Fucked Up situation

[energybost]

Originally Posted by Johnbass

NB...
Siri say u listen...
All the bros say you don't listen...

Siri always give the best advice mah!

I guess time is the most important part here, the boat will be straight when it reaches the harbour right?

[sarahxx]

u shldnt think so much abt the sex part, i think she's just horny and probably miss being intimate w someone. for the fact tht ur gf is falling for another guy shows tht she's moved on already. and you should to!!! whats the point of holding on to smth tht's already not urs. so many other girls out there for u.

& ur gd friend doesnt seem like a gd friend after all uh bro. where got gd friend chase his buddy's ex gf.. esp u guys just broke up.

dont backslide bro, u'll only hurt urself.

[energybost]

Originally Posted by sarahxx

u shldnt think so much abt the sex part, i think she's just horny and probably miss being intimate w someone. for the fact tht ur gf is falling for another guy shows tht she's moved on already. and you should to!!! whats the point of holding on to smth tht's already not urs. so many other girls out there for u.

& ur gd friend doesnt seem like a gd friend after all uh bro. where got gd friend chase his buddy's ex gf.. esp u guys just broke up.

dont backslide bro, u'll only hurt urself.

We broke up a few months back, but remain quite close.

I didnt stop him either though.

Its sucks that she can move on so easily like it didnt matter much to her la

[Xgenre]

Originally Posted by energybost

Its sucks that she can move on so easily like it didnt matter much to her la

You've had free sex. What else do you want? You don't want to give her the commitment she needs and now you feel sad she has moved on. Cannot be so selfish in love. If you want her back, are you willing to get her the dedication and commitment she expects? The dedication and commitment she expects from you will be forever and not just a short period of time.

[energybost]

Originally Posted by Xgenre

You've had free sex. What else do you want? You don't want to give her the commitment she needs and now you feel sad she has moved on. Cannot be so selfish in love. If you want her back, are you willing to get her the dedication and commitment she expects? The dedication and commitment she expects from you will be forever and not just a short period of time.

I wanted her back not because of sex. It was because I really do love her. I have always treated her as the only one I will have this life when we were together, but there things that happened which I had no choice but to let her go.

It wasn't because I didn't want to give her the commitment, I was afraid of committing at that point of time. This is something that I will regret the rest of my life.

I told her that if I have her again, I wouldn't let her go no matter what happens. Even if I have to die for it, I would not let her go again.

But she would rather be with someone else. And my good friend at that.

[sarahxx]

Originally Posted by energybost

Its sucks that she can move on so easily like it didnt matter much to her la

yeh i know.. everyone deals w break ups differently la. best is not to read so much into it, if not u're gona end up hating & feeling miserable.

cheer up bro! enjoy single hood, its partaye time

[lyster]

They're always like that la... Girls. Some more you mention you are young. They always like the "cool" guys. Some more you mention your friend is a player. After she kena play by him. She will come crawling back to you. Then you can give her a spartan kick into the pit.

Move on. You will find a girl who appreciates you for who you are. Don't give up the forest for one tree bro.

And btw. That guy is NOT YOUR FRIEND.

[siri]

Originally Posted by energybost

Siri always give the best advice mah!

I guess time is the most important part here, the boat will be straight when it reaches the harbour right?

haha I said so cos I was once like you but I am the girl and so you should guess how fucked up it was. Lust and love is just a thin line and I guess if she could do that to you, she can do it to another other guy too. Fooling around is one thing, playing with feelings is another.

So many flowers around in sg just find a new one!

[yue123_Sg]

Originally Posted by energybost

We broke up a few months back, but remain quite close.

I didnt stop him either though.

Its sucks that she can move on so easily like it didnt matter much to her la

Hi bro,
totally understand how you feel. You feel so much for her, but she seemed to able to move on so easily. So it's best you move on too, don't waste time pining for her when she doesn't give a damn. It's actually a good thing that you know that her feelings for you are not as deep as your feelings for her, it means she's not worth it.

Occupy yourself with other things that will take your mind off her, I know it's easier said than done, been through this before, I find pumping iron really good for healing a broken heart, give it a shot bro. All the best.

[arsenal_84]

Originally Posted by lyster

And btw. That guy is NOT YOUR FRIEND.

this is very true.
a real friend will not stab you in the back by chasing your ex.
if a friendship can be torn apart by a single girl, life would be less complicated without the both of them.

[Hanoimaw]

No good friend will screw another friend's ex. This guy is a loser - lose him

[jansonlim]

Tell him how much you enjoyed when you fucked her and also how she enjoyed your dick then. Tell him how you used her. Let your friend know what she is on the inside.

[justl00king]

TS bro, just continue banging her brains out till time for your "good friend" to take over.

They deserve each other.. and u need both of them out of your life.

Good luck!

[pussylicious12345]

Originally Posted by energybost

I wanted her back not because of sex. It was because I really do love her. I have always treated her as the only one I will have this life when we were together, but there things that happened which I had no choice but to let her go.

It wasn't because I didn't want to give her the commitment, I was afraid of committing at that point of time. This is something that I will regret the rest of my life.

I told her that if I have her again, I wouldn't let her go no matter what happens. Even if I have to die for it, I would not let her go again.

But she would rather be with someone else. And my good friend at that.

Typical human mentality: when you have it, you don't cherish it. But When you lose it, you start crying about it. What's the point?

[zan888]

Originally Posted by energybost

I wanted her back not because of sex. It was because I really do love her. I have always treated her as the only one I will have this life when we were together, but there things that happened which I had no choice but to let her go.

It wasn't because I didn't want to give her the commitment, I was afraid of committing at that point of time. This is something that I will regret the rest of my life.

I told her that if I have her again, I wouldn't let her go no matter what happens. Even if I have to die for it, I would not let her go again.

But she would rather be with someone else. And my good friend at that.

I think you are still young and at sometime we all think we can only love one person but reality is that we can get along with many. I find that a rebound relationship is not as fresh and tend to repeat same issues of conflict. I am certain you will find someone new so just don't waste time mopping.