Wanted to married a China girl but i am married

[shanshen]

Bro Leecs,

after reading throgh the pages today, let me sumarize it.
1) yr feelings for your wife had died due to:
a) she is abusive and talk down to you
b) she does not want to have a baby
c) maybe her love for you is no longer there (third parties involvement?)


2) during the quarrel on making babies, she initiated divorce 3 times liao

listen carefully..asked your self if you still love your wife..
if the answer is no..than it is easy to solve.

sit down and talk to her
tell her again that you really want to have baby n if she starts to be abusive again and initiated divorce..

than u tell her: Fine, lets divorce...but you want her to take the initiative and tell her, you go and get your lawyer to prepare the divorce letter and bring it for you to sign..let her do it.
do not follow her to the lawyer office. ask her to bring it to you.

this will tell if she is serious in divorcing. if she do it, thats means she no longer love you...
than go for it as u already have no feelings for her and this is not the life you want to live.

if u continue to give in, yr life will screwed and will get worse when u are older..since u are still young, do a clean break and live the life you want..
find another girl who is wiling to bear you a child.

Remember, wife is just only a title bestow upon a couple during marriage. What is a title? nothing really unlike your father or mother whose blood runs in your vein.. when u divorce her and marry another girl, she get the title "wife"..so the wife title is disposable

all you need to do is to brace yourself up and you are prepared to choose this path to accept the divorce..

you will be much happier i believe, as living together with a wife when both parties are no longer in the synchronise frequency is painful..

beside, having no kids made things easier for the divorce.

many loveless couples stay together for the sake of their kids due to obligation and their love for their children..

since you are only in your early thirties and without kids, build your own world and dont let one women destroy it.

[fanaticd]

i also want! however, considering so much factors, better to forget it.
need to note that there are so many beauties in china and you will marry one, divorce tomorrow and marry again.

also, things will turn upside down due to 1 person. no point also. Well, Love is blind. blinded by the china girl and blind to see what is happening

[jon2000sg]

Originally Posted by soul_reaper

never ever marry a prc !!!
Prc mei meis are best for f*ck n forget !!!
the moment you rom you'll be screwed for the rest of your life !!!
Even if you divorce your wife eventually....... dun ever marry a prc as the new wife or ever

very true !!!

[NewandLost]

Originally Posted by leecs

My PRC stays in Fuzhou, Fujian. I know when i say this, im really gonna get f**ked by you mates, but she works in a KTV. I know you guys will say why!!! there are $$$ suckers & not out for love or something. She has no choice but to work in KTV.

I've actually expressed my feelings for her & she knows it. But she says she doesnt want to break up a family. I told her this is the route im choosing, its not her fault. (I know people will sure blame her). She replied she doesnt wana be a 3rd party. So i replied if im single, would she wana be with me. She did not reply. so i replied its ok. Then she replied shes happy to know me.

Apart from the child & wedding dinner issue, I cant stand her sarcastic ways of talking to me when we are arguing. What she says will hurt me, like stabbing a dagger in your heart. Im sure you guys know how it feels. Its been going on for many years & i told her not to but she continues. Once she was asking me am i getting bored of the life now, which is only the 2 of us & that f**king dog, i said yes. Then she said why not we have a divorce & dont waste each others time.

She doesnt like to go to my parents home for dinner, or any gatherings from my family side. Everytime my relatives will ask me where is my wife. I dont know how to answer. whereas when her mum asks us to go, I steady, i go. During CNY, i asked her whether she wants to go back msia to my grandpa's home, she told me nobodys looking after the dog!! WTF! when we go to hong kong last nov, she can put the dog to the previous owner for a week, whereas going back is only 4 days.

Braddah, you are crazy. Fujianese are like the "n*ggers" of Asia and China.

[NewandLost]

braddah, i urge you to press the quit button. fujianese even in the PRC have the worst reputations from what i heard. in vancouver and streets of nyc, the old cantonese guard openly discriminate against fujianese migrants due to the fujianese practices of not pay rent, steal from workplace, lying, deception. and violence. braddah, she will take you to the cleaners and rape your bank account dry. not only will these people lie thorugh their teeth they have no consience about staright up f ing you over. its an act from day one braddah. wake up braddah.

[bunnyrabbit]

bro leecs..
after all the discussion in here..i guess i only have one conclusion for you..

my advise is....faster go and do all the necessary arrangements and marry your sweetheart in china!!

then maybe after that you can come in the forum again to put up another thread call..

"Wanted to divorce a China girl but i am stuck!"

[leecs]

Im long gone with the PRC girl... Im on to Vietnam girls now.