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Originally Posted by powy
I'd like to share something with you guys that happened to me some time ago.
I was with this gal (my ex then n lets call her K), went to a party to meet my friends; This is the first time I intro K to my friends since we were together for like 8 mths or so (can't recall).
Anyway, at the party, we had some gift exchange and some games etc. K was quite sociable with the everyone; I chatted with all but not extremely much maybe cos I was a tad tired from entire days' activities.
When it was late, K and I left and I sent her home. On the way home, she was still nice n all (a little smile here n there, nothing much or so I thought) didn't chat that much that night.
When we reached her place we started chatting. TKSS, no particular topic. Then suddenly she blurted out "You are secretly in love with L aren't u?"
I was in freaking state of shock!!!! Literally dumbstruck for a few mins. A point to take note of - I didn't have a long conversation with any single one of my friends at the party.
You see, that group of friends I brought K to were all single when we met until a few of them started pairing up and gotten married. And through the years, I've known most of them, I had this freaking huge crush on L but at that time I wasn't ready for any relationships so didn't make any move. In the end L ended with one of the guys and got married but my crush was still there through the years. I didn't tell a single person nor did I pen out my thoughts anywhere. So how the hell did K find out?
Thing here is I'm not married to K but she still figured this out. Now imagine she's your wife for you married guys. Freaking scary to think of what women are capable of.
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I guess your body language, eye contact or some form of actions during the meetup aroused K's to speculate that you might be interested in L. Anyway...it could be just K's 101 way to test a guy. You and L happened to be the sample specimen. :-)
Take it easy....life is short. Seized every single moment.