Frustrations with your Wife

[scaredycat]

watch some cat 3 movies with her...

[RealEstateGuy]

Originally Posted by brownie90

To all bros… I have been thinking for the longest time since married for the many years, and can’t help but feel god damn deprived… deprived of what a man should be granted… and ultimate sex life of fark job, blow job, and sorts from the person the law has permitted… the rightful wife…
If one was to describe my sex life… there’s only one word… BORING! Despite the efforts to coerce and beg… a nothing more than a ‘I fuck you, cum, and end’ type of sex… damn it I just can’t help but feel that she’s just fulfilling her obliged role of a wife in the area of sex. I have been trying to convince her to go further into sex… to do some nice blow jobs on me, but to no avails…
I have almost no avenue to vent my frustrations!! Can you imagine? My wife never allowed me to fuck her without CAPS (with the exception of that few months for a reason, and you know what).
Sometimes I ponder upon what had I done wrong to deserve such punitive returns. Although not getting good sex from her is never a good reason to fuck other girls out there… but fuck, a man is a man. If one’s not getting it good at home… he’s got to find alternatives…
Perhaps a few good bros have good tips in coercing a fucking sex-conserved woman to release her inner tiger!! TELL ME. Please.

Brother some women have a lower libido than others. But in my experience whether her horniness cycle is one day or one month when she wants dick she is hungry and will fuck your brains out. If your wife is not horny at all I would ponder whehter she is getting her helping of dick from another guy? I don't mean to insult you in anyway but your wife definitely wants dick at some time during the say the course of a months. It's just that she isn't wanting it from you. Have you tried to enhance your sex life and get her aroused? Have you gained weight and dropped off on your personal hygiene since your dating days when she would fuck your brains out on Saturday nights?

[analog]

Hey Bro:

I hear yah....
You're at least lucky, she's at least fucking, my wife cut me off completely for years.

Here's what I did....
Talked and talked, always ended up in a fight...
Fine.
I finally decided that it was enough and did all the research on divorce since I'm a lousy gambler and can't bluff so I fully intended for my bluff to be called....which means I guess it wasn't a bluff.

First though, i went to see a counselor at MCYS and talked with her about things and simply said, i've had enough, I've been doing all the bending and to be honest, I give our marriage only a 5% chance of making it. Councelor said I need to talk to your wife.

So I told my wife i went to see a counselor ....she was shocked! i mean she was FLOORED! i bluntly, but calmly, asked her if she wanted to save our marriage...she said yes. Then i gave her the counselor's card and said you better call her and go see her.

Keeping a family together is a two way street, one party cannot do it alone.

But you need to remember, if you're at your wits end, you have to be prepared to go. Talk to her, go to counseling on your own. She doesn't want to go, then its over. Wind it up and start again, there is no shame in that.

Cheers,
jim

[BAIKBOI]

Originally Posted by brownie90

To all bros… I have been thinking for the longest time since married for the many years, and can’t help but feel god damn deprived… deprived of what a man should be granted… and ultimate sex life of fark job, blow job, and sorts from the person the law has permitted… the rightful wife…
If one was to describe my sex life… there’s only one word… BORING! Despite the efforts to coerce and beg… a nothing more than a ‘I fuck you, cum, and end’ type of sex… damn it I just can’t help but feel that she’s just fulfilling her obliged role of a wife in the area of sex. I have been trying to convince her to go further into sex… to do some nice blow jobs on me, but to no avails…
I have almost no avenue to vent my frustrations!! Can you imagine? My wife never allowed me to fuck her without CAPS (with the exception of that few months for a reason, and you know what).
Sometimes I ponder upon what had I done wrong to deserve such punitive returns. Although not getting good sex from her is never a good reason to fuck other girls out there… but fuck, a man is a man. If one’s not getting it good at home… he’s got to find alternatives…
Perhaps a few good bros have good tips in coercing a fucking sex-conserved woman to release her inner tiger!! TELL ME. Please.

Well dont we all seem to be sailin in da same boat Welcome onboard da once ur married ur 'fucked' express (in every other way quite literally)! I think its somethin to do wid her mental approach towards sex. My wife seems to get turned off in an instant over pretty much everythin & yet @ da same time i find SYTs here who dont bat an eyelid wen u ask them to do certain things....My suggestion bro wud b to mayb sit down wid her thrash out the issues that need to b thrashed out & in case things dont seem to wrk out 'eat outside' am sorry 4 bein blunt abt dis but men will b men & we only lead 1 life bro.

[p00t]

there is a problem with our society.

for as long as human history is recorded, that is over 5000years (China), 3000years (Egypt), over 2700years (India), over 2000 years (Rome), etc etc....

Man for all throughout history has more than 1 wife. 2 wives are common and this is not referring to rich man.

In early 70s, Singapore change the legislation that only 1 wife per Man, except Muslim Man.

40years legislation vs 5000 years of tradition across all cultures.

What's wrong with our society?

[Alf1977]

TS, your wife not giving you BJ does not mean she is eating outside...


Have you think that she may have caught you eating outside, getting BBBJ from slurs/prostitutes n thus find it very dirty to suck your dick knowing that it has been inserted into a slut's hole n mouth?

