Would you forgive your spouse/partner for cheating on you?

[shroom]

Would depend on her intention and reason for cheating.

Forgive, everyone makes mistakes whether intentionally or unintentionally.

But if she did cheat raw or get pregnant then bye bye.

[ziggylicks]

No point in forgiving your partner, if you caught them cheating on you, if you are not able to forget.
Everything is easier said than done, first we must ask ourselves are we ready to forgive and forget. There must be a mutual understanding and communication.If not it will never work.
If we are ready to forgive, then we must also be ready to forget, and never used what has happened to spite your partner, as it'll ultimately hurt your relationship more, unless we are ready to forgo it.

[cheongsterjon]

I can never forgive my girl if she cheats on me. Even it sounds selfish that I sometimes go eat outside, how many guys can imagine another guy licking his girl's body, fucking and cumming in her///..eeww i cannot.

[Genmen]

My wife cheated on me not once or twice, but a total of 6 times. Worst still, 2 of them were my friends. Once she lied to me asking me to send to her girlfriend's house, but after some time, I realized that I was actually sending her to another guy's place for sex....can you imagine that....

Although I forgave all her cheatings (because I still love her), sometimes the imagination of her having sex with other guys just came into my mind. I will try shift my mind into work so that I will not be moody and after sometime, those cheatings mean nothing to me....I managed to convince myself that the past are gone.....

I do not know if this is her 'bao ying' cause couple of months ago, she was raped at knife point. My wife have a very strong phobia for knives. She said that because the guy held the knife at her, she gave in because she is scared. But the strangest thing, she refused to report the matter and she can even said that she will treat this as a ONS.....Now I am wondering if this is true....

[yang punk]

Originally Posted by Genmen

My wife cheated on me not once or twice, but a total of 6 times. ....

Have you ever bothered to ask her why she did that to you?

Either she is an uncontrollable nympho or you can't satisfy her. Or your fetish is to be a cuckold husband.

[aakumu]

Originally Posted by boob_man

This is a burning question that I've been wanting to ask. We men (well, at least majority of us) have always been "cheating" on our spouses/partners - hence all the FRs here.....

I wonder what if the opposite happened? Meaning, our spouses/partners "cheated" on us & contributed their own FRs. If we were to find out, will we, or can we forgive them?

As for me, I don't think I can do it......

Hi bro,
I am selfish, so the answer is "NO"

Originally Posted by tomvoyeur

Yes dudes. Cheat and be cheated....Dun complain when the tables are turned....

Hi bro,
Agreed.

Originally Posted by yang punk

Have you ever bothered to ask her why she did that to you?

Either she is an uncontrollable nympho or you can't satisfy her. Or your fetish is to be a cuckold husband.

Hi bro,
Good one, maybe he has to have the courage to do something.

My humble two cents.

[overair]

Originally Posted by casannova03

Mother nature has created the world to be a place of balance.
I.E

Yin vs Yang
Man vs women
Cold vs Hot
etc etc...there are so many everyday examples!

So when people try to upset these balances and go against mother nature, they will feel uncomfortable and start to be worried that there might be a repercussion from the other side of the balance.

My point is,

If you do not want to feel afraid or feel insecure, then dun even do it in the first place (infidelity).

However, if you have done it, it's only nature's law that one day you might be treated in the same way. So accept it!

There is no such thing as I always want 51% and others must be contented with 49%. No matter how hard you try, one day, things will revert back to 50% vs 50% whether u like it or not.

Summary: Forgive and Forget! Life is too short to be spent grumbling over past issues. I would!!

cool!!! I like ...

[Genmen]

Originally Posted by yang punk

Have you ever bothered to ask her why she did that to you?

Either she is an uncontrollable nympho or you can't satisfy her. Or your fetish is to be a cuckold husband.

Because she found those guys to be cute and like to try something new...another reason is she dont know how to reject....can you really accept that reason???

