Relationship with someone 15 years younger? - Page 2

fairlady12 · #16 09-02-2010, 08:09 PM

what will make u (or you guys) go astray huh? he also claims to be happy with his marriage (somehow it really stabs me when he says that but i guess it's to deter me from having funny ideas). sorry ar TS,dont mind borrow your thread. haah

fairlady12 · #17 09-02-2010, 08:24 PM

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Originally Posted by bigcici

Here's my first post,

I'm married with 1 child. Knew tis gal when I taught her tuition some years ago in P5. We will call each other occassionally and chat over the phone. Thought nothing of that. She was not a looker then but now she is 23 yo and has really develop. She hinted to me a few times and I resisted not knowing what to do. I even rejected her by saying that I'm happy with my family and do not want to break it up. Now then I do feel a little itch and may wan to keep her as my mistress, should I or should I not? Problem......

anyway its very hard to tell if the girl is in for pure fun or has feelings for u (sometimes she can hide her feelings AND end up cannot control.....things will get really messy). but if she is in for fun + has feelings for u + knows the boundaries and limits, congrats. depending on your intentions, dont keep as mistress, FB is good enough. it hurts like hell when i see him and his family, yes i get really jealous but..just not vindictive enough to double cross him.

goodpartner · #18 09-02-2010, 11:08 PM

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Originally Posted by bigcici

Thanks Bro for all your reply, was just wondering how some of u guys manage to keep both women in ur life happy. I seems to be having a big problem with that or else I would have proceed.....heehee

So that's the main intention! You've obviously already decide to do it and just need some adviceS to step two boats with one leg

Well, to keep both women happy in a situation where a normal r/s already started and at least one of them knows the existent of the other, it's near impossible.

To do it, First you need to start with no women (i.e. Get rid of all; divorce, break off, etc), then start afresh and adopt a playboy attitude; tell all the women who wants to hook you that if they are thinking of marriage, to get lost. Make it clear you're a playboy but don't mind having them as friends as you do not want to settle down... yet. Hinting that if they don't mind waiting and competing with other female friends

Then, you can make both (or more) women happy with you

Ichigo_Kurosaki · #19 10-02-2010, 12:16 AM

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Originally Posted by pterchew

.....Does It Worth if thing goes out of hands, like kenna caught?.....

I agreed with bro pterchew above. This sort of tutor/student (or ex) fling is asking for trouble and can potentially create major problems and "risky situations" for a married man. Kenna caught is just 1 potential problem, what if the girl turned around and accused TS of non-consensual sex, he be in hot soup! Much more and too late for any regret

Fbuddy · #20 10-02-2010, 12:03 PM

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Originally Posted by bigcici

Thanks Bro for all your reply, was just wondering how some of u guys manage to keep both women in ur life happy. I seems to be having a big problem with that or else I would have proceed.....heehee

As long as you have enough $$, and both woman not stay in same city, maybe you can make both the woman happy. so first please check your pocket

fresno99 · #21 10-02-2010, 12:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Fbuddy

As long as you have enough $$, and both woman not stay in same city, maybe you can make both the woman happy. so first please check your pocket

Hmmm.. sometimes hor.. no need too much $$ can still make the women happy le.. I know some guys who are dead broke but can keep several gals.. must be their tongue-hu and dick-hu beri tok-gong.. Or is it that some gals keep getting drawn to losers?

SamSeng79 · #22 10-02-2010, 12:40 PM

If their is a mutual agreeement b4 hand, still ok.. But make sure things dun go out of hand.. Break up if something has gone wrong

see see only · #23 10-02-2010, 12:48 PM

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Originally Posted by fresno99

Hmmm.. sometimes hor.. no need too much $$ can still make the women happy le.. I know some guys who are dead broke but can keep several gals.. must be their tongue-hu and dick-hu beri tok-gong.. Or is it that some gals keep getting drawn to losers?

Bro fresno99, agreed with u.

When me dead broke some years ago ... me got a few SYT gfs they will offer me help & hehehe

I guess when they are young, some of them either wish to feel needed and useful

or some wish to be pampered & love ... so it depend which type you meet

bigcici · #24 10-02-2010, 08:22 PM

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Originally Posted by fairlady12

sounds so similar to my situation but from a lady's perspective.. I am around her age, and he is 15 years older. With 2 kids. Sad thing is, it lasted only less than a month. I cannot believe he rejected free sex (we did it only once or twice and he gave me the feeling that he wants it out..). I am not ugly nor fat or whatever. I offered a FB relationship, not explicitly but yeah (i love him but i know realistically speaking, I dont foresee nor expect him to be divorcing and stuffs). I used to text him only when he is at work (ie not with his wife), even then i do not flood him with messages. I feel it's because he felt he has more to lose if the relationship gets exposed. kind of sad. haah

Thanks for your advice, we just started out so I will take note. I really want to make it last and not just a few months fling. She knows my situation and does not encourage me to break wif my wife or break my family. So I guess I'm doing fine......as for FB I always think that its not realistic to jus have sex and not feel anything if so might as well jus get any FL will do.....

see see only · #25 11-02-2010, 08:31 AM

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Originally Posted by bigcici

Thanks for your advice, we just started out so I will take note. I really want to make it last and not just a few months fling. She knows my situation and does not encourage me to break wif my wife or break my family. So I guess I'm doing fine......as for FB I always think that its not realistic to jus have sex and not feel anything if so might as well jus get any FL will do.....

Errr.... bro bigcici,

Most third party woman will said the same in the first place

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but after some "sacrificing" and when you started to appreciate ...

Their DEMAND will come ... lots of them ......................... suggest that you better hit and run ... nevertheless wish you luck

GeMiNiZzzzZzz · #26 11-02-2010, 09:27 AM

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Originally Posted by see see only

Most third party woman will said the same in the first place

.. but after some "sacrificing" and when you started to appreciate ...

Their DEMAND will come ... lots of them ......................... suggest that you better hit and run ... nevertheless wish you luck

bro, I was about to post something like this as well, it seems some peeps just do not realise this yet

Anyhow, we might just get a new thread : "FB ask me to leave my family - Pls advice"

fairlady12 · #27 11-02-2010, 10:03 AM

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Originally Posted by see see only

Errr.... bro bigcici,

Most third party woman will said the same in the first place

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but after some "sacrificing" and when you started to appreciate ...

Their DEMAND will come ... lots of them ......................... suggest that you better hit and run ... nevertheless wish you luck

ha ha there is some truth in what you mentioned. when u give more, she will gradually expect more, especially when she likes/loves you, as time passes. i guess girls are just like that, even some level headed ones. there will be tears and sadness..getting caught in dilemma. during the initial stage both will feel damn happy..like falling in love all over again.

anyway i dont discuss family or wife with him. only once, the evening before we did anything, he asked how was my bf and i. and i asked the same (which he said he's happy with his marriage.. aww ha).

JIU XING · #28 11-02-2010, 10:29 AM

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Originally Posted by bigcici

Thanks for your advice, we just started out so I will take note. I really want to make it last and not just a few months fling. She knows my situation and does not encourage me to break wif my wife or break my family. So I guess I'm doing fine......as for FB I always think that its not realistic to jus have sex and not feel anything if so might as well jus get any FL will do.....

wahahah...gd luck bro!!!

when u get into problem, then u know y fls are better liao kekeke

but sian, can also get into trouble with fls ma hehe