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#271
04-09-2023, 02:55 AM
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Re: OPP
This thread kind of reminded me a lot of memories of the times I used to had in my 20s. I’m 30s right now and I kinda feel everything is so different.
Classmate (2012) It’s my first OPP as I was still in ny poly days back then. My classmate boyfriend whom is attached had a huge fight with her boyfriend confided in me. Crying and crying while I send her home honestly I was just disturbed but I do not know how to deal with a crying woman. It was at this point she asked me to drink at her place when her parents are abroad after parking at her carpark. It all started from there. Lasted 8 months. From Facebook, She’s married with him and have 2 kids now. Wechat people nearby (2014) A lady from China whom is here with her kid and her husband went back to China after being fired. Back then just started the wechat trend and chat her up. After chatting for few days I tried asking her out for dinner and after sending her back she texted me “I wished you’re right here with me you make me wanna do something wrong” U turn and went straight to her rented home. She hiong me into the house and we had our first time in the toilet of the place. Lasted for 4 months until her husband came back Wechat people nearby (2014) Just ended the one before and started to used people nearby again. Met another lady and chatted with her for few weeks. Started initially very cold. Slowly we got abit of intimate at text and she was more willing to share her affairs with me. One day while texting decided to tell her I’m feeling in need and she replied “I’m only gonna give you one chance, now or never” bought my condoms and flew down to her. Head to the nearest hotel and she squeeze me 6 times that night. Lasted for a year and she got possessive when my works get busy so time to stop. During that one year I won’t even find any lady at all. She squeeze me dry all the time. Pretty insane Wechat people nearby (2015) Chatted with her cause I see her emo story on latest feed. She needed someone to talk to and I entertained her for a night. Since then she’s always been very nice and told me she wanted to treat me a meal. Basically she told me she’s single and just broke up. Met her up a week later and she insisted on treating me. I obliged and she was pretty touchy for the first meet up. When sending her back she started sharing stuffs of her and her boyfriend on bed and I just told her don’t share more if not I’m afraid I cannot take it. Next moment she grabbed my d. I swear I got a shock of my life. At that point I had no much ideas on her cause she’s more plump unlike her photos. Next moment she went down on me while I’m still driving. Tbh I only thought this happens in movie. We had car sex at a discreet carpark. We carried on for 2 months and subsequently I realised from Facebook that she’s married and the reason why she’s more plump than photos is cause she just gave birth not long. I did question her when we first did it she say is cause fat and slim down. Back then stupid and believed. But yes after I know about it, we met for one more fuck and we decided to end peacefully. Client (2016) Used to be doing sales and I had a client whom is the procurement manager of a really big company. Visited her and tried breaking rapport despite first visit. Very well kept body despite in her late 30s and had a wedding ring on. Just wanted to clinch the deal for the comms. However, she was really friendly to me and we became closer. Soon our next appointment she asked for lunch appointment which is perfect for me cause I’ll get to claim a good meal. Brought her to an atas fancy restaurant. All in all, it becomes a sharing session of her marriage and how she is tired in life with no spark. I told her I’ll spice things up for her and asked if she’s free in the evening so I can meet her after work. She agreed and I brought her to fine dining, had a ride on the Ferris wheel and literally like dating. She was really happy and I send her home. Obviously, I clinched the deal and we had meet up every month for work. After two months she asked why am I not bringing her to enjoy little things in life after I clinched the deal. Not wanting her to misunderstand I did it for my deal, I planned it weekly provided her timing allows. Just on the first meet up, we ended up doing 2 times. She was one of me insane ones I had. While riding she will start talking dirty which gave me a boost of my confidence. She’s also the first squirter I’ve met. Lasted till she wanted to have her second baby. But on our last time she ask me to cum inside. God knows what she’s thinking Tantan (2017) Downloaded it for fun and met someone from Indonesia here for a vacation. Abit more lame but nothing much to talk and she asked for dinner. After dinner in the carpark she jumped on me. Literally jumped and crossover to driver seat. Moved to back seat and I am being eaten alive in the car. Machiem Kena raped. Everytime she comes sg she will meet me up and she always stays in really nice hotels. Sex marathon every few months. Ended abruptly during covid cause she never came back again Girlfriend friend (2018) Got attached in early 2018 and was ready to be a loyal man. She had this friend whom is not that close but would meet up once in awhile. She had really long legs and is attached as well. One day she texted me asking if I am at Vivo and I’m like yeah? She was right behind me, turns out she’s supposed to meet her friend and her friend put her aeroplane. I was just dropping by to get something and she accompanied her. We had dinner together and she asked if I could send her home. Things got weird ever since where she texted me everyday. One day I had fever and she’s asked me where do I stay so I just told her the block. Next text I received is she’s at my block asking for my unit. She came up bring me soup and medication and I was really surprised. I was wearing a boxer and when she was taking temperature while I’m lying on bed I got a hardon. I apologised and she started giggling. Next moment, we fucked like love birds. After sex, it feels abit fucked up cause I know her boyfriend and she knows my girlfriend. The stuck up thing is this innocent lady infront of me in education line tells me she enjoys it