Are you in the same category??

[diesel]

Originally Posted by peterfish

you are rite. It is the sister-in-law, not the wife according to the Annals of the Romance of the Three Kingdoms.

Let me make it clear again. The lady to be introduced to General ZhaoYun, is ZhaoFan's wife. Therefore, ZhaoFan's wife is General ZhaoYun's sister-in-law.

In another words, ZhaoFan is offering his own wife to General ZhaoYun. Because of that, General ZhaoYun felt disgusted and annoyed.

[Microsoft]

Originally Posted by diesel

Let me make it clear again. The lady to be introduced to General ZhaoYun, is ZhaoFan's wife. Therefore, ZhaoFan's wife is General ZhaoYun's sister-in-law.

Err... Hehe okok. Let not argue on tat. Wat important is ur message "Incest is a no no" rite??

[Ah_Lim2005]

Originally Posted by cypress67

I have spoken to many friends and realised that the women that they most wanted to have sex with are usually their close frinds or distant relatives. Usually colleagues, friends wifes, sister- in- law, neighbour or friends you meet regularly.
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Do you fall into this category??

Mr Cypress67 Sir

I think most of us here have this type of fantasies in our mind. Be it conscious or subconscious.

However, i would caution you (and all) to let it remain just as it is. A fantasy.

No matter how open our society is becoming, Incest or touching (much less) a friend's wife is still strictly being frowned upon.

just a thought
Ah_Lim2005

Ah Lim,

Thanks for the reminder and reinforcement, I agree with you.

Men have fantasies, desires, and needs, the difference that make a men is his self control.

Hope this is a breather for people like us...

[lawry]

Originally Posted by slimguy

Me too ! Especically my sister- in- law and neighbour.

wah liao eh.. i hope u dont live near me... terror..

[Castrol]

i've heard from my male colleagues from USA and europe, ang mo countries, that they are able to bonk with female colleagues and friends without strings attached.
so they do not look for prostitutes that often.

so i guess it is not much of fantasy to them, unlike most of us.

[t123]

Originally Posted by cypress67

I have spoken to many friends and realised that the women that they most wanted to have sex with are usually their close frinds or distant relatives. Usually colleagues, friends wifes, sister- in- law, neighbour or friends you meet regularly.
It seems that it is not the beauty nor the sexy body that excite them but perhaps the comfort and familiarity of their close circle has set their imagination and wild fantasies run wild.
Do you fall into this category??

Me right now have to feel comfoartable with the girl before I can instantly erect. Like my neighbour's daughter who is a divorcee, I am sexually attracted to her and I can erect without any problem. My recent trip to thailand, I bought ammo and consumed them 1/2 hr before the action started. I can't erect when I just see the person for the first unless she is Angela chow, huang sheng yi, karen lam etc.

[thaivisitor]

Probably every guy will take a second look at someone who's attractive. Sometimes we fantasize because the someone is sexually attractive to us, just like what some of the bros described, the way the dress, and/or behave themselves.

As for those close to us, the fact is that they're "forbidden" and that thrills us even more, especially if they are in the category of "sexually attractive". More so when we see their husbands or boyfriends as not "comparatively sexually attractive" to them.

[mtkpnmpk]

me too. part of my fantasy is my sister in law too...
Haha
How ironic

[Ignite]

Actually it's a very simple reason why many people find themselves fantasizing about close friends, colleagues, relatives etc.

The main thing is, you've been in contact with them on a regular basis, or definitely more often than those other "popular" fantasies (eg, pop stars, actress etc).

Because you've been in contact with them often, your mind remembers their face, facial expressions, body shape, hair, leg structure a lot clearer. This helps a lot when trying to build up a convincing fantasy that your mind can relate to.

Sometimes, when you fantasize about people you don't know, you might find that it gets stuck halfway, cos the posture, expression isn't right, then you start over again. With people you know, it's a lot easier, and the fantasy then becomes smoother, and in a way, more successful.

Also, many people fantasize about girls who are attached, even though the attached girl may be less attractive than a single girl they know. Why? Well, the mind thinks "If there's a guy who likes her, there must be something worth liking.. Hmmm..." then you start noticing her more.

Did all that make sense? You be the judge

[peterfish]

Basically it is very simple. Forbidden fruit tastes the BEST. Yummy.

[siamburox]

i hate to admit it but yes i am sexually attracted to my auntie .. i want to bonk her real bad .. especially when she hugs me . she's 30 + and her firm boobs touching against me is heaven i get very hard then , her husband is ang moh .. and sigh , she has a kid ....

[benz]

forbidden fruit tastes the sweetest yes not doubt but having a sexual affair with a relative or neighbour maybe too close for comfort

moreover if you don't approach the situation carefully with the lady you are interested in, things can get very messy.

Originally Posted by benz

forbidden fruit tastes the sweetest yes not doubt but having a sexual affair with a relative or neighbour maybe too close for comfort

moreover if you don't approach the situation carefully with the lady you are interested in, things can get very messy.

Yeah, u r rite..the office where i work, i mean my female colleagues, and my insurance agent lady..all I wish i can bonk them someday somehow..sigh, dun know when the time comes leh. Have to keep dreaming this desire..

[t123]

Originally Posted by GoodMan

Yeah, u r rite..the office where i work, i mean my female colleagues, and my insurance agent lady..all I wish i can bonk them someday somehow..sigh, dun know when the time comes leh. Have to keep dreaming this desire..

Me, are the biz contacts some of them like playing hide and seek and tug of war with you mentally.