Your thoughts please..

[Money3]

Originally Posted by Stud00

Love is blind i guess.

I reflected on myself, and i admit that i didnt spend enuff time with her, but i make amendments, and change.. 2 weeks down the road, same pattern come out, she tell me i don't spend time with her, etc.. work is everything.

I wanna find someone to settle down with, and i don't wanna end up in divorcing.. maybe i shld really join the clubs of players.. and change my nick to THE BASTARD..

bro, another option if money not the issue... quit your job... and change yr nick to the RETIREE

[pikachu2011]

Just my opinion,

when you are with her, and when you are having sex with her, are u able not to think of what she have done behind your back?

if you cannot forget, then i guess the best choice would be to leave her rather to hold on to a relationship that cause you to be miserable.....

[Oakley76]

I am married and was seeing a married woman.. She cheated on me with my friend and maybe with a couple of guys she met at clubs. Well, like many advices here, I kept her as fb.. But as I do feel for her, I can't help but to feel miserable. To have a clean break is the best thing to do unless you can draw a clear line between fb and lover.

[Stud00]

Bros..

I guess its not too bad if your gf/wife cheats with another guy. i mean it's bad enuff.. but my case is, she cheats with her own cousin. And her cousin happens to be married. i am like WTF?

[prcluver]

Why let such a girl control your feelings when you have career? Dump that bitch and search for another one.

[arsenal_84]

you do not have to bear her part of the shame.
throw this song at her:

[bloopz]

Originally Posted by Stud00

Bros..

I guess its not too bad if your gf/wife cheats with another guy. i mean it's bad enuff.. but my case is, she cheats with her own cousin. And her cousin happens to be married. i am like WTF?

hello, i'm sorry to break this to u, cheating IS cheating. when someone cheats, this just means they do not have a will which is strong enough to resist temptations.. bad news is - temptation is everywhere.
it doesnt matter who neglect who, or who ur partner is cheating with. as long as there is a 1st time, there will be a 2nd time, and so on.. well, from here i guess u know my take on this..

hmm.. to help u with ur choice making, u can try to visualize ur gf making out with another guy (be it the cousin or some other guy) and if u manage to have hardon while u visualize tat or intend to have swinging sessions with ur wife in the future, go ahead and keep her.

[arsenal_84]

Originally Posted by Sirrus

tell her to fuck off, plain and simple.

a man who fools around and has a family is still willing to bring home the daily bread for the entire family.

a girl who fools around and has a bf/husband will bring what to a family?? free show to your kids??

a husband fools around but still come home to pamper the wife,kids bring them out gd food, holiday, gift and etc.

what does a cheating wife/gf do when she come home? expect to be pamper and will act like so 恩爱.

golden advice!

i like to believe that a cheating wife does at least bother to spend on her children instead of pushing all the bills to the hubby.
but like you said if she doesn't fulfill the basic role of a mother then no point handling her full custody of the children in case of a divorce.

[Stud00]

Heres a post from the world's dumbest person.

GF slept with cousin. Gave a chance.. 6 wks later..
she dumps him on a sunday.. and tues she is attached with her colleague. the same colleague which he has warned her to keep a distance from.

how dumb can i be?

[arsenal_84]

Originally Posted by Stud00

she dumps him on a sunday.. and tues she is attached with her colleague. the same colleague which he has warned her to keep a distance from.

how dumb can i be?

sometimes as much as you want to continue being a victim in a failed rs...you got to know that you can never take a whore out of a girl and much less even try to tame her.
imo, office rs seldom last...if it ends on a bad note, is very likely one will leave the company.

[Toyota Honda]

Originally Posted by Stud00

Love is blind i guess.

Years ago, when i was struggling to make it, i had no money and no honey.
Now, i have some money.. but my honey is behaving in such a manner.

For a man, i guess career is everything but not everything. No career= no $$= no future. and believe me, gals won't wanna marry a guy with no career or dream, ever dated a bummer or loafer?

She says i work very hard, but when i bring her to hi-end holidays, she doesnt complain, question is, where does the money come from? it's not free. All MEN needs a woman to cheer them on, encourage them, comfort them when they fall, is it too much to ask? To cheat? but best one with her cousin, like wtf?