[lglg666]

Yes....tough question But like most bros here, think it is best to "move on with life" and forgive but it would be hard to forget. Believed things won't be the same as before

[babyprincess.sg]

i think you guys are a bit too much.

1) if you cheated on your spouse or partner 1st. YOU MUST ACCPET IT,if he or her cheated behind you back too. if not its not fair.

2) if you dont want people to do what you dont like. why you do it first?

[BANANASKIN]

Originally Posted by Genmen

Because she found those guys to be cute and like to try something new...another reason is she dont know how to reject....can you really accept that reason???

BRoz, ur wife is giving ur fucking nonsense ans.
U tell her serangoon rd there got a lot of desperate bangala, how can ur wife not reject all of them?
Pls divorce her lar. Her heart still not stable down yet, still wnt to fuck ard...
A leopard will nv change its spots.
Pls let her go and release all ur pain.

[naturegreen]

Originally Posted by Genmen

My wife cheated on me not once or twice, but a total of 6 times. Worst still, 2 of them were my friends. Once she lied to me asking me to send to her girlfriend's house, but after some time, I realized that I was actually sending her to another guy's place for sex....can you imagine that....

Although I forgave all her cheatings (because I still love her), sometimes the imagination of her having sex with other guys just came into my mind. I will try shift my mind into work so that I will not be moody and after sometime, those cheatings mean nothing to me....I managed to convince myself that the past are gone.....

I do not know if this is her 'bao ying' cause couple of months ago, she was raped at knife point. My wife have a very strong phobia for knives. She said that because the guy held the knife at her, she gave in because she is scared. But the strangest thing, she refused to report the matter and she can even said that she will treat this as a ONS.....Now I am wondering if this is true....

Bro, why not intro her to us? You mentioned she was raped at knife point and she gave in. Personally, I do not think this is true. How many guys in the right mind in Singapore dare to do this? Think of the penalty should the girl report to the police. Unless the girl is willing, then maybe.... Just like what other samsters have mentioned, divorce her and move on. So perhaps she is having lots of ONS for her to be able to accept a rape as an ONS.

[Genmen]

Originally Posted by naturegreen

Bro, why not intro her to us? You mentioned she was raped at knife point and she gave in. Personally, I do not think this is true. How many guys in the right mind in Singapore dare to do this? Think of the penalty should the girl report to the police. Unless the girl is willing, then maybe.... Just like what other samsters have mentioned, divorce her and move on. So perhaps she is having lots of ONS for her to be able to accept a rape as an ONS.

Maybe you are right. Actually I also do think the same you do but I am just giving the benefit of doubts. True enough she has phobia of sharp items like knife or scissors, and maybe this made me think is true....or I want it to be....

[Great Conqueror]

Originally Posted by Genmen

Because she found those guys to be cute and like to try something new...another reason is she dont know how to reject....can you really accept that reason???

What kind of @#$%^ reason is that?

[superchevy]

Originally Posted by Genmen

My wife cheated on me not once or twice, but a total of 6 times. Worst still, 2 of them were my friends. Once she lied to me asking me to send to her girlfriend's house, but after some time, I realized that I was actually sending her to another guy's place for sex....can you imagine that....

Although I forgave all her cheatings (because I still love her), sometimes the imagination of her having sex with other guys just came into my mind. I will try shift my mind into work so that I will not be moody and after sometime, those cheatings mean nothing to me....I managed to convince myself that the past are gone.....

I do not know if this is her 'bao ying' cause couple of months ago, she was raped at knife point. My wife have a very strong phobia for knives. She said that because the guy held the knife at her, she gave in because she is scared. But the strangest thing, she refused to report the matter and she can even said that she will treat this as a ONS.....Now I am wondering if this is true....

bro , if i were to be u the 2 friend that fuck your wife will get fuck by me...will ambush tham and kick their testical for fucking ppl wife..that for sure...is revenge time than later than sort out your wife.