my girlfriend

[Regular^^]

plan.movies?dinner?buy something she eyeing for quite sometime? create a nice cool room.. maybe light up some scent~ slowly raba with her abit.. try this.. almost everytime work..BUT BEFORE U DO ALL THESE.. CHECK SHE HAVE PERIOD ANOT!@??! LOL

[kra77]

Originally Posted by kokokeith

I have been with my girlfriend for a few months.. This few months she keep on don't want to give me sex.. finally, I managed to f*** her a few days back but then now she said that she will only give me once every few months..

I know that when she was with a few of her ex, she can f*** all day long.. so of them even treat her as sex toy.. damn tulan now it comes to my turn she don't want to give me..

Any bro can advise me how to break her resistance?

bro its so easy.... just don get intimate with her... don hold hands or something like that... be like a fren to her... play hard to get man....
did this so many times to my gf and she will feel something is wrong...

i just tell her that i off my bf mode until she ready for me...
but pls remember relationship is not just sex... hahaha
i did this way becos she uses sex for bait... so i am tired for that.... hahaha

[Ole~o~o~Ole]

It depend on how close yr relationship with her since just only few mths.

[waiwaiz]

Bro....use soft method.........Act very pitiful with out sex with her......say respect her don't wana force her.....Act chiam....Slowly her heart will melt de.......

Good luck......

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[supreme81]

she your gf or a sex machine to you? why do you like to compare with her ex?

[takashi-san]

after thinking may be she want a diff love life fr her past, a fresh start with you, as wat you say some of her ex treat her as sex toy so may be she take it as a test for you, if you really love her then i think you should let her take her time, if you are serious to this relationship and really love her and she too, then you got lots of time to have sex with her. Take care and no point think too much...

[steamystreamsg]

Try to find out what's the real reason she did that & work it out with her

[LostALau]

I am definitely not going to overturn all the good advice by other bros which u should seriously think about but I would just like to add my cheeky thought on this matter.

Perhaps your sexual skill sucks and she did not enjoy having sex with you. In order to please u, she relents and let u have it once in a long while to keep the relationship going. If that is the case, u should polish up your sexual skill. Why don't u give us a full description of how u sexed her and invite bros here to comment and advise on it?

[pewpew]

How come now people have the concept of GF n FLs are the same?

FL - You can F them whenever you like whenever you have the money with no time restriction.

GF - You must find the right atmosphere and timing to have the best of the sex experience.

Please remember, GF are not sex toy, treat them with respect and appreciate them...

[BigBoy2]

Well sometimes it not your GF, do you think you might be the one whom is having problem?

Anyway the following is some suggestion hope it might help. But first you must tell her that you had got ragging homones and you need ti almost everyday. Then ask her to help you without you having sex with her, because you love her and respect her decision not to have sex so often.

1. Get her to do sexy dance in your room or something like that, while you yank it off yourself.

2. Ask her to help you yank it off.

3. Watch prono with her and yank it.

If you are lucky in the above attempt, you might even get luckier and she might join in the fun.

If the above does not work out with her, then after sometime break the news to her that you will be looking for someone outside to satisfy your urge, so please do not blame you for it, and you love her too much to force her into sex with you.

Finally if she is unreasonable, then I do not think that she deserve your love, move on in life then BRO.

Just my 2 cents worth.

BB2

[BAD-MAN]

hi bro , my advice to u is that ....don force her if u really love her , at the end u r still a Gainer

[Cheri Bebe]

Hey there, I'm a girl myself, and judging from what you've said about her past experiences and whatnot, I guess it has already left an impact on her. I believe as most guys know, girls tend to be more emotional (stereotypically).

Perhaps you could have a heart to heart talk with her, find out the root of the problem, and find a solution together. If possible, try to compromise also okay. Let her know how you feel too. Help her overcome the obstacle within her, and for all you know, things may take a great turn.

All the best!

[lasupkia]

The reasons i can think of is :

1. Yr gf is a statistician. She has been keeping count of the number of times she have sex before and doesn't want to use up her quota. Maybe she will ask u to bid for her COFE. (Certificate of Fucking Entitlement)

2. As another bro suggest regarding the skills department. Maybe u are the "Wham Bam Thank You Mdm" type so she can't reach her O with u.

[Blue_Blue]

Think if she really loves you, your sex skills isn't really that important lah.

What's important is she feel the love when doing it with you. The feeling that she didn't get from her EXs. Could be her wild days are over?

TAKE THE SEX OUT OF YOUR MIND. I guess she wants to be loved and she wants to know if you are the one.

Don't ask qns like why she doens't want to have sex with you or anything related to sex.

Don't be a stupid ass to do things like bocham her, or act kelian or threaten to leave her...

Don't expect sex from your relationship, if you really love her...

Be patient bro...

[kokokeith]

Thank bros for your replies.

To make things clearer, she still give me but not very frequent lah.. Some of the bro suggested nice dinner stunt I try it already. On valentine day, that where I first time do it with her. But this kind of thing cannot say everytime you want then you spend a few hundreds dollar buying dinner mah. Not like movie everytime do it must be in romantic setting mah.

She seem like trust all her ex more than me. Last time she don't mind her ex treat her badly. Now it comes to me, I need to bear all her emotional shit she done last time. I just feel it's not fair.

Some bro here say must give her time, but how long should I give her? She got emotions I also got emotions. Why must it always be me who give in?