My pathetic life

[mayday]

well, from the pt of view of yer wifey, u r a fucking bastard, irresponsible man. BUT dun worry, IF she really love u for wat u r. she will come back to u one. LOVE can gloss over wat ever wrongs tt u haf done. Wats left for u to do is to show yer wifey the determination n sincerity to change over a new leaf (n i hope tt u will.) she will come back in no time. take care ya? been brave n nice of u to share this cautionary tale of yers. Take Care

[Rainman]

hope u recover soon.

Cheers

Thx 4 coming out 2 post ur personal xperience.

In present time, only irresponsible ppl wif stupid low mentality will keep saying "want 2 play dun scare".

Remember, every1 of us only hv 1 life. If u dun treasure ur own life then nobody will. If u think ur life is so CHEAP until u can put ur life at risk wif STD & Aids, then think again. If u kenna such disease, not only ur own life is affected, it include ur family members as well. Moreover the disease might b spread around 2 ur spouse/ GF/ other cheongsters too.

i've already cut down a lot on commercial sex activities for the past four years. If i really visit HC, i only go for HJ. No more BBBJ no more FJ. Because.... i treasure my life, i luv my wife & family members.

Take care.

Originally Posted by jare01

Hi guys, I am writing this as i feel that it is my responsibilty to let fellow cheongsters know. It may mean nothing to you if you have not experience this but it took me a whole long week to accept it. You cannot imagine the trauma, agony and the pain i've been thru the past 8 days and the worse part is to having to tell my wife to go for a blood test.

I've been tested positive for secondary stage Syphillis, it happen more than a week ago, when i discovered warts on my penis, my worst fear came true. i was so lost after getting the test results that as i drove home i had a minor accident. And believe me, it's not easy since getting the results, the fear of how to break the news to my wife, how to tell her to go for blood test. Believe me, you really need lots of guts to break this kind of news, in which i couldn't bear to..I then decided to take a break, so applied leave, told my wife i'm going on a fishing trip, took my boat and stay at a kelong in sembawang for a week. It was during this time, i was on the verge of breakdown and nearly collapse. It was during this time when i started thinking of my loved ones, my parents, etc. it was also this time, i come to regret the many things i've done, like all the outside sexual activities, but its too late...

I've finally broke the news to my wife and of course she's not only angry, she's damn mad at me and is now putting up at her sis's place.

The reason of me writing this is firstly to advice all brothers here to think twice b4 sex.. it not worth it. You guys may think like what i used to think, want to fuck so scared for what !! Imagine getting Syphillis is already so stressed out.... I can't imagine ,what if, it turn out to be HIV !! i didn't expect i am to be so unlucky also, I've never done raw, except BBBJ.

The second reason why i'm writing this is, week's before i went for my blood test, i've already a small sore on my small head, and because it's painless, i paid no special attention to it. Put it this way, i'm also ignorant, and all this while, I've been going to HC's and Fl's. I am comtemplating whether to put the names of girls i've bonked for the past 3 mths in this forum but decided against it. But for bros who cheong FL, may want to know , you can PM me...

I really don't know who transmitted to me... and i really hope i've not in turn transmit to the gals or anyone here...

One word of advice, if really need to cheong, cheong safely and wisely.
don't live dangerously. Be responsible to your loved ones and your family.

I am Sorry....