Not feeling happy

[Ddreadedprince]

You are a sad bastard. All you got to do is to believe in yourself and the flow will come at its own.

[chloelin1834]

Ts, dont complain and whine. No woman or man will like it.

Paying for sex is acceptable btw. It is the oldest trade in human history???

[Tubeboy]

Originally Posted by chloelin1834

Ts, dont complain and whine. No woman or man will like it.

Paying for sex is acceptable btw. It is the oldest trade in human history???

Not the oldest but one of the oldest...nice said!

[RTTO]

Bro,

My advise... go to the gym and pump some iron. Be determine. Once you have a fit and muscular body, you will look neat, meaning your face won;t look chubby. This will also build up your self esteem and confident. No one likes a sloppy looking guy/lady.

[Suchos]

Be confident is all i can say. Do some exercise and have some confidence.

[Suchos]

Originally Posted by RTTO

Bro,

My advise... go to the gym and pump some iron. Be determine. Once you have a fit and muscular body, you will look neat, meaning your face won;t look chubby. This will also build up your self esteem and confident. No one likes a sloppy looking guy/lady.

I second that.

[yuddle]

bro, just give up on your strategy and find a wingman. He gets laid, you get laid. Sometimes its not about you...but just belonging to a team.

Originally Posted by Timidshyboy

Visited FL, sex was so so. No chemistry just fuck and go. Want to get girlfriend but too ugly. Went to club but girls don't like me cause I short and of a certain race. Even my own race don't want me. I feel helpless needing to masturbed everytime and everytime I do it I feel even more shitty cause I can't bed a women. My friend even uglier and fatter than me got to fuck a milf and I can't even find women to do it with me. It's very very depressing to know that youre gonna end up with no wife and gf and you have to pay for sex for the rest of your life cause you're ugly and short. Confident wise I bring myself up very well. I initiate and all that but it never happens. I don't know who else to talk to cause everyone says I'm overreacting. Anyone can talk to me and maybe give me an advice or something. If its about accepting my fate then that's it. If it's about helping me out like how to get girls etc I'm Open to listen.

[aksj]

TS, your main problem is ignorance.

Which is sad because there really isn't a lot you have to change AND because, though I don't know you, I believe there is nothing wrong with you that should prevent you from enjoying life.

No one is born with the gift, they've all learned it from their interactions with others. By mimicking the ways of their successful peers and learning from experience- they do more of what works and less of what doesn't. If you were deprived of such learning in the past, for whatever reason that no one will care about when you've made it, you'll have to make up by learning now.

I'm telling you with all sincerity that change can come quickly if you set your mind to it. It took me only a year to go from knowing no one and nothing, to getting the girls and then moving from one to another. I personally have family and friends who have never learned and have wasted tons of their potential. They'll pay a personal and professional price all their lives. I feel I've seen enough to know what I'm talking about.

Lets see. You posted a thread asking for a FB on a forum full of FRs of paid sex. You put out some very loose criteria showing you are desperate. And you've honestly said you've patronised a lady in GL. I wonder what sort of response you hope to get from this thoughtless post- most girls would steer clear of someone that *they know* is active on this forum. The few who are here looking for FBs know you have nothing to offer in material reward, physical attractiveness, sexual prowess or charm. It seems you can put a little more thought into your actions. It also seems you can put some effort into changing these things because none of them are permanent.

Why don't you take a crawl-walk-run approach to things. It'll be good for your confidence. Get to know girls who are within your reach- those who aren't likely to have hotter guys. If you don't have a social circle, get on tinder or some other free dating app.

Get dates, get intimate. Get some practice under your belt and move up the ladder. Don't promise the world to any of them- and I'm saying this for your good as much as for theirs because you don't know what you're getting into. Yet. Likewise don't put all your hopes and money on any one girl. I promise you, success breeds success.

Here's a tip. The info you put on your post basically asks girls not to have any great expectations of you. Neither do girls want to read a formal list of criteria of what you are looking for. And which shows you are desperate (and insincere, which is what they will think if anyone will do for you). Leave all of it out. If you're going to start a dating profile and have nothing charming or at least sincere to write, it's better to write nothing than to write this.

[squiggle]

Girls are not easy to get and understand. They will only like guys that can turn them on that can make them feel comfortable and happy to be with or the guy is rich.

Learn to improve yourself by keeping a fit body, by having a fit body, regardless how ugly you are, you will still look better than many people. Our communication skill and personality plays the most important part I would say. Even if you are handsome but you are unable to keep the girl with a good personality, they will run off also. You need to think positively.

