will you promise your girlfriend that you will marry her just to fuck her?

[heartguy]

Originally Posted by Spytheman

I got a friend who got pregnant after patching with her Ex bf. He claimed he got no galfriend and yes she believed and yup do what they did. B4 he fuck her raw in his car , he said he will marry her if she got pregnant. he kind of forice her to it. Then now my friend is truly pregnant , den he avoid her call , said he got cancer and he also attempt to beat her up when she finally get to see her. This guy is a singaporean and the gal is a malaysian. she is keeping the baby. What do you think of this guy ?
What can she do ?
HAi ...

now i know why many ppl dun like singaporean becos we have this kind of fuck up ppl in singapore

[dap26]

For the sake of enjoyment,he can promise anything and later siam far far...

[Retribution]

I think he is a damn disgrace to us Singaporean males. He is a lying cheat and low life. I hope retribution strikes him swiftly.

[glamourist]

maybe she can report it in the newspaper like what happened 2 years back. when it was virtually on the news about a scholar holder dumping the pregnant girlfriend. if it was me, i would go ahead with doing that.

[Ahnook78]

pity the gal as she has to face the consequences for life...

[Cocky]

Agreed with all the bro, this guy action suck big time. But again (I got a friend who got pregnant after patching with her Ex bf.) what cos the break up? Bcos I think this guy is out to get even with your girl friend, what cos he to have this action? Getting your girl friend tummy big than dump her? Is it bcos your girl friend dump him for another man that why he is getting back on her?

[jinrenhe]

First to answer ur qns... i wouldn't .

Few yrs back (when i was still happily in love), i asked my then gf for sex since we've been doing nearly everything other than intercourse. she said ok if i promised to marry her.
Given that kinda of circumstances, actually i was pretty sure i would get what i wanted had i jus gave her a casual promise. But somehow deep down, i wasn't sure if she was the one, probably cos i was still pinning for my ex.

I guess i did a dumb thing by telling her - i can't promise her anything cos we're still young, and ended up releasing by hand instead of a nite of hot sex.

After we broke up, my close fren (who knows of this) say i wasted never fuck her. To be honest i felt a bit silly too but at least my conscience is clear.. i can proudly tell myself i have never lied to the gal i liked

[chai1020]

Originally Posted by jinrenhe

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Few yrs back (when i was still happily in love), i asked my then gf for sex since we've been doing nearly everything other than intercourse. she said ok if i promised to marry her.
Given that kinda of circumstances, actually i was pretty sure i would get what i wanted had i jus gave her a casual promise. But somehow deep down, i wasn't sure if she was the one, probably cos i was still pinning for my ex.

I guess i did a dumb thing by telling her - i can't promise her anything cos we're still young, and ended up releasing by hand instead of a nite of hot sex.

Had a similar experience many years back with my ex gf.... was together with her for more den a year n through out the past year we did everything except sex....it was only till abt after we were together for 2 years den she suddenly ask me one night if i wanted sex.....i was sure both of us were virgins at that time....

I was stupid enough to tell her i would prefer to wait till after we got married....when i think back now i really felt i was such a idiot dat time haha....

[jinrenhe]

Originally Posted by chai1020

I was stupid enough to tell her i would prefer to wait till after we got married....when i think back now i really felt i was such a idiot dat time haha....

Haha ya i think guys like are us getting extinct now...

[JWNY]

I say shame the bugger...he dare take SBF on, we take a hatchet, we meet in the cul-de-sac.

JWNY

[MMM88]

Originally Posted by jinrenhe

First to answer ur qns... i wouldn't .

Few yrs back (when i was still happily in love), i asked my then gf for sex since we've been doing nearly everything other than intercourse. she said ok if i promised to marry her.
what i wanted had i jus gave her a casual promise. But somehow deep down, i wasn't sure if she was the one, probably cos i was still pinning for my ex.

I guess i did a dumb thing by telling her - i can't promise her anything cos we're still young, and ended up releasing by hand instead of a nite of hot sex.

After we broke up, my close fren (who knows of this) say i wasted never fuck her. To be honest i felt a bit silly too but at least my conscience is clear.. i can proudly tell myself i have never lied to the gal i liked

yeah ....i knoe wat u mean ......had tat experience during my freshman year...t thought of lifelong commitment then jus could'nt connect ...jus dun wanna feel obligated .....like u , i am glad i did what i did then

[Glen2712]

Originally Posted by JWNY

I say shame the bugger...he dare take SBF on, we take a hatchet, we meet in the cul-de-sac.

