How Do You Overcome Your Fear & Shyness For Sex With Stranger?

[shirleyy]

just enjoy the process and not think so much? Overthinking kills lol

[lechlee]

Actually, I don't find it easy to have sex with stranger, unlike how it was before i am in a relationship with my gf.. I am a healthy young dude and have no problem with erection and definitely not premature ejaculation with my gf. Usual penetrative sex could be around 30-45 mins depending. But every time I did it with other girls, I just couldnt sustain erection. It might be really hard during the foreplay but it just went limp the first min or so into the penetrative sex. Handjob, blowjob not a issue.. Just the sex itself is a big embarrassing matter for me and the other person. I can only attribute the problem to psychological barrier as I might feel guilty or unable to be that correct state of mind during sex with a stranger.
Maybe the Bros here are pro.. Don't know.. But I simply have difficulty with strangers that turn them off alot of times.