Sexually deprived and neglected

[flowbow]

Originally Posted by DreamOfLust

Maybe she is too caught up with the baby? It can be really tiring taking care of a baby...

I agree with this. It can be really tiring taking care of a newborn.

[conman]

Originally Posted by sean69

I think you are a sorry excuse for a man!!!.. come on, she suffered for 9 months to bring you a kid and now all u can complain is you are not getting any release??!!!

of cos she is tired.. a new born baby needs to be fed every 3-4 hours.. not to mention the changing of diapers and the crying etc etc..

did you help out to take care of the baby??

I do not the full story, not sure if your wife is working and taking care of the baby after work.. even if she is a full time home-maker, it is a very stressful job to take care of a new born especially if this is your first kid..

instead of complaining, try to see things from her position!!..

I am not complaining. I have gotten help for the baby and I also help out. She is just not interested in sex. She told me unless we plan for a holiday, she don't think we will have it. WTH!! I'm sure I'm not the only one who feels his way. Many of my peers mentioned that they were "forced" to find FLs etc as their spouses are not interested in it. Anyway, it's really a sad but true situation for alot of marriages.

[tapzs]

Just rape her la... Lol!

N I mean rape her breast , gif her a good lick to make her horny..
If she got responses,then proceed south!

Dun just say u wan then expect her say ＂来吧??

[alan0338]

then u must use ur sweet talking since u are a conman ma ...

[joncheong]

Originally Posted by ah rat

Bro,so u prepare to be lonely when u old

Lonely when old okay la if the guy got $$$... But at least must got siblings and cousins, friends....

Better than marry and then divorse due to poor sex life... Money need to divide.. Kids single parent .... And both families involved in the divorse proceedings...

[Deesiaokia]

Originally Posted by sky_liner2

This could be Post-Natal Blues bro.......do some study on it, mostly men have to give in and accomodate with wives.

Yes.. It might led to depression ..

TS, which woman after giving birth would think of sex? The pain n suffering of your wife during labour time have u actually witness it? Tunnel entrance been cut , the pain of pushing your baby thru the tunnel, then gynae stitch up the wound. Try to relieve her stress n workload at the time being.. Let her have enuff rest and In time to come u will be rewarded by your wife.. Try not to initial sex at this time cos all woman after giving birth has super low confident.. No figure lah, will my husband don't wan me cos I don't wana have sex with him now. Will he find another gal during my confinement month.. Then slowly she start to think have think don't have , start questioning u your whereabout , checking your phone etc.. End up confirm quarrel wan.
TS , u have already tahan 9 month plus Liao so what is another 2-3 months?

Just my 2cents.

[n30n]

Get back into intimacy slowly lo.

Don't have to be full blown sex all the while.
When you going to DIY, ask her for some help, like ask her play with your parts, or borrow her parts to play. At least this intimacy is still a 2 person affair that won't hurt n tire her out too much.

Slowly get her condition back to the usual level of intimacy. Make it a pleasant experience so she is more willing to initiate next time.

[deludedgal]

i think is post natal too

[conman]

My baby is 5 months old already. Sex is just part of it. Her family is another part. I told her just now that I'm so burnt out. Anyway, thank you brothers and sisters for your kind advises. Think I'm kinda depressed too but I have no one to talk it out except venting it over SB. Hope everything will be back to normal soon.

[hilltower]

Try this...find a baby sitter (who can be a family member) and take your wife out on a romantic evening - dinner at a fancy restaurant, movie, shopping...
Such an outing might hurt the pocket a little but it will bring back the spark in your marriage. Best wishes bro.

[Valiant20]

Originally Posted by conman

My baby is 5 months old already. Sex is just part of it. Her family is another part. I told her just now that I'm so burnt out. Anyway, thank you brothers and sisters for your kind advises. Think I'm kinda depressed too but I have no one to talk it out except venting it over SB. Hope everything will be back to normal soon.

Bro, go GL or MPs with specials to release. No harm done, just don't get addicted and overuse funds meant for baby for those activities.

Wifey had sex 6 months after first kid. They get very tired easily so as hubby must understand their feelings/tiredness. Got help still will be tired.

You must also know that a lot of women feel unattractive after giving birth. If she's not breastfeeding, you should bring her out on a romantic date, woo her, make her feel like the sexy lady you went after, might get lucky after

Posting this with my 2nd kid (2month old) sleeping on my shoulder

[acidicavex]

To TS u sound jealous of your own flesh and blood?? U envy your own flesh and blood nesting on your wife boobs or what?? Kk joking

TS do beat with if during the 1yrs of your new born they woman body is still weak and easily tired. Did u try and help like changing diaper or carrying little one around or help cleaning??

Frankly ts if you do not have households helper I think for the next 2-3 yrs very hard to get into intimacy mood.

Now if your child is 5 yrs should be slightly easy and if during that time u still have like only intimacy once a month than u come make noise. Haha I bet u have not experience it like 2-3 mths once or none don't when than will have one.

[conman]

May I know who zapped me? If u dare to do it, admit now! I'm just using the platform to vent out my frustration and I didn't do any harm to anyone. Why must u be such an asshole? Go and screw your own mom. Hope something bad will happen to your love ones soon. You are really an asshole!

[EdOng79]

Give her some time. Certain women finds it tough during the crossover into motherhood. Start slow n use the techniques that got her interested in sex before u had the baby n slowly work on it.

[freezetheDB]

bro TS
she is your life partner, slowly work your way back into the romance.

maybe she dont feel sexy or alluring after giving birth as she has not regained her figure. Make her feel beautiful

a marriage is never easy, takes alot effort to maintain, like a business venture.