)

most of the time, i found that the case is another way round, most bros feel the are the lead actor instead the girl...

Originally Posted by adidas88

CN gals love singapore men ... possible reason other than we r honest, reliable, passionate and loving ... (some might not agreed) ...
they also believe we r naive and ignorant ....
this thinking is due to the past histories of singapore men cheonging in CN ...
we read lots of these in papers ...
my thai friend .. whenever he cheong with me in other country will never mention he's from thailand ...
to all singaporean .... we r very fortunate and blessed ...
so pls don't take it for granted ...

bro, honest, reliable, passionate and loving are those words we created to mesmerize ourselves, so that we could feel better.

in the money game, there is only one word leading the entire game: MONEY.

next time, you may try to ask the girl: "i am honest, reliable, passionate and loving but i do not have money, will you go out with me??"

or you may call your girl from singapore and try to tell her: "i missed you so much, so i decided to fly over to meet you for one week, but i do not have money, will you welcome me?"

(side track a bit, if the girl is a pro, then you will die until jialat jialat... believe me, don't play this tactic with the pro!!! )


one common reason why china MM likes to have singapore boyfriend is because you will not be there with them everyday.

for most of the singaporeans, we cannot travel as frequent as hkee, hence, getting a singapore "boyfriend" will be an easy money for the MMs. they just have to serve you few days a month and while you are not around, the have pletty time to do something else!

if you are the "boyfriend" of the girl, don't be happy when you call her from overseas and she tells you that she is at home watching tv, or shopping with friends or playing the mahjong... have lots of discussions about this on other threads, guess i don't have to explain further....

[adidas88]

Originally Posted by 3dee

even you give the advices to the newbies, but very likely, your advice will never be heard... or maybe, he heard, but the small head will overwrite all the logical decisions made by the big head...
what to do, no pain no gain, and that is how we become wiser. experience is something that cannot be taught, you need to go through the process in order to own it.

totally agreed and well said ....

Originally Posted by 3dee

bro, life in singapore is too stable... or the impolite word: "boring".

cannot agreed anything less .... unless u r filthy rich and can cheong KTV, MP's every nites .. else it's just stay at home and watch TV ...

Originally Posted by 3dee

singaporeans are always being recognised as the protected population...

maybe singaporean can qualify as endangered species ...

Originally Posted by 3dee

it is good that you let the MM to feel that they are like the actress; but one point to note, they are facing the customer everyday, they are on the training ground everyday, their acting skill could be higher than you.

what training ground ?? they r orledi in the killing fields ..
so don't think we can be smart enough to outdo them ...
kenna kill also don't know what happened ...

Originally Posted by 3dee

bro, honest, reliable, passionate and loving are those words we created to mesmerize ourselves, so that we could feel better.

don't think we create this mesmerizes ...
we have to accept the facts that in general, most singaporean men are ..
not everyone ... but most ...

Originally Posted by 3dee

in the money game, there is only one word leading the entire game: MONEY.

DEFINATELY .... MONEY TALKS, MONEY WALKS ..
if u have money ... u can then talk the talk and walk the walk ...

Originally Posted by 3dee

if you are the "boyfriend" of the girl, don't be happy when you call her from overseas and she tells you that she is at home watching tv, or shopping with friends or playing the mahjong...

Oh .. this part can only be realise by those who have been played before in the game ...