Double Standards

[aseandude]

Sis,

The pincher plant or venus flytrap also not stupid,

Want to catch also catch rich and good looking bee...

Admit girls are choosy creatures unless being conned!!!

[jon2000sg]

aiyo, enjoy while you can

[Darina]

Originally Posted by aseandude

Sis,

The pincher plant or venus flytrap also not stupid,

Want to catch also catch rich and good looking bee...

Admit girls are choosy creatures unless being conned!!!

If you can 'pollinate' a flower which is not a FL or Pro, either you have sweet mouth or have something ma isn't it?

Anyway this is straying from my topic le bro

[whiplash]

Yes, you are right.
Better a pitcher plant than a venus fly trap.
A pitcher plant drowns the bee in nector. The venus fly trap......... you know.


................. wait maybe not nector but digestive juices.

Originally Posted by Darina

Just be sure that the flower does not belong to the Pitcher Plant

[Darina]

Originally Posted by whiplash

Yes, you are right.
Better a pitcher plant than a venus fly trap.
A pitcher plant drowns the bee in nector. The venus fly trap......... you know.


................. wait maybe not nector but digestive juices.

At least you 'die' happy ma
Oh ya worse is kenna venus fly trap

[jasdude]

Originally Posted by Darina

Anyway, what would you do if you found out your gf/wife is playing the field?

Its always the issue players fear most. KARMA.

How are you gal!

[Darina]

Originally Posted by jasdude

Its always the issue players fear most. KARMA. How are you gal!

LOL What goes around comes around eh?

Busy but good.

[smoothnsleek]

From wat I've seen, married ladies go into it bcos

1. they're getting better attention fm their admirers, understanding their frustrations, hearing them out, providing them with workable solutions (not talking $$ here).

2. compliments in their dressing are forthcoming

3. their hubbies are too tired after work. This cud be due to staleness in their sex life. (Same reason why hubbies stray.)

4. their sense of financial independence emboldens them in flirty situations, leading to 'deeper' commitments.

So to get to the bottom of why gf/spouse is doing it, I'll sit her down and go thru the list above. If it's none of the above, but doing it cos to live out a fantasy, mmmm, I'll tell her 'Let's do a 3some'.

[els13]

Interesting topic, For me its very simple. If I dun do it I will expect my partner not to do it. But if Im doing it well at least repect her by doing it the smartest way possible and not letting her know about it.Same goes for her, when I hv a partner I am very open with them I also make it clear that if she does hv funny business outside make sure its stays outside which is pure fun n also repect me by doing a good job, hide it well.
Im no saint cant resist temptation forever, once in a while I might lose it and I believe its the same for girls as well. If you want to have fun outside and yet you cant cover your own tracks, well then I suggest you dun do it. Because you are just dumb and dun have the standard to do so.

[Apocalypse]

lol

Its all a matter of power.

Who is dependent on who? If the wife is of equal power in the relationship, she can always find a guy of her own in the r/s. Traditionally the man brings the bread home, so you don't mess around with the guy that brings the bread home.

Man can compartmentalizie better and are able to resist KC better over time. The next qns to TS is, how do woman develop anti KC tactics if they want to play the field?

[peanut123]

Originally Posted by Darina

Lol good analogy but a flower can be visited by many bees and still a flower

Then she's deflowered, not a flower :-)

Yes, society has double standards for men and women. The woman sleeping around may think that she's getting her revenge, but in reality society will frown on her and despise her more, while sympathizing with her husband. Even her own family members will probably look down upon her for being a slut. Far from getting her revenge, I think she'll be getting herself into trouble.

Strangely, and unfairly, no one looks at the straying man in the same light.

[overair]

Originally Posted by Darina

I know that most men cannot accept it if their gf/wife plays the field even though they might be doing it themselves.

Anyway, what would you do if you found out your gf/wife is playing the field?

Just curious

i could not speak for other bro, but i may well be in a very small minority here. i would be rejoiced if my wife is playing ... best i would love her to share with me and allow me to make her playing easier and more delightful for her. i would find her deliciously sexy if she does! that's what i would do. clearly, as said my view and feeling belongs to a very small minority, and, of course, because of my lovely wife.

[overair]

Originally Posted by Darina

Lol good analogy but a flower can be visited by many bees and still a flower

true indeed ... only the fairest and sweetest flowers visited by many bees ... hmm ... perhaps i find my wife the fairest and sweetest?

[kenneth21]

well, not a matter of double standards. it ultimately depends on each individual's character and how much is the love for him / her.

i generally think that no matter which way, guy caught girl fooling around or girl caught guy fooling around, its hard to swallow up.

[Frederick]

Let her know that I know and give her a chance.