Yes, life is not about sex and girls. Paying sex for life also not that bad. Single got single good.

If sbf or where cannot get you gf or girls. Then go to other places to find.

[Big Sexy]

Dont spamming

your post didn't appear immediately because you are in moderation.

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Those buns are really making me steam.
And its not just that.
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The tights she wore yesterday was showing off the perfect roundness.
I really want her number but got no courage.
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[Max77]

1) U need to stop masturbating too much
2) U need to stop visiting FL
3) I dunno how old r u...study hard (if u r working, continue further study)
4) Find a job that earn

Give yourself 10yrs time. Rarely a guy who earn 10k a month find no girl/wife

5) Learn how to groom urself. Go for class or course
6) Go for asthetic surgeries its so popular nowadays anyway
3) Go for language classes it tune up ur self esteem and charisma a little

Almost anything on our body can be changed nowadays so easily its all about money.

Give urself 10yrs. Plan and be determined.

After u have all that, going to FL will be an option of fun and not needs

[insanea]

TS, i was once in your position before. You are not alone.
What i did was to break out of my comfort zone, hanging out in singles event, meeting new people. From there one, i got to know a few friendly people that share their experiences and advices. Here are a few that might help you.
1. Be confident! Most impt rule. Dont stammer, say it like you mean it. Express some sincererity in your words. Girls like to hear your honest opinion.
2. Give her undivided attention when speaking to her. Do not look around, just focus on her eyes. If you are shy, just look her nose bridge. Maintain that connection and it is one step closer to victory.
These are some helpful tips, hope it is useful to you.

[egresnow]

Originally Posted by aksj

TS, your main problem is ignorance.

Which is sad because there really isn't a lot you have to change AND because, though I don't know you, I believe there is nothing wrong with you that should prevent you from enjoying life.

No one is born with the gift, they've all learned it from their interactions with others. By mimicking the ways of their successful peers and learning from experience- they do more of what works and less of what doesn't. If you were deprived of such learning in the past, for whatever reason that no one will care about when you've made it, you'll have to make up by learning now.

I'm telling you with all sincerity that change can come quickly if you set your mind to it. It took me only a year to go from knowing no one and nothing, to getting the girls and then moving from one to another. I personally have family and friends who have never learned and have wasted tons of their potential. They'll pay a personal and professional price all their lives. I feel I've seen enough to know what I'm talking about.

Lets see. You posted a thread asking for a FB on a forum full of FRs of paid sex. You put out some very loose criteria showing you are desperate. And you've honestly said you've patronised a lady in GL. I wonder what sort of response you hope to get from this thoughtless post- most girls would steer clear of someone that *they know* is active on this forum. The few who are here looking for FBs know you have nothing to offer in material reward, physical attractiveness, sexual prowess or charm. It seems you can put a little more thought into your actions. It also seems you can put some effort into changing these things because none of them are permanent.

Why don't you take a crawl-walk-run approach to things. It'll be good for your confidence. Get to know girls who are within your reach- those who aren't likely to have hotter guys. If you don't have a social circle, get on tinder or some other free dating app.

Get dates, get intimate. Get some practice under your belt and move up the ladder. Don't promise the world to any of them- and I'm saying this for your good as much as for theirs because you don't know what you're getting into. Yet. Likewise don't put all your hopes and money on any one girl. I promise you, success breeds success.

Here's a tip. The info you put on your post basically asks girls not to have any great expectations of you. Neither do girls want to read a formal list of criteria of what you are looking for. And which shows you are desperate (and insincere, which is what they will think if anyone will do for you). Leave all of it out. If you're going to start a dating profile and have nothing charming or at least sincere to write, it's better to write nothing than to write this.

How did everyone skip this advice LOL. this is like the best advice, other than sams for's advice on the guy with no limbs. Just get your shit together, work your way up, and girls will flock to you like flies to shit.

I worked my way up, so i know.

[NoRegrets]

Hope things have improved for you already TS.

I used to be in a somewhat unhappy situation like you also but I think the first step is very important. Once you take the first step and slowly move on to the second step then i realise everything will slowly fall into pieces.

Granted it will not make you into a super charming dude instantly but at least it would be better than before.

Just be positive and dare to do it.

Cheers~

[ProjectSawadee]

it is all in the mind bro, if you can over come it, you will be a changed man.
you need to work on that. it bring you places, not just about relationship, girls and pussy. once you believe in something you can go places.

Stop being depress and start doing something.