Will you marry KTV whore if you love her ?

[kick_ass]

Originally Posted by Big Foot

Thanks bro... I love her & find it hard to say NO

every now and then, a bro will post such question "shld i love a WL?" or "shld i pass them money?"

even with a big NO frm many other bros, the TS will still go ahead and ignore the advice from many other bros.
such irony! u know something isnt right thats why u post and asked around and yet ur still going ahead.
dunno why u even bother to post in the 1st place...

[dvilla]

yup TS, think ur title is wrong, if u really love her, u wun put KTV whore in the first place. There are so many terms to replace whore, for example,

hostess,
girls...

these definitely sound better than whore. And my advice here is think really carefully, carefully abt wad she said, there are bound to be a lot more complicated issues arising before you even realise it.

I wish u luck TS

[teebs_darklord]

Originally Posted by Big Foot

She is honest to tell me she want a Singapore Permanent Resident status but when I told that she is not allow to work KTV after we get married.

Her expression changed 100% she said she need $ to support 2 lao de at home

Initially she told me back in her China hometown, she spent $500 (2,500 yuan) on food, top-up mobile & other daily expenses staying with in parents house. And she need to support her parents.

That why I offered her $1,500 a month but she do not want my money.

I make it clear to her that I do not want her to work in KTV in long term.

I am a middle income earner but I won't hand over all my take home pay to her even after married I only give $1,500 a month for her to manage.

Thanks bro... I love her & find it hard to say NO

TS, look at what I highlighted...

You dun want her to work in KTV after you get married and her expression changed 100%.

Seriously speaking $1,500 is more than sufficient for her to support her parents in China. I presume that you will be paying for her daily expenses since you forsee yourself marrying her.

Your last sentence is the one that takes the cake...You find it hard to say NO to her. This basically means that you will let her do what she wants in future? Then what's the point of this thread in the first place???

[Big Foot]

Originally Posted by dvilla

yup TS, think ur title is wrong, if u really love her, u wun put KTV whore in the first place. There are so many terms to replace whore, for example,

hostess,
girls...

these definitely sound better than whore. And my advice here is think really carefully, carefully abt wad she said, there are bound to be a lot more complicated issues arising before you even realise it.

I wish u luck TS

Why I use the word 'whore' ? Because I felt very angry & upset when she went short times with her customers

[Big Foot]

I am sorry to all bros. My heart is very confused Thanks for giving me good advice.

I really love her but need time & harsh words from you to cut clean this kind of unhealthy relationship.

[smartke]

Originally Posted by Big Foot

She is honest to tell me she want a Singapore Permanent Resident status but when I told that she is not allow to work KTV after we get married.

Her expression changed 100% she said she need $ to support 2 lao de at home



Initially she told me back in her China hometown, she spent $500 (2,500 yuan) on food, top-up mobile & other daily expenses staying with in parents house. And she need to support her parents.

That why I offered her $1,500 a month but she do not want my money.



I make it clear to her that I do not want her to work in KTV in long term.

I am a middle income earner but I won't hand over all my take home pay to her even after married I only give $1,500 a month for her to manage.



Thanks bro... I love her & find it hard to say NO

pardon my bluntness but i cldn't agree more wif statement frm boss, & bros who given their advised. they really meant well for u!

bro, think again... the conversation between 2 of u... her expression shown during the conversion... PRC gers are not as simple as u think. most of them hv hidden agenda. they also very good at KC-ing u & hv ways to make u fall for them. i hv experienced it myself but not to the extend of wat u thinkin now or wat u going to do.

根据你之前所说的，她的用意旁观者再明白不过。但你以上的述说有理由相信你已失去理智，已感情用事。只希望你能早日清醒，回头是岸。

[smartke]

Originally Posted by Big Foot

I am sorry to all bros. My heart is very confused Thanks for giving me good advice.

I really love her but need time & harsh words from you to cut clean this kind of unhealthy relationship.

good to hear tis.. if u need someone to talk to, let me know.

