Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[MIFAcafe]

VB is not for faint hearted person. Relationship with VB can be a roller coaster ride, and can be more volatile than the stock market and forex market combined.

Most girls I met had cry, 90% tell you the need money. (Who don't?) 99% have a strong character regardless of their age; as I never met a weak vb yet.

I hate to use the word "game"..... But really a relationship with a vb is a game of chess. You can never really know what is in their mind as their lie will always hide the truth.

Viet man ignore their VB, and yet the vb is so loving. Hence H88 tell me to behave like a Viet..... Ignore them. Do what I like and don't bother with what the vb do. Don't ask, they will say what they want and do what they want to do.

If they cross the line, give them the nasty look and don't talk to her.

All said and done, it is hard to do. As Singapore men are caring and loving toward girls. Hardly heard a Sinkee hit a girl. But in VN, hitting and fighting is everywhere.

My trip in August 2014, H88 , D2 and me are sitting at cafe looking at husband and wife fighting and chasing around for about 1-2 hours. They fight openly on the street they live in. Whole family involve..... Daughter...son.....dog.....(not joking)
The dog was shaking in fear while the vb hug the dog. The vb is holding 2 stones in her hand, after throwing everything at his ox.......now that is really a loving couple.

So think again.....can you handle the truth....can you handle a vb.

I think I need another 3-4 years of training....... And yet some brother think after a few meet up is judgement day.

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by MIFAcafe

Viet man ignore their VB, and yet the vb is so loving. Hence H88 tell me to behave like a Viet..... Ignore them. Do what I like and don't bother with what the vb do. Don't ask, they will say what they want and do what they want to do.

If they cross the line, give them the nasty look and don't talk to her.

haha...tell VB to pack up leave if they dun obey or listen...also tell VB dun want see her anymore....just ignore VB...by doing that...the VB will sit down quietly and dare not to make noise...also will be very willingly obey without being nuisance after that...otherwise the VB will rant on without stopping and nobody gets to sleep or rest...do this no matter how much you love the VB and how pretty or high rating the VB....

[Golden question]

Originally Posted by mackewell

Wah thanks for your rants, i certainly hope your previous cai tow experience with a working WL does not hinder your faith in pursuing a real r/s that involves effort and time. Porn and booze are awesome but overconsumption is detrimental to a person's social life...

Wow my post consider rant to u, haha, think u cant really take this kind of negative comment of vb, think u have a long way to go to know them more, btw I have never been a cai tao of viet wl before, I give what I willing to.Anyway good luck to u on this special vb that u think she is to u

[Golden question]

Originally Posted by MIFAcafe

VB is not for faint hearted person. Relationship with VB can be a roller coaster ride, and can be more volatile than the stock market and forex market combined.

Most girls I met had cry, 90% tell you the need money. (Who don't?) 99% have a strong character regardless of their age; as I never met a weak vb yet.

I hate to use the word "game"..... But really a relationship with a vb is a game of chess. You can never really know what is in their mind as their lie will always hide the truth.

Viet man ignore their VB, and yet the vb is so loving. Hence H88 tell me to behave like a Viet..... Ignore them. Do what I like and don't bother with what the vb do. Don't ask, they will say what they want and do what they want to do.

If they cross the line, give them the nasty look and don't talk to her.

All said and done, it is hard to do. As Singapore men are caring and loving toward girls. Hardly heard a Sinkee hit a girl. But in VN, hitting and fighting is everywhere.

My trip in August 2014, H88 , D2 and me are sitting at cafe looking at husband and wife fighting and chasing around for about 1-2 hours. They fight openly on the street they live in. Whole family involve..... Daughter...son.....dog.....(not joking)
The dog was shaking in fear while the vb hug the dog. The vb is holding 2 stones in her hand, after throwing everything at his ox.......now that is really a loving couple.

So think again.....can you handle the truth....can you handle a vb.

I think I need another 3-4 years of training....... And yet some brother think after a few meet up is judgement day.

All those newbie should learn from u, no matter how many years of cheoging with different woman from different country, every girl culture and thinking is always different, u can be very good at prc or thai wl or girl, it does not mean u are equally good at viet, u only around 1 year with viet but I can see u learn a lot and willing to step back, observe and listen to senior bro who have vast experience in viet scene, u deserve my respect

[deptrai4u]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

haha...tell VB to pack up leave if they dun obey or listen...also tell VB dun want see her anymore....just ignore VB...by doing that...the VB will sit down quietly and dare not to make noise...also will be very willingly obey without being nuisance after that...otherwise the VB will rant on without stopping and nobody gets to sleep or rest...do this no matter how much you love the VB and how pretty or high rating the VB....

