First Time (Shameful Question)

[terrible ted]

Originally Posted by tigerprawn

TS, may I ask:
1. Do you have any problems masturbating and cumming without any pain?

2. Is your foreskin able to retract fully during masturbation?

3. When you say you experience pain during penetration, more specifically where is the pain? Is it a sensitive kind of pain on the head of your penis or pain when your foreskin is trying to retract?

4. If you have no problems masturbating and your foreskin can retract fully during masturbation, and the pain you experience during penetration is the sensitive kind of pain on your penis head, then may I ask did you try to penetrate with your foreskin fully retracted or with your foreskin covering your penis head?
Reason being that for some uncircumcised guys, especially those who have not much sexual experience, their penis head may be ultra sensitive when exposed, so if you try to penetrate with a fully exposed penis head with foreskin fully retracted, then that may cause great pain which may prevent you from even successfully entering.
The solution would be to cover back your foreskin and try to penetrate with your penis head covered with foreskin, as your cock enter the vagina, the lubricated walls will automatically push back your foreskin as you enter. Once you are inside should be no problem. And if you change position, likewise pull back your foreskin first to cover your penis head before entering again.

Does this help?

First of all, a big thank you to all brothers.

I used to be unable to retract the skin because it not really stretched.
I thought it was a case of phimosis but the doctor said I am alright.
However, that was when I was in secondary years. After, I gradually loosen the skin till i am able to do it without pain.

The pain seem to associate itself with the sensitivity of the cock head and I believe the psychological barrier that the foreskin can tear during intercourse.

Is it possible to actually penetrate with the foreskin wrapped?

Or is it the masturbation stance I adopt? I realize that i tend to wrap my hands around the base and progressively jerk off. However, in the porno, the guys often wrap there fingers around the head.

Which way might help?

[YingYang]

I think you're not relaxing yourself enough. Such things must come naturally. The pain will slowly be overcomed once you get used to it. Its because your skin of your dickhead is pulled back like they never had before. The first time is always the most painful but slowly, you will enjoy it.

[tigerprawn]

Originally Posted by terrible ted

First of all, a big thank you to all brothers.

I used to be unable to retract the skin because it not really stretched.
I thought it was a case of phimosis but the doctor said I am alright.
However, that was when I was in secondary years. After, I gradually loosen the skin till i am able to do it without pain.

The pain seem to associate itself with the sensitivity of the cock head and I believe the psychological barrier that the foreskin can tear during intercourse.

Is it possible to actually penetrate with the foreskin wrapped?

Or is it the masturbation stance I adopt? I realize that i tend to wrap my hands around the base and progressively jerk off. However, in the porno, the guys often wrap there fingers around the head.

Which way might help?

Bro, since you have been medically cleared of any problems by doctor, and you confirmed that the pain is in relation to sensitivity of dick head, then my earlier guess was correct.

Go try to penetrate with foreskin closed. Yes you can penetrate with foreskin closed, or rather, you do not need to retract your foreskin first before attempting penetration. Sometimes, during foreplay like blowjob, your foreskin may be retracted all the way, if you follow immediately like this with penetration with exposed dick head, of course you will feel sensitivity pain on dick head in your case. You need to pull the foreskin back to close up your dick head first before penetration. Let the act of penetration itself into the lubricated cuntal walls push back your foreskin naturally. Trust me bro, this works.

As for your masturbation stance, there is nothing wrong. You have to realise that most uncircumcised guys like yourself will feel more sensitive on the dick head than circumcised guys.

Good luck bro and do try my suggested method. It will work. : )

[topchef]

The solution would be to cover back your foreskin and try to penetrate with your penis head covered with foreskin, as your cock enter the vagina, the lubricated walls will automatically push back your foreskin as you enter. Once you are inside should be no problem. And if you change position, likewise pull back your foreskin first to cover your penis head before entering again.

Does this help?[/QUOTE]

hi bro,i haf been doin tis all the while but is there any other solution to cure tight foreskin except gg for a circumsize?its quite annoying for the gal sometime with the extra 'step' needed after each position...

[maxilite]

i'm guessing its the under side of the dick head.. where there is this meat/skin attaching to the "outer skin" and when u pull back it hurts... had the same problem while masting when i was younger...

just like a virgin girl.. just do it once.. feel the pain.. aft that it'll be gone...

either that or ur entering the girl at the wrng angle...
using a lubricated condom can help solve the problem...
lubricate outside not inside the condom.. -.-