No longer interested in OC

[bergkamp2]

yo bro, good advice.

but most married go for ECA due to CO low sex drive, everytime we hv needs she keeps rejecting. After a while, also feel sian. Go eat out, do, pay and forget...gets pamper and fulfill your fantasy too...

[pga69]

Originally Posted by hubber27

I agree with turner. Kids will be the primary concern while sex comes later. Have or dun have is ok with me. Me always find ECA outside, pay and forget. Life as married man is like that.

ya i fully agree. not that my oc is out of shape, but i also no urge. i rather hug my boy in the bed than her sometime is phobia when u smell invitation for sex

Originally Posted by bergkamp2

yo bro, good advice.

but most married go for ECA due to CO low sex drive, everytime we hv needs she keeps rejecting. After a while, also feel sian. Go eat out, do, pay and forget...gets pamper and fulfill your fantasy too...

Bro, not true let, quite a number is want variety and not bcos OC low sex drive leh ...

[pga69]

Originally Posted by bergkamp2

glad to hear a lot of married brothers here hv ECAs...
initially feel guilty when facing CO, but as time goes by, no guilt liao

WL main bulk of business come from married men - hahahah.

[Ronsee]

I remember when i was just married, sex was like 4-5 times per week without fail and every session is always full of excitement. That lasted until about 2 yrs later when my baby girl was born...and after that our sex life totally took a downturn.

During her pregnacy for 10mths we had totally no sex...my wife dont like BJs..and would only do HJs for me when i neeeded to release the urge.

Overall it was misery during my 10 mths when she was pregnant.

Then after baby born, somemore 1 mth confinement cannot bonk. After confinement, still complain her wound hadnt heal and she wanted to wait for the period to over then bonk. In all i waited almost 12 mths before i had my first bonk with her..

Now my daughter is already 26 mths old...and guess what my session with her had deteriorated to like 1-2 times per month nia...and somemore no more excitement. I had to literally beg her sometimes before she would give. Its like shes lost her drive for it totally. I dont seem to understand why.

Anyway, ECA has been my cup of tea for the pass years and it has given me a new lease of life as regards to my sex life. Men are men we have our needs and its sad when we need to take it to other women outside our marriage to fulfil those needs.

My wife is still attractive, but that alone is what makes me feel sad when she rejects me when i ask for it.

And honestly, she have her sacrifices for the family so have i. In the end its a roleplay of husband and wife that have broken down.

I still love my family very much and they get the best of what i can give them. However when it comes to carnal desires, its where my eyes look beyond my home and the women outside will fill the void.

I m not encouraging bros to have outside flings or get WLs outside. But its circumstances like these in life that compels me to look outside and find solitude and comfort in the arms of other women.

Just my 2 cents

Ronsee

[juzjoin]

Originally Posted by MG69

but her bbbj is still very good so now i only like that from her.......

bro count urself lucky tat ur CO still enjoy BBBJ, not many CO of married men does BBBJ for their men.

[pokeman71]

Bro, this is no GOOD. OC is your base commander. A base without a base commander will get hay-wire.

No body stop you from fxxking around. You can fxxk around 3x, 5x or 7x a week. But regimental still have to perform. Lot of ppl hate/dislike GOV, but still paid them tax because they take care of your base.

Maybe you can try think of your lover when fxxking your OC.

[JoeJo]

Originally Posted by darrendon

Of course I do not deny that guys are visual animals but think of it. Her body changed is also because of you. She sacrifices her own body because she wants to bear your kids.

Well said!!!!!
We must learn to appreciate their sacrifice.

[Niceman]

Bro Ace7788,

Er.... not referring to foreplay leh, I meant, ECA b4 and after s3x with OC

[ragnarclaw]

Originally Posted by MG69

after the second child, wifey body is all gone pretty out of shape. now no longer have the urge to have sex with her anymore.......

Bro if you dont mind spending abit money, there's always a slimming centre out there. I believe after the slimming session, you'll have double thought on your sex life again.

[Niceman]

Chinese saying goes, "There is no ugly woman, only lazy woman"

[tommyboy290906]

Hi fellows......to share some finding to deal with your wif, same problem with my wife previously. I did not lost hope for that after having read some reports about women after marriage. Some methods you folks should try;

1) try TCM remedy like tong quai, maca roots or some female enhancing pills.
2) try some xxx rated movies before sex
3) vibrator
4) a huge dido to streatch the pussy, after birth the normally the pussy is much bigger so.... our manhood cannot fulfill her desire so easily.
5) some outdoor sex might help
6) light on in your bedroom with partial curtian being drawn to increase the atmoshere of being seen (excitment which she is looking for)

I found out that she fantasize about gandbang & love a huge dido a brought for her. And now sex is weekly affair.

The next in thing..... PT-141 the next nasal spray viagra for female.

[hotsoup16]

For me, more as age catching up and busy with the kids. Simply no time for wife.hmm....I can't remember when was the last time we had sex..4 , 5 or 6 mths ago. Prefer to PCC nowaday

[hotsoup16]

Originally Posted by tommyboy290906

Hi fellows......to share some finding to deal with your wif, same problem with my wife previously. I did not lost hope for that after having read some reports about women after marriage. Some methods you folks should try;

1) try TCM remedy like tong quai, maca roots or some female enhancing pills.
2) try some xxx rated movies before sex
3) vibrator
4) a huge dido to streatch the pussy, after birth the normally the pussy is much bigger so.... our manhood cannot fulfill her desire so easily.
5) some outdoor sex might help
6) light on in your bedroom with partial curtian being drawn to increase the atmoshere of being seen (excitment which she is looking for)

I found out that she fantasize about gandbang & love a huge dido a brought for her. And now sex is weekly affair.

The next in thing..... PT-141 the next nasal spray viagra for female.

I had tried almost all that u had mentioned. No more idea already

[Peregrine]

Originally Posted by hotsoup16

For me, more as age catching up and busy with the kids. Simply no time for wife.hmm....I can't remember when was the last time we had sex..4 , 5 or 6 mths ago. Prefer to PCC nowaday

Bro how old r u??Even u don't want,doesn't mean ur wife too.....I too abit bored with my wife but i still make at least once a week with her and yet she still complain alot......