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Most of marriages that break down was because of financial problems. How can you have a wife (and her family) that's dependent on you when you cannot even feed yourself? You don't marry a viet spouse because you can get free sex, its a lifetime of commitments and responsibilities. So if you as a 20 something feel that you are a millionaire, think again, is your career stable? I remember a 20 something told me that many 20 somethings are millionaires nowadays, but are you? I have been a 20 something young man before, i know what you guys went thru and whether you are really one.
Most of marriages that break down was because of financial problems. How can you have a wife (and her family) that's dependent on you when you cannot even feed yourself? You don't marry a viet spouse because you can get free sex, its a lifetime of commitments and responsibilities. So if you as a 20 something feel that you are a millionaire, think again, is your career stable? I remember a 20 something told me that many 20 somethings are millionaires nowadays, but are you? I have been a 20 something young man before, i know what you guys went thru and whether you are really one.
Wise word from bro sv.. Me unfortunately falls into what bro sv say, 20 something wan marry. Not a high earner, only mid range, able to support a family comfortably with a little saving each month. The only downside is not able to cheong anymore. All money is for my family. Me is upper range for 20 something. Marriage teach me nothing but responsibility. Now trying to adopt Vietnam child. Call me stupid, but dont know why I do that. God at work.
Calculate before, My monthly salary enough for a 3 child family as long as we live simple. Maybe an outing every Sunday or a all out outing spare no expenses once a month.
Reading through the post, pple may call me naive. So young wan adopt cfm cannot approve blah blah blah, marry so young blah blah blah. But really have affinity with the child. Already sent 500 plus to his grandma for English lesson and another 500 for living expenses. My bx told his grandma money for him, if anyhow use, can forget everything.
even if adopt no approve, at least know English, next time also not so jialiat.
Bros, am I dumb or not, give so much to child unrelated to me.
You sure about that? Why not make Singapore her second home? I think you are becoming another Singaporean that feels `i should have been borned as a vietnamese'. Its because of this feeling that many Singaporean man die in the hands of VBs. If you really make vietnam your 2nd home, you won't feel `good' about it. When you go there spend money, you will be treated well, the day you run out of money, you will be treated badly.
Agree, as Chinese saying. Mary chicken follow chicken. Marry dog follow dog. (only applies for ladies.)
Sadly nowadays in a lot of marriages, roles reversed. Wife wear the pants, want anything, poor husband must do.
wife, we must respect.
Wife, we must also show them who wears the pant in the house.
Wise word from bro sv.. Me unfortunately falls into what bro sv say, 20 something wan marry. Not a high earner, only mid range, able to support a family comfortably with a little saving