[longjohn2010]

can only advise based on my own experience.

going the aggressive confrontational route never works with women, they need to be romanced.

you could perhaps try sex-texting her to get her in the mood.

try stuff you used to do and now neglected...

a friend once advised me to put yourself in the woman's shoes, how do she is feeling and try to understand what is going on in her psyche..

aggression never works where you are trying to get some love, not start a war..

so my suggestion is to do small things to make her feel special again etc, well if you dont do it other guys might do it and that's why marriages break down.

when a third party starts romancing your significant others its probably due to neglect on our part in maintaining the relationship.

my advise may not work as I'm in the same boat , just wanted to share something you might be able to try before its too late.

before she starts giving excuses to go out to meet friends or to stay out late etc...

hope you get laid soon... may the force be with u

[happywoody]

bro TS

perhaps there're other factors which are distracting your wife - baby, finances, work stress etc etc

continue to be the noble husband and gently pop the idea that you want things to improve and suggest counseling. there's no shame and i'm sure your marriage deserves one good shot at saving it. good luck.

[p00t]

very good advice, mate.

words of wisdom.

Originally Posted by longjohn2010

can only advise based on my own experience.

going the aggressive confrontational route never works with women, they need to be romanced.

you could perhaps try sex-texting her to get her in the mood.

try stuff you used to do and now neglected...

a friend once advised me to put yourself in the woman's shoes, how do she is feeling and try to understand what is going on in her psyche..

aggression never works where you are trying to get some love, not start a war..

so my suggestion is to do small things to make her feel special again etc, well if you dont do it other guys might do it and that's why marriages break down.

when a third party starts romancing your significant others its probably due to neglect on our part in maintaining the relationship.

my advise may not work as I'm in the same boat , just wanted to share something you might be able to try before its too late.

before she starts giving excuses to go out to meet friends or to stay out late etc...

hope you get laid soon... may the force be with u

[grouchycabi]

Originally Posted by brownie90

To all bros… I have been thinking for the longest time since married for the many years, and can’t help but feel god damn deprived… deprived of what a man should be granted… and ultimate sex life of fark job, blow job, and sorts from the person the law has permitted… the rightful wife…
If one was to describe my sex life… there’s only one word… BORING! Despite the efforts to coerce and beg… a nothing more than a ‘I fuck you, cum, and end’ type of sex… damn it I just can’t help but feel that she’s just fulfilling her obliged role of a wife in the area of sex. I have been trying to convince her to go further into sex… to do some nice blow jobs on me, but to no avails…
I have almost no avenue to vent my frustrations!! Can you imagine? My wife never allowed me to fuck her without CAPS (with the exception of that few months for a reason, and you know what).
Sometimes I ponder upon what had I done wrong to deserve such punitive returns. Although not getting good sex from her is never a good reason to fuck other girls out there… but fuck, a man is a man. If one’s not getting it good at home… he’s got to find alternatives…
Perhaps a few good bros have good tips in coercing a fucking sex-conserved woman to release her inner tiger!! TELL ME. Please.

Dear Bro

Perhaps you could tell us how you made love to your wife on the rare occasions she allowed you do.

How did you do it? Did you just lay her down, open her legs, charge in and ram till you discharge your ammo?

Or did you do it slowly, kiss her passionately, lick her ears, her neck, down to her boobs, lick around the nipples, lick and suck her nipples for the longest time, and then move slowly down her soft belly, slowly and kissing along the way, and then kiss around her pussy area, lick her outer pussy lips, and then her inner pussy lips, and twirl your tongue around her clitoris, slowly, round and round, and then up and down, up and down, until she starts to whimper, moan, and becomes short of breath, and you still continue to lick her pussy, focusing on her clitoris with occasional stabs into her love hole using your probing tongue, until she starts shivering and shaking and then explode into orgasm?

Like some of the brothers here have suggested, you MUST please your wife first. When you showered such love on her and gave her such pleasure, you won't have to do the asking when it comes to sex.

Give it a try and all the best to you!

[IwantbustyKim]

Alcohol....it helps everyone....=)

[analog]

Originally Posted by longjohn2010

can only advise based on my own experience.

going the aggressive confrontational route never works with women, they need to be romanced.

you could perhaps try sex-texting her to get her in the mood.

try stuff you used to do and now neglected...

a friend once advised me to put yourself in the woman's shoes, how do she is feeling and try to understand what is going on in her psyche..

aggression never works where you are trying to get some love, not start a war..

so my suggestion is to do small things to make her feel special again etc, well if you dont do it other guys might do it and that's why marriages break down.

when a third party starts romancing your significant others its probably due to neglect on our part in maintaining the relationship.

my advise may not work as I'm in the same boat , just wanted to share something you might be able to try before its too late.

before she starts giving excuses to go out to meet friends or to stay out late etc...

hope you get laid soon... may the force be with u

And if you've already tried that?....like over and over again?

Then how?

[longjohn2010]

Originally Posted by analog

And if you've already tried that?....like over and over again?
Then how?

bro, I suppose u could do what I am doing looking for love in all the wrong places

but seriously, if you have kids, and want the marriage to continue, do what I am doing, see no evil, hear no evil, and say no evil.

seems to work have not quarreled with my wife for more than 3 weeks already.

Life is short, more important things to do than quarrel over small things. Like make more money to buy expensive realestate in Singapore.

a friend just died of liver cancer leaving behind a wife & kids. Enjoy it before it ends.

remember next year is 2012, according to Mayan calendar supposed to end in Dec 21 2012.

[kosan]

Just rape her ....
The most is end up in the brutal fight and go to police station.
She may want a divorce.. tell her go ahead... file a case ... she engage her lawyer, you engage yors.

She denied you of sex. not doing her duty. The most important we must have $$$$. You think our wife still have the time, they are no longer young. Women above 40 or 45 compare to man above 40 or 45. SBF bro what do you guys think.

I am prepare to go negative after posting this message.

[1stTR]

bro, be patience and hav a heart to heart talk with her. Ther is alway a reason behind. I share the same situation with you before. Coming to 7 yrs of marriage. We've live seperately for coming 6 yrs and it took me abt 5 yrs to finally get her to sit down to talk.