and she finds it really exciting. She tell me she enjoys it more than with her boyfriend. Then next thing I know she’s riding and telling me how exciting she feels it is. We continued for 3 months until I broke up and she wanted to be my gf. I told her not into rs at the moment. We had sex for another 6 months as single individual until she got attached and I decided to end it even tho she didn’t wanted to. Ex girlfriend (2019) Got connected with one of my ex on social media and saw she’s married. Started having small chats and subsequently moved to telegram. It was really smooth, I can’t even rmb why we met up at my place but it happened and we started our game the moment she entered. She was really good on bed. Continued for 1.5 years until covid happened and she started asking me to go to her place while her husband is asleep. Crazy Tinder (2020) Indian SYT Not gonna lie, she’s hot. Have never been attracted to Indian my entire life until I met her. We came to consensus that we are not into serious rs and we had sex on 3 separate day at my place.. She was attached and unsure why she’s doing so she don’t wanna share. But honestly she enjoys sex with me a lot from her words and when I asked about her boyfriend she just shook her head and kept mum. Uni student Attached and met up for a ons. Pretty straightforward. Horny and we met up. Had sex in my car and then we never talked again. Thank you covid and circuit breaker. Wechat (2022) One PRC milf I met and she’s the first to have given me some really exciting sex life. She’s around 40 when I first met her and brought her to many fanciful hotels. She enjoys MBS the most cause I could doggy her right at the window facing one of nicest view is sg. She’s also the first who chat with her husband on the phone while having sex with me. Shared about her on another thread before. Pretty mind blowing. Lasted till end of 2022 Back then when I was a poor bloke and didn’t have much in life. Life was so much fun. Slowly as life got better for me. The sexual life didn’t seems to be that fun like before. I’ve got bigger house, bigger cars and better in career but at the same time there’s less chances to meet new adventures. Firstly of course due to the point where work gets busier, secondly the world seems to change and woman seems more tougher to get on wechat or any app platform not say it’s hard but not how it used to be where everyone is more simpler. Right now kinky ladies would either be doing FL or Onlyfans for the younger generation. If not there’s no way I’m gonna meet the rest. Those in 30s 40s don’t really get chance to come in contact anymore. Anyone feeling the same? Last edited by Unrevealedbro; 04-09-2023 at 03:17 AM. 
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#272
04-09-2023, 12:01 PM
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Let me chime in here uninvited  Based on what u shared, nothing has changed even though u are at the better and bigger stuff phase of your life. If u noticed, most of your past 'flings', it was the women who made the first move. From what i read, evidently they were lonely, typical too. Technically u rarely go out on a hunting mode at all, again this is from i read. Then u going out hunting but still in your previous mindset now. U do need to realise in the past, u reacted to the situation but now u want to create the situation. The situation is being in the proximity of lonely women who are willing to stray. It begs the question do u want to be in the proximity of lonely women or go hunting for women who wants some action. These are two very different narratives, right?
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#273
04-09-2023, 12:41 PM
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Great share! will up ya' cheers
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#274
04-09-2023, 06:54 PM
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 This is her way of hinting she is ready for a sexcation in 2-3 days. She has never messaged or called me and said let’s fuck. Her way is through such provocative or inviting pics through whatsapp. More than half the time I would be available. Then we would meet within 2-3 days. If we are heading for an overseas sexcation, it would be discussed at the last rendezvous. We never discuss such matter at length through messages. Sex has always been great with her. We did it all except for threesomes and above which was her no-no. She has been on the pill so that I can enjoy my climax to the fullest. She pretty much has no inhibitions though we kept it between the two of us and no other parties. We did it so often in public, at beaches and park mostly, local and overseas. Indoors, we share the taste of expensive hotels locally and overseas. As a sexual partner, she is a more obliging than the aggressive one. Her most often used declaration was , “I would never say no to you dar, never”. Dar as in short for darling. Yes, except for having other parties into our sex, she never say no. It has always been a free-range sexual exploration between us. And I was the one who taught and introduced her to anal sex. So this is my ode to her, my very cool and sexy goddess. She was one of my most prized pussy (FWB/OPP), mellows like wine. The chances of getting together again is very slim as she has moved to Aus to be with her aging mom. And the whole dynamics has changed. I do miss her but I am happiest that we ended things in the bestest of ways between the two of us. Last edited by UncleHasBeen; 11-09-2023 at 11:36 AM. Reason: reupload pic
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#275
04-09-2023, 07:51 PM
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Re: OPP
First OPP was in schooling days. It was a new class, and we were grouped together for one of the our projects. She was quite the introvert and I didnt quite fit in with the other mates so we naturally gravitated towards one another. Talked a bit online then slowly started to spend more time together. We were both attached then so the conversation began to wander to each others' partners and how far we've been with them. Soon it became 'show me yours and I will show you mine.' Then she was sneaking into my place after school. She really dried me up, coming over at least once a week, and occasionally sucking me off in the darker corners of campus.
Things were on and off for a while and then finally stopped when we moved to different classes and drifted apart.
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#276
04-09-2023, 09:43 PM
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Re: OPP
Thank you uncle and others for giving back to the community. I have upped and will continue to up your points here
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#277
06-09-2023, 12:02 PM
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Reading these provided much memories... Though I think I twice gone off coursetwice and reseting is hard. I guess I learnt some hard ways. Going forward will be chill and learn from the experience guys...
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#278
06-09-2023, 02:41 PM
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Re: OPP
Really awesome thread by UncleHasBeen as well as other contributors! Upped my humble points.
I have a related question wrt OPP and it’s associated guilt. For context, my wife has been my only sexual partner till a couple years ago. We grew up together and got married fairly early in our 20s. Throughout dating we withheld penetrative sex and it was not till marriage did we engaged in our first. We’re still happily married with our lovely children now in our 30s. Both happy with where we are in our careers, what we’ve manage to achieve thus far and looking forward to our future. But the sex is downright boring. It’s not that we do not have any attraction to each other, but despite communication over the years, I still, to put it nicely, am pounding a stationary doll. I’ve gotten advice from people abt getting her to finish first or use toys etc, but well she seems to just prefer to be on her back and allow ne to pound away. Guess it’s my fault that I didn’t test drive before buying the car. But I do not have any regrets marrying the women I love. So I sought adventures in the bedroom from MLs, FLs but found the experience very commercial. It was a transaction after all. That’s when I started hunting around for OPP. Didn’t want the drama of SYTs and the baggage they bring. Just raw physical attraction, chemistry and sexual release. After all I am very happily married and have no intention of leaving. I felt no guilt while visiting paid services. But OPP seems to be a different story. I guess it is a little odd asking for advice on guilt on this forum but I really wanted to ask you guys’ mindset on this issue on guilt.
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#279
06-09-2023, 03:00 PM
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Damn! Should have signed up for dancing classes earlier!
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Please PM me after you have upped my points for me to return the favour. Cheers~
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#280
07-09-2023, 02:56 PM
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#281
07-09-2023, 02:59 PM
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Trust me, there are a lot of such relationships going around. They all say we are a conservative society, yes. Conservative enough to keep all these discreet, that is all
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#282
07-09-2023, 10:49 PM
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U feel guilty, hey u are normal. Which also means the marriage u have, has meaning to u. I share something about guilt with u. My ex-boss, many years ago was going through this. His wife was cancer-stricken. Eventually she died from it. I knew his family because it was a family owned business. Back then, the newspaper obituary section had a rather big cut-out for his late wife. Then as i read through the family members and dependent, my boss's name was not on it. I mean WTF right? Then it happened. 6 months after his wife's funeral, he got married. His new wife was already pregnant and gave birth 2 months later. He was fucking another pussy when the wife was about to die. His wedding i was invited and for fuck sake that really put me on a spot. Guilt? It is really how u put things into perspective. No one can judge u. Even if we put on your shoes and walk a mile of your life, we still cant judge u. This guilt is a soul-check, an internal inherent 'system'. If this guilt is eating u up, then dont do it. Sorry man, i am no better at giving u any advice. But i know this, at the end of the day if no one is hurt physically or emotionally, all is good. Risk assessment management is a must here. Weigh your wants and shits, then see if its worth the risk 
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#283
09-09-2023, 08:46 PM
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  She is my second loss this year.  We have been together for almost 6 years. She is 15 years my junior, married. We met at the Love Kuching Project as volunteers then. Clicked, flirted and she confided in me about her marital problems then. Then we fucked intensively like 3 times a week at the beginning. She is my fave because I am a sucker for beautiful lips that accentuate the smile. Her ass is asscellent and she is extremely smart. Total turn on. She remarried and we continued our relationship. She got pregnant for the first time last year and we still fucked. After she gave birth we continued for 2 months and decided to end it all. I was prepared for it. I have experiences with pregnant OPPs. And thankfully we ended it in a sweet and memorable way. No hard feelings but only heartfelt good wishes for each other. She is my fave local FWB/OPP, all time best
Last edited by UncleHasBeen; 11-09-2023 at 11:37 AM. Reason: reupload pic
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#284
10-09-2023, 07:56 AM
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Bro, from your perspective for OPP, does it considered as NSA (No strings Attached) since you are aiming for ladies who are just seeking thrill and fun only? How do you know they are dick raiders or those aiming for FWB?
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#285
10-09-2023, 08:10 AM
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OPP considered NSA also since only for thrill and no emotional involvement.
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