[Mr_don_juan]

Originally Posted by Big Foot

Why I use the word 'whore' ? Because I felt very angry & upset when she went short times with her customers

Bro, you claim you LOVE her but you don't OWN her. She has the right to go with whatever customers for short-term bonking sessions. You see, even pimps sometimes fall in love with their favourites, that's why sometimes OKTs job so easy to do? And if you really do love her, let her go and find the freedom she wants..

[Big Foot]

Originally Posted by Mr_don_juan

Bro, you claim you LOVE her but you don't OWN her. She has the right to go with whatever customers for short-term bonking sessions. You see, even pimps sometimes fall in love with their favourites, that's why sometimes OKTs job so easy to do? And if you really do love her, let her go and find the freedom she wants..

I trying hard now.. give me one month as I won't contact her see how she respond

[alan0338]

Originally Posted by Big Foot

.. give me one month as I won't contact her see how she respond

hehehe, u can tahan so long or not first

actually no need to ask one la....go ahead and marry la, u love her, she love u ma

[Big Foot]

Originally Posted by alan0338

no need ask one la....go ahead and marry la, u love her, she love u ma

For you... will you accept she still carry on working in KTV after marrying to you

[Ichigo_Kurosaki]

Originally Posted by alan0338

.....actually no need to ask one la....go ahead and marry la, u love her, she love u ma

Wow! Bro alan0338, no wonder you are 1 of my best bro.

Same same thinking!!!

Btw, your postings on the Changi prison thread were very good and insightful. I am glad you are ok now and still 一条好汉 !!!

[Mr_don_juan]

Originally Posted by Big Foot

I trying hard now.. give me one month as I won't contact her see how she respond

Bro, when i say let her go.. doesn't mean you sit around and see how she respond, it means you go find other girls that is FIT into your life that you want. You take charge of your choice of girls that is WORTHY to enter into your life. I will suggest that you can continue to contact her but also to find someone SUITABLE for you and your requirements. If you can't take heartaches of cheonging, that you should temporarily stop till you recover and learn your lessons.

[SG Obama]

Originally Posted by Big Foot

hi, I fall in love with a KTV girl working in Singapore. She admitted to me that she did short times with many customers here and also have a bf back in China. Recently she told she broke off with bf in China and return to Singapore after her vacation in China.

She told she wishes that I am her bf because I had been nice & good to her for the past 1 year but she need money to support her old parents in China. Then I offered to give her $1,500 a month to support her parents but she said that is not enough because she herself has eat, spend and travelling expenses too.

Lately she said she also love me wanted to marry me for a PR status here because she want stay in Singapore long term & work in KTV without worry. In addition, she promised me that she won't be a burden to me (asking me for $).

Bros, can you guys accept this type of arrangement ?

is she good in bed? give you heavenly blow and fuck job? 12/10? cat150? if yes to all the above, it's only worth it if you bonk her at least 11 times a month.

otherwise, please use the money for charity and help out poor SINGAPOREAN families for that same $1500 per month. u might go to heaven as a result

those imaginary PRC families got Mr Hu Jing Tao of China to help out.hope your 2nd honours degeee got teach you some economics...china is the richest country on this planet at the moment

[alan0338]

Originally Posted by Big Foot

For you... will you accept she still carry on working in KTV after marrying to you

if i said i will and some more will encourage her to earn as much as possible so tat she can leave me once she earn enaf, will u believe me?

seriously la, u urself know very clearly wat is happening and wat she is up to ma, then if u choose to be 犯贱 for the sake of ur so call love, then nobody can stop u rite..

Originally Posted by Ichigo_Kurosaki

Wow! Bro alan0338, no wonder you are 1 of my best bro.

Same same thinking!!!

Btw, your postings on the Changi prison thread were very good and insightful. I am glad you are ok now and still 一条好汉 !!!

that was long time ago when still young la,old man saying jiao kia dunno lastick....

but after tat episode, time to be a good boy liao...