I reflected on myself, and i admit that i didnt spend enuff time with her, but i make amendments, and change.. 2 weeks down the road, same pattern come out, she tell me i don't spend time with her, etc.. work is everything.

I wanna find someone to settle down with, and i don't wanna end up in divorcing.. maybe i shld really join the clubs of players.. and change my nick to THE BASTARD..

Bro, with my experience.. I can only say. Some girls can be wife material, some mistress material. And yours, only mistress (but dun hold on to her tooo long). Wife material will wait for you no matter how long, and understands you are busy for the family. Mistress material only happy when you are with them and spends money on them.

Let me tell you. If you are to be poor again, she wun even bother giving you 'you are too busy' excuse. She will dump you without batting an eyelid.

Move on. There are many girls out there who are more sincere. And even if there isn't any, you still dun have to stck to 1 lousy one. Its better to have multiple lousy ones at the same time. Thats the magic of having money. Want to fuck, also must fuck with brains.

[Bangster]

Bro Stud,

Do try your best to bring yourself out of this depressed state of low.

It is very obvious that she does not deserve you. You have so much that a nice simple level-headed girl can ask for, what the fxxk has she got? 2 pieces of flesh that engulf a cock and a pair of titties to be sucked on? Well there are thousands of good girls out there with the same anatomy I assure you.

I hope you will not be offended by this but her morals are probably as loose as her pussy.
Slept with own cousin? How low can she get?
And that colleague of hers is probably giving her all the attention she is yearning for, chances are he'll get bored very soon I tell you. Because this slut will be overbearing on him and then same thing will happen again, she'll sleep with the same cousin or another one, and that guy will find out and dump her.

So, please, do yourself a favour. You do not deserve this. If the old does not go away, the new will not come. See this in a positive light.

There are always ups and downs in life. This is a down for you. But you should be embarking on an 'up' very soon if you pull yourself together and outta this sadness

[Krazzie]

Originally Posted by Stud00

Love is blind i guess.

Years ago, when i was struggling to make it, i had no money and no honey.
Now, i have some money.. but my honey is behaving in such a manner.

For a man, i guess career is everything but not everything. No career= no $$= no future. and believe me, gals won't wanna marry a guy with no career or dream, ever dated a bummer or loafer?

She says i work very hard, but when i bring her to hi-end holidays, she doesnt complain, question is, where does the money come from? it's not free. All MEN needs a woman to cheer them on, encourage them, comfort them when they fall, is it too much to ask? To cheat? but best one with her cousin, like wtf?

I reflected on myself, and i admit that i didnt spend enuff time with her, but i make amendments, and change.. 2 weeks down the road, same pattern come out, she tell me i don't spend time with her, etc.. work is everything.

I wanna find someone to settle down with, and i don't wanna end up in divorcing.. maybe i shld really join the clubs of players.. and change my nick to THE BASTARD..

Welcome to the club bro, you are not the first and not the last cause personally seen too many cases like yours, and also experienced it myself. Any cheater can say all they want but end of it is still cheating, the choice is always theirs to go fuck around or bring it to our attention.

Of course got plenty of good girls out there but I think they are a dying breed getting rarer and rarer, due to marriages and such.

[rob_onny]

IMHO, her abalone is itchy...

Originally Posted by Stud00

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GF slept with cousin. Gave a chance.. 6 wks later..
she dumps him on a sunday.. and tues she is attached with her colleague. the same colleague which he has warned her to keep a distance from.
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Originally Posted by Stud00

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i mean it's bad enuff.. but my case is, she cheats with her own cousin. And her cousin happens to be married. i am like WTF?

Originally Posted by Stud00

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She says i work very hard, but when i bring her to hi-end holidays, she doesnt complain, question is, where does the money come from? it's not free.
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Originally Posted by Stud00

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Gf tells Bf that the reason why she strays and fucks another guys is because:

1) You are always too busy for me, you got no time for me.
2) Your work is everything.
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[Reoxy]

Originally Posted by Oakley76

I am married and was seeing a married woman.. She cheated on me with my friend and maybe with a couple of guys she met at clubs. Well, like many advices here, I kept her as fb.. But as I do feel for her, I can't help but to feel miserable. To have a clean break is the best thing to do unless you can draw a clear line between fb and lover.

The only person she cheated on is her husband.