Falling in love...once again

[Shuang_Jie_Gun]

Originally Posted by wanderer23

Sms me bro i should be able to make it tonight. But remember no expectations no disappointment

yap!i will take heed of wat u said.u will receive a sms in abt 3 mins..starting frm now!!

[justinng]

Originally Posted by Shuang_Jie_Gun

if a ger try to sweet-talk me i will stand back cos i knw she is very fake and prob say this to every guy she come across.

I'm sure you know what you're doing after all No need to say sorry cos i understand how you feel as i got similar experience before and it is time that helped me get over it

[wildbeast]

Thanks! SJG. Saw it on some self-improvement page many many years ago. I always bear it in mind. If u think deeper, the statement is very valid... u try, u will know (gain).

[papasan_688]

But once again to my disappointment and the bros who were with me all these while,i failed again..perhaps i am not fit to be a cheongster.almost wanted to retire but failed..haiz.. [/QUOTE]

Bro ...I have the similar encounter many many years back with a SYT. Now I stop heading to KTV but to Pubs/ lounges to have fun instead. If lucky you may encounter one and can have a short period of love affair too.

Cheer up and read the phrase below...

[Siao Juey Juey]

Originally Posted by Shuang_Jie_Gun

bro,i got no prob differentiate love & lust.but my prob lies in my attempt to fall love in these places.wat i hate myself is that i knw its silly & useless to do wat i am doing but i still do it.

It's very common lah...just like smoking...alot of people also know it's not good for health...but we still do it nonetheless.

People go there to buy love because it's fast and easy...off the shelve...as long got money...especially for those who are tired of just pure sex alone. When you are desperate for love and if you keep going to these joints...it will be difficult not to fall for them...it's human nature. Switching to other ktvs won't help...cos u will still find another one that u like. Maybe stop visiting ktv might help.

Wish u good luck!!!

[hunter89]

Originally Posted by Shuang_Jie_Gun

Perhaps i wished i can become 1 of the fews who end up with a happy ending?

No offense bro. Do you have the money to buy love from them???? Even if you have the money, do you think they really love you or they love the money?? WAKE UP !!!!

Sorry for being harsh to you, but I really do not want to see another samster here suffer by falling in love with FL/WL.

Suggestion, you go and do some excercise, and go to COFFEE SHOP to drink beer/kopi/teh.... Don't go to KTV/disco/SPA.........Restraint yourself for one month.....

Hope it help..

[Shuang_Jie_Gun]

Originally Posted by hunter89

No offense bro. Do you have the money to buy love from them???? Even if you have the money, do you think they really love you or they love the money?? WAKE UP !!!!

Sorry for being harsh to you, but I really do not want to see another samster here suffer by falling in love with FL/WL.



Hope it help..

no worries bro,no offense taken.i am all ears for all opinions.this thread not only tells out my story,i also hope it serves as a warning to other bros out there.Cheers.

[Me Siam Bu]

wah bo wuay kong liao

[Siao Juey Juey]

Actually come to think of it...alot of people also bo pian...because we like syt...and to get decent syt gf not so easy also...but if the gal is decent but not syt...probably we also dun wan...so end up...we go to places that offer syts...and worst...after tasting syts...it's kinda hard to lower down our expectation to accept decent non-syts as gf.

[Shuang_Jie_Gun]

Originally Posted by Siao Juey Juey

Actually come to think of it...alot of people also bo pian...because we like syt...and to get decent syt gf not so easy also...but if the gal is decent but not syt...probably we also dun wan...so end up...we go to places that offer syts...and worst...after tasting syts...it's kinda hard to lower down our expectation to accept decent non-syts as gf.

my thoughts exactly,thats y my bros at ktv also ask me get those non-syt so such tings dont happen but not syt i wont like lar.headache sia

[ChuiTaLan]

Originally Posted by Shuang_Jie_Gun

........i tell myself not to let myself go into this shit for the 2nd time,once bitten twice shy is wat i tell myself.But once again to my disappointment and the bros who were with me all these while,i failed again..perhaps i am not fit to be a cheongster.almost wanted to retire but failed..haiz..

bRo, I really dunno wat to say man.....
the only way i think that can help u is either go out n know more gers thats not from these joints. that way, hopefully u can divert ur attention, start a more stable relationship. Like wat other bRos said, chances of having a happy ending with all these ktv gers is super rare....n u may need to get hurt over n over again and nothing will happen end of the day....
Take care, bRo...

[justinng]

Originally Posted by Shuang_Jie_Gun

thats y my bros at ktv also ask me get those non-syt so such tings dont happen but not syt i wont like lar.headache sia

I share your sentiments

[t123]

Sometimes we are just overwhelm by our own emotions.

[Shuang_Jie_Gun]

Originally Posted by t123

Sometimes we are just overwhelm by our own emotions.

for my case its not sometimes but most of the time.lolz.

[Shuang_Jie_Gun]

Originally Posted by ChuiTaLan

bRo, I really dunno wat to say man.....
the only way i think that can help u is either go out n know more gers thats not from these joints. that way, hopefully u can divert ur attention, start a more stable relationship. Like wat other bRos said, chances of having a happy ending with all these ktv gers is super rare....n u may need to get hurt over n over again and nothing will happen end of the day....
Take care, bRo...

i will take note of wat u said,did tried to divert my attention but must be my lack of cocentration ba.