JWNY

Easy... Bro JWNY... Easy, just snap off his sperm duct is sufficient.

[jinrenhe]

anyone watching Ch U talkshow 有话就说 now...

the topic is on single/unwed mom

the first guest is Maia Lee

the second guest - quite a hot looking woman is really really a classic case!!

She is pregnant, her BF absolutely refuse to take any responsibilty but she decides to give birth to the child (now 7 months old). Her parents , beside havin to endure all that social stigma, are so kind to support her wholeheartedly in bringing the child up.
But what's best is... she's still seeing the guy, still giving him free fuck (like what quan yi feng wanted to say out in shock), the very guy who say he doesn't want his name to be on the child's birthcert.

And the woman still feels that "The guy is basically a good man, jus that unwilling to settledown". wow what a good man

I really pity the woman's parents and the kid - how will he see the world when he grows up? his mom still sleepin the man who refuse to acknowledge him and cause him to grow up in a single-parent family..

what a perverse world if u ask me...

[jinrenhe]

This "basically a good man" told her to go for an abortion even up till she was 6 months pregnant and on the day of her delivery called to ensure ... not her safety, but that his name is not on the birthcert.

So she has to burden her near-retirement age parents to take care of the child ... so that (i literally nearly drop my cup noodles when i hear this part) she can continue seeing the "good man", giving him a good time. According to her -her relationship with the man and the child is 2 seperate issues! she feels that he has the "right" not to acknowledge the child..

[_AXL_]

guys, kaypoh a bit, dont mind me. i probably would get zapped for this but i urge bros here not to jump to conclusions yet.

i ever had an ex-colleague who was making big bucks from his mega deals. we were cheonging a lot then. he got to know a m'sian girl who was "studying" in sg in the defunct pleasure dome nitespot. long story short, the girl knew that he had a wife but still got involved with him.

being a nice guy, he "bao" her even though he realised that she didnt really attend classes much at all. one course after another, she continued to stay in sg for like 3 years with him giving her money, paid for her everything here.

he used condoms cos he didnt want any trouble. but the girl still got pregnant. the girl aborted once before, with her singaporean ex-bf the responsible party. this time round, for some reasons, she didnt want to abort and wanted him to be responsible for it, that was to get a divorce with his wife who has bore him 2 sons. failing to get her to go for an abortion, he told her that he was never going to get a divorce. he offered to pay her RM3K per month to give birth to the baby but stay in m'sia.

the girl refused and thus, he walked out of the relationship. then my colleague got beaten up quite badly, losing vision in 1 eye. that was when his wife got to know of it and supported his decision. the girl meanwhile, went back and gave birth to a daughter in m'sia but armed with with the DNA, she filed a claim for child support with the courts. the court granted her S$2.5k for child support, probably according to his high income.

the m'sian girl is now still in sg as a 30+ yr old student, again as someone else's mistress and last heard, she tried the same trick again. S$2.5k is approximately RM6k leh... can live like kings liao!!! why the girl still had to come back into sg??? i still can remember that my colleague was furious when he went to visit his daughter and found that she was just dumped his daugther at her parents' place and her parents were given RM500 each month to take care of the baby while she came back to gallivant in sg again!!!

there r a huge number of single mums in m'sia and sg men r responsible for quite a good percentage of it. but quite a number of these single mums r living the high life due to the favourable exchange rates from the monthly payments by these men. i wont be surprised if there r women who do this for a living. i have also seen women who got abandoned halfway, thus having to come out to sg to become ktv gers lor. dont ask me why sg and why ktv hor, cos i m quite sure that other proper jobs in m'sia can feed her children quite fine as well.

what i m trying to say is not that the TS's m'sian friend is a similar gold-digger but rather that if we really want to know the whole truth, we should know both sides of the story instead of just believing what we want to believe in. the biggest mistake would be to assume in such cases.

to err is human, and to blame it on someone else, is even more human. the real truth, most likely, will only be known to the 2 parties involved. so they r the best people to sit down and negotiate. otherwise, the family courts will decide. and one more thing, no need to report police; just get a lawyer for such cases.