An Affair with an older married lady... and the aftermath...

[owlette]

Originally Posted by junebaby

What a lively discussion suddenly. Here's what I think.

Concur with your thoughts. Especially when you have first hand experience talking to Mark, you'll definitely have a clearer picture of the situation.

I think its interesting that Mark is adding more and more of his personal thoughts in his updates but i am concerned that he keeps thinking that leaving is the best option

[junior_cannibal]

While Kate kept repeating to ask Mark not to hurt Jasmine by leaving her, what about him?
What if Jasmine decides she prefers women to men or she finds someone else? In today's era, nobody will die because his/her loved ones leave. Ya, heart broken it may be, but the wound may leave a mark, but will heal by time.
When Jasmine let's Mark meet, satisfy them, she should know that increase the chance of him wanting one of them, all of them, instead of her. She ain't the one with the best character or provides the best sex. Mark gets hard with all of them anyway.
The day will come when a clear choice may need to be made, there will bound to be heart broken ones.

[DaTan]

I sense the ending of the story is coming soon, or I mean Mark choosing to end everything.

[84gunner]

Originally Posted by DaTan

I sense the ending of the story is coming soon, or I mean Mark choosing to end everything.

Sometimes, affairs of the heart can drag for damn long time.

英雄气短，儿女情长 :-D

[Asakura]

if he was beginning to think about ending things, he won't have head back to sleep between the 2 ladies

Originally Posted by DaTan

I sense the ending of the story is coming soon, or I mean Mark choosing to end everything.

[otamay]

Originally Posted by 84gunner

Sometimes, affairs of the heart can drag for damn long time.

英雄气短，儿女情长 :-D

Fully agreed with you because Mark seems to be enjoying himself to the fullest.

Camping here for more juicy updates please.

[skyline2000]

Originally Posted by DaTan

I sense the ending of the story is coming soon, or I mean Mark choosing to end everything.

Having the same feeling as well.

[junebaby]

Originally Posted by gankokyou

Hoping for June to join in the sexual romps

Why would I want to do that when I don't think any of them can satisfy me?

And sorry Mark for deviating, but thanks to Nat and Darren, I've finally introduced my husband to my current FWB.

[cheekyfoot]

Originally Posted by junebaby

Why would I want to do that when I don't think any of them can satisfy me?

You won't know until you try

[Penguin23]

Originally Posted by Shrouded

For me the choice was clear. I would have to leave all of them. Hurt everyone and myself in the process and wish none of this ever started.

But that wasn't a choice I was willing to make.

That's pretty drastic, and probably unnecessary.

If you think about this logically - it was your need for validation, plus a set of unusually fortunate circumstances that led to the great fuckfest that is today. I think, no matter what polyamorous men and women say there will always be a tinge of jealousy if you see your girl being shafted by another cock. I very much doubt that this emotional reflex can be eliminated - maybe in Nat this is muted but it should still exist, no matter what she says.

In other words, I think there is, and always will be some degree of reluctance sharing a partner with other people. Long-term polyamorous relationships tend to break down, because it only takes one jealous party for the whole thing to fall apart. A happy fuckfest can only be sustained if all participants, without exception, only fornicate for pleasure. But, this is clearly impossible in the long run, feelings will creep in for sure because that is a natural human need.

The need for good sex, with emotions will become more pronounced as you grow older. When you are young, spraying your wild oats in as many throbbing pussies as possible is a personal achievement, but as you grow older you start to even forget some of the mindless fucks you did before and start to grow weary of headboard-banging wild sex with women whose names you barely remember. Like others have said before, quality will take precedence over quantity (and I dare say, take precedence over variety as well). So the natural endgame is always to choose one stable loving partner whom you really can see yourself growing old with.

Wishing you all the best in finding the clarity of mind and the balls to just ask Jasmine to be exclusively yours. I think your desire to be monogamous is clearly there, but you're just enjoying the pussy variety too damn much for the moment, so this clouds your thinking. Oh, I really don't think Jasmine cares that much about the feelings of other girls. She just wants YOU to take charge, sweep off her feet, fuck her until she's pregnant, then marry her.

All the best

[junebaby]

Originally Posted by cheekyfoot

You won't know until you try

To be brutally honest, I'm only impressed by Darren's size, but his endurance and stamina seems questionable.

The only other supposed decent cock is EoS, but I've not seen it, only read about it, there's no way to verify.

Mark may be good at foreplay or what, but I'm more turned on by cocks that are of a certain size, and a personality or behaviour that doesn't clash with mine.

[BushTracker]

Originally Posted by junebaby

Why would I want to do that when I don't think any of them can satisfy me?

And sorry Mark for deviating, but thanks to Nat and Darren, I've finally introduced my husband to my current FWB.

Congrats.. that's one small step by a woman and one . . . oh never mind that. Maybe you can start a new thread to chronicle your progress.

[junebaby]

Originally Posted by BushTracker

Congrats.. that's one small step by a woman and one . . . oh never mind that. Maybe you can start a new thread to chronicle your progress.

We went straight for a threesome. Was even better than my first threesome years ago. Very surprised about their chemistry. Maybe it's an army thing. And there's something strangely erotic about two guys trying to outdo each other in bed. I could barely walk properly after that.

And someone actually did PM me saying since I had so many things to say why don't I share my own story.

I'm still thinking about that.

[BushTracker]

Originally Posted by junebaby

We went straight for a threesome. Was even better than my first threesome years ago. Very surprised about their chemistry. Maybe it's an army thing. And there's something strangely erotic about two guys trying to outdo each other in bed. I could barely walk properly after that.

And someone actually did PM me saying since I had so many things to say why don't I share my own story.

I'm still thinking about that.

Oh wow.. Lucky you. Now you really must start a new thread to share with us the details.

[junebaby]

Originally Posted by BushTracker

Oh wow.. Lucky you. Now you really must start a new thread to share with us the details.

Let me think about it. Haha.

I don't think it's very easy to write.