Married wife as FWB/FB

[UncleHasBeen]

Originally Posted by candeo_88

RL experiences are more priceless than textbook types...

Yes indeed. Our rites of passage to be wiser but first, we have to be young dumb and full of cum

[Lemonjuice]

How to find like-minded milf? Apps or common interest group?

[UncleHasBeen]

For me it has to be a social setting with common interest.
I don’t do apps, too old and probably would fucked it up along the way.

Let me share another FB of mine. She is the one next to me.
She is 41 this year. 10 years younger than me.
She is another Indonesian Chinese.

Speak good Teochew with an Indonesian accent but totally zero in Mandarin.
We have been together for 3 years now.

She frequent SG because her parents have moved to SG.
She lives in M’sia because of her business dealing.
She has been single for 3 years after being divorced twice.
She travels a lot for her business.

We met in 2019 in Australia.
She was there for business and we met at a Skydiving school.
It was her first. I was there partly social and work.

The Skydive group is own by a friend and on that day I was a safety number and also a quota requirement for the course to take off.
In short I was there for social and ended up helping the owner my friend out.

I met her there and I was introduced as a participating safety number to the group.
It was a short 2 day training with the 3rd day for the jump.

Me and her clicked.
She is beautiful and very elegant, yet she was fearless.
Not the aggressive fearless but the take it as it come kind of vibe.
I was attracted to her confidence and fearlessness for someone doing it the first time.

[UncleHasBeen]

We clicked and talked and goofed around.
Really enjoyed our time there.

We didn’t become intimate until about 3 months later.
We kept in touch after the Australia trip.
It was only when she visited her parents in SG that we became intimate.

She opened up to me during our first official date about her past marriages.
I was surprised she did that and later she would explain that I gave her the feeling of trustworthiness and reliability since the day we first met.
On that night, she drank a little too much and I had to help her to her hotel.

That night I helped her to her hotel. Her room.
She was tipsy but lucid. Tired too.
As I laid her down on the bed, she looked at me with that ‘let’s do it look’.

It is a familiar look, gaze. If u have been fucking around long enough, u will also recognise the look.
I on the other hand didn’t tell my wife I would be out late.

Plus, she was tipsy, and I prefer to fuck women who are not intoxicated.
As she laid down looking up at me, I gently lie on top of her.
I kissed her lips gently and thanked her for a lovely evening.
And told her that I must go and that she should rest.

[UncleHasBeen]

That move would seal her affection and attraction for me.
Again, for me slow is smooth and smooth is fast.
Take it slow if u are in the long game.
And a long game is the only game worth playing.

She makes very frequent trips to SG.
Pre-Covid was about at least once in two months for a period of a week.

She is not sexually active at all.
She enjoys sex but she can go without it for a long time.
She told me it is not the sex that keeps her to me.
And I could tell too.

She is those women who loves to be loved and be intimate while sex is a by-product.
She is not a sex goddess.
She is more like a square pussy to me.
In fact, she is wife material to most men.

She fucks me because she knows that it gives me pleasure.
She never says no to me for sex.
She is not a great fuck.
She is more passive on the bed. I lead, she follow type.

But what really gives me a hard-on is the way she show her affection for me.
The intimacy when we are together in private and public.

She has plans for me in her life.
Like when making overseas trips, she always asks me to come along. Ask for my availability.
Asks if I needed anything from her. Checks on me if I am doing ok.

She is 10 years younger than me, but she pampers me like I am her pet.
This is the kind of women I would keep, maintain and be part of outside my marriage.
I am sure u don’t get these in dating apps.

This is a pic she sent to me 2 days ago showing me her new colour addition to her hair

[Lemonjuice]

@UncleHasBeen

1. Weird, can't see you pic. I am using Puffin browser on phone.

2. Are you married? Seems like not possible to stay discreet, with your bevy of married FWB.

[sdol v2]

I thought I was the only one who can't see UncleHasBeen's pics. Using Chrome on Android.

Originally Posted by Lemonjuice

@UncleHasBeen

1. Weird, can't see you pic. I am using Puffin browser on phone.

2. Are you married? Seems like not possible to stay discreet, with your bevy of married FWB.

[spaman7]

Originally Posted by UncleHasBeen

That move would seal her affection and attraction for me.
Again, for me slow is smooth and smooth is fast.
Take it slow if u are in the long game.
And a long game is the only game worth playing.

She makes very frequent trips to SG.
Pre-Covid was about at least once in two months for a period of a week.


She is not sexually active at all.
She enjoys sex but she can go without it for a long time.
She told me it is not the sex that keeps her to me.
And I could tell too.

She is those women who loves to be loved and be intimate while sex is a by-product.
She is not a sex goddess.
She is more like a square pussy to me.
In fact, she is wife material to most men.

She fucks me because she knows that it gives me pleasure.
She never says no to me for sex.
She is not a great fuck.
She is more passive on the bed. I lead, she follow type.

But what really gives me a hard-on is the way she show her affection for me.
The intimacy when we are together in private and public.

She has plans for me in her life.
Like when making overseas trips, she always asks me to come along. Ask for my availability.
Asks if I needed anything from her. Checks on me if I am doing ok.

She is 10 years younger than me, but she pampers me like I am her pet.
This is the kind of women I would keep, maintain and be part of outside my marriage.
I am sure u don’t get these in dating apps.

This is a pic she sent to me 2 days ago showing me her new colour addition to her hair

Bro, you are really a lucky man and also I believed you have a great personality thsy attract these nice ladies.

[Rickey]

Originally Posted by Lemonjuice

@UncleHasBeen

1. Weird, can't see you pic. I am using Puffin browser on phone.

2. Are you married? Seems like not possible to stay discreet, with your bevy of married FWB.

Originally Posted by sdol v2

I thought I was the only one who can't see UncleHasBeen's pics. Using Chrome on Android.

Lol, how cum I can see uncle's pics u guys can't ...I m also using puffin browser on hp...puffin browser is really weird n sucks indeed

[sam30sg]

It happened to me too but a simple step of quoting the message and then cut and paste the imgur link to a new tab will solve the issue...... help UncleHasBeen to share the photo.

Originally Posted by sdol v2

I thought I was the only one who can't see UncleHasBeen's pics. Using Chrome on Android.

[UncleHasBeen]

Originally Posted by spaman7

Bro, you are really a lucky man and also I believed you have a great personality thsy attract these nice ladies.

Oh thanks.
I think we can have better luck if we manage our expectations.
Be more realistic and keep our situation awareness up.

It was later in my life i realised that if i stop looking around for such relationships, they will become more visible and easier to obtain.
In another words, dont push it dont try too hard.

As i said before, widen our social circle.
Treat every encounter as an acquaintance, nothing more.
Let them see more of yourself first. And if the glove fits, they will give u the signs.

I have so many misses earlier on and it was only i stopped trying so hard, the hits keep coming.

For an average Joe, obtaining a relationship with married women or FWB requires hard work, fact.

[UncleHasBeen]

Originally Posted by Lemonjuice

@UncleHasBeen

1. Weird, can't see you pic. I am using Puffin browser on phone.

2. Are you married? Seems like not possible to stay discreet, with your bevy of married FWB.

That is the whole reason and concept of having married women and FWB.
No one is suppose to rock the boat or dont get onboard.

We all have the choice and power to decide how much commitment we are going to give one another.

Once agreed, let's row away discretely.
If such extramarital affairs are taking your time away from your marriage and family, u are doing it wrong.

I am married, 20 years and counting.

[UncleHasBeen]

Originally Posted by sam30sg

It happened to me too but a simple step of quoting the message and then cut and paste the imgur link to a new tab will solve the issue...... help UncleHasBeen to share the photo.

Thanks bro!

[spaman7]

Originally Posted by UncleHasBeen

Oh thanks.
I think we can have better luck if we manage our expectations.
Be more realistic and keep our situation awareness up.

It was later in my life i realised that if i stop looking aroundTh for such relationships, they will become more visible and easier to obtain.
In another words, dont push it dont try too hard.

As i said before, widen our social circle.
Treat every encounter as an acquaintance, nothing more.
Let them see more of yourself first. And if the glove fits, they will give u the signs.

I have so many misses earlier on and it was only i stopped trying so hard, the hits keep coming.

For an average Joe, obtaining a relationship with married women or FWB requires hard work, fact.

Thanks for your advice

[Roytt8]

Originally Posted by UncleHasBeen

That move would seal her affection and attraction for me.
Again, for me slow is smooth and smooth is fast.
Take it slow if u are in the long game.
And a long game is the only game worth playing.

She makes very frequent trips to SG.
Pre-Covid was about at least once in two months for a period of a week.

She is not sexually active at all.
She enjoys sex but she can go without it for a long time.
She told me it is not the sex that keeps her to me.
And I could tell too.

She is those women who loves to be loved and be intimate while sex is a by-product.
She is not a sex goddess.
She is more like a square pussy to me.
In fact, she is wife material to most men.

She fucks me because she knows that it gives me pleasure.
She never says no to me for sex.
She is not a great fuck.
She is more passive on the bed. I lead, she follow type.

But what really gives me a hard-on is the way she show her affection for me.
The intimacy when we are together in private and public.

She has plans for me in her life.
Like when making overseas trips, she always asks me to come along. Ask for my availability.
Asks if I needed anything from her. Checks on me if I am doing ok.

She is 10 years younger than me, but she pampers me like I am her pet.
This is the kind of women I would keep, maintain and be part of outside my marriage.
I am sure u don’t get these in dating apps.

This is a pic she sent to me 2 days ago showing me her new colour addition to her hair

Oops lovely - wish I could have one like her