Wah! So fierce .....

[MIFAcafe]

Just be humble a bit......

Sinkee man very generous toward girls and very proud face man to man. Die also must stand.

What I learn is from seniors whom have been in HCM 8-10 years.
I learn my Tieng Viet from seniors help too. And also by swallowing a lot of VBs saliva.

Seniors all nice to me, buying each others foods and beers. Travel out of HCM.

They also observe my girls for me; and give me pointers like ..... this one play play only..... this one don't like you ....... this one so so.....LOL.

So I save lot of trouble hitting walls.

I am sharing my experience as I am trying to pay forward my due I owe to seniors whom unreservedly show me everything I need to know.

And they tell me I still learn very little; as sometime seniors also hit walls and we drink beer and talk man to man to find best way out.

Since June 2013 till Sept 2014 I gain a lot while my wallet just slim a tiny bit.
Not a bad deal after a years.....
Visited a new country; met more friends; know more people; got a gal; learn a new language. All this are priceless.

Originally Posted by Golden question

I can see u learn a lot and willing to step back, observe and listen to senior bro who have vast experience in viet scene, u deserve my respect

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by MIFAcafe

Since June 2013 till Sept 2014 I gain a lot while my wallet just slim a tiny bit.
Not a bad deal after a years.....
Visited a new country; met more friends; know more people; got a gal; learn a new language. All this are priceless.

ha...only one gal meh...thought you already bonked how many VBs in 1+ year liao...also dumped so many syts and milfs...haha...kkkk...

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by deptrai4u

Wah! So fierce .....

no choice la...we dun beat and abuse VBs...also you taught me lol...you grandmaster level leh...conquered both north and south VBs...thank you ha...

have seen so many Viet couples fight and even threatened to kill using knife...the next day you see the couple so loving holding hands...haha...cannot understand right......welcome to Wet Wet Nam Nam...

[milfmilf]

if someone has seen couple fight throughout his younger days
that husband will not be forgiven no matter what reason ..never!
useless not loving husband cannot provide minimum ok life for wife better don't marry

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by milfmilf

if someone has seen couple fight throughout his younger days
that husband will not be forgiven no matter what reason ..never!
useless not loving husband cannot provide minimum ok life for wife better don't marry

haha...you think become Viet husband so simple...let me share and you tell how many men willingly do...is nobody fault if the wife before married is lovey dovey...

1. gives all your salary to bx
2. bx will give ox daily expenses
3. cannot go anywhere without bx permission
4. bx call and msg the moment you finished work or go meet friends
5. cannot oogle another VB when bx around
6. help with looking after babies
7. must come home to eat
8. <any others I forgot>

the above is my own observations...not to anger anyone...

[stillgottheblue]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

haha...you think become Viet husband so simple...let me share and you tell how many men willingly do...is nobody fault if the wife before married is lovey dovey...

1. gives all your salary to bx
2. bx will give ox daily expenses
3. cannot go anywhere without bx permission
4. bx call and msg the moment you finished work or go meet friends
5. cannot oogle another VB when bx around
6. help with looking after babies
7. must come home to eat
8. <any others I forgot>

the above is my own observations...not to anger anyone...

Where got such guy one CB? Might as well be a puppet. It's hard to believe.

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by stillgottheblue

Where got such guy one CB? Might as well be a puppet. It's hard to believe.

but this is true facts...happening now in Wetnam...haha....reason why many men will steal eat outside...also have gfs without letting wife know...

these were discussed many times in this thread...bro SingViet will disagreed to hand over his full salary and bank accounts to his bx...

[stillgottheblue]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

but this is true facts...happening now in Wetnam...haha....reason why many men will steal eat outside...also have gfs without letting wife know...

these were discussed many times in this thread...bro SingViet will disagreed to hand over his full salary and bank accounts to his bx...

I will slap her and leave the house.

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by stillgottheblue

I will slap her and leave the house.

see...now you resort to violent which many men in Vn did that...

[MIFAcafe]

I do slightly differently....
I slap her, and ask her to leave the house.....

So far never really slap a gal on the face tightly...... but I sure ask a few to leave..... immediately...... no second chance......

Originally Posted by stillgottheblue

I will slap her and leave the house.