what would you do if your wl falls in love with you?

[RealEstateGuy]

Originally Posted by Aceyfox

Bro, i have the same problem as u.....

i have known a PRC for 4 yrs and she started to be my FB since last year. We meet up almost every week for sessions since last year. She is on EP and drawing a decent income in SG. Just last week, i realized something really different. She has been talking about our long term future and on where to settle down when married. Although i am still single, i freaked out upon hearing this too btw, i am 31 n she's 28 this year

Braddah, you say she is only a FB but you consistenly met with her. Braddah, so there must be mutual attraction and more precisely emotions of love and companionship. Bradddah, you are soul mates in bed why not give love a chance and take it to the next level? Braddah, its obvious you are trying to supress your inner desires due to fear. Braddah, the only thing to fear is fear itself.

[falchion]

I always advised my friends to go FAR (fuck and run).

[Iemanishere]

Well, sometimes it's just hard to say as this singer in shanghai dolly say Singapore man are stupid but I like.. What to do... U just have to play the right card Loh.. All the best

[loneyheart]

Freak out .....disappear fm nowhere n change yr hp number

[goodpartner]

Originally Posted by josephjo

I am a little soft hearted but i don't exactly love her. Any way to STOP her falling in love with me painlessly?

Originally Posted by josephjo

Anyway the question is how to let her forget me...

Bro, so what exactly do you want?

Just to make her stop "loving" you but still continue to have the opportunities to enjoy her sexually?

OR want to totally break up with her and never see you again (as u say 'forget')?

What we would do is very different in each of the above senario you know.

[josephjo]

Originally Posted by goodpartner

Bro, so what exactly do you want?

Just to make her stop "loving" you but still continue to have the opportunities to enjoy her sexually?

OR want to totally break up with her and never see you again (as u say 'forget')?

What we would do is very different in each of the above senario you know.

Ideally is remain purely as sex buddies.... or regular customer...

if not just break up... but I think she will still stick to me for sometime before she can forget me.

[nonpareil]

She might be saying the sane thing to a few others.

[RedBullRaping]

i've no major discrimination against foreigners, but still gotta beware if there's any hidden agenda or motives.

to what i observe, many of these foreigners just wanna come here to make the quick buck, so that they can build "castle" in their homeland, then when time is ripe, pack up & leave. not bcos they dont wanna settle here, but sometimes is their visa category that forbids.

[For_fun]

Originally Posted by RealEstateGuy

Braddah, you say she is only a FB but you consistenly met with her. Braddah, so there must be mutual attraction and more precisely emotions of love and companionship. Bradddah, you are soul mates in bed why not give love a chance and take it to the next level? Braddah, its obvious you are trying to supress your inner desires due to fear. Braddah, the only thing to fear is fear itself.

I disagree!!

I am based in China now. The China women are a tricky lot. They always on the look out for only 1 thing - themselves!!

So what she is on EP. She is 28 years old, in China, she is considered too old. Furthermore, she has a child. Very few men in China will accept her. Hence, she will grab anyone in Singapore. That will allow her child to remain in Singapore.

These China girls will do anything to achieve what they want. Being is FB is nothing. There is no bottom line that they will not cross!

Take care!

regards

[fervent]

Very true. They will do what it takes to survive.

[Aceyfox]

Originally Posted by For_fun

Furthermore, she has a child. Very few men in China will accept her. Hence, she will grab anyone in Singapore. That will allow her child to remain in Singapore.

She doesn't have a child. I have known her for 4 years and been to her hometown. For PRC standard, her educational level is considered quite good, that's y she managed to secure an EP. Remaining on EP or even being a PR is not a problem to her. That's y she doesn't really need a man just to remain in SG. But 1 thing i agree is that FB is just FB and i just wana remain as it is. I just dun want any commitment right now. I may sound selfish but that's just the way it is. I know clearly in my mind what i want and what I'm looking for

[cncs]

Bro Aceyfox, since you know what u want just tell her that you just want to remain the relationship as it is. If she wants more than what you can offer better spilt than to drag longer which will hurt her more. I don't think you want a messy breakup.

I once have a FB who has not feeling for her hubby that's why we are into the relaionship, she hinted she wants a divorce so she can be with me. I told her straight that I would not leave my wife for her. If she wants we can continue if not better part before things turn sour.

[RealEstateGuy]

Originally Posted by For_fun

I disagree!!

I am based in China now. The China women are a tricky lot. They always on the look out for only 1 thing - themselves!!

So what she is on EP. She is 28 years old, in China, she is considered too old. Furthermore, she has a child. Very few men in China will accept her. Hence, she will grab anyone in Singapore. That will allow her child to remain in Singapore.

These China girls will do anything to achieve what they want. Being is FB is nothing. There is no bottom line that they will not cross!

Take care!

regards

Braddah, while that may be true when you tango with the KTV lot it is not always true of all women. So why paint a broad brush stroke of the gals like that? Do you have specific experience or its just your imagination?

[andyown]

Holy Shit,I have same problems just like you guys.
Raw with FL who quit FL line and she said love me and want me to marry her which is opposite way.我嫁给她？even though I said I'm poor like Shit but she said she will earn money for me to spend lol...
Betting make her lose most of her money,but she didn't ask me for single cents.
So maybe my case is different?

[freefuck]

I hv similar experience with vn girl, I know her in vn, when she came here to work, we hv good sessions, and later hint that she want to come my house stay but I rejected . It more like KC trap that they want more money or marry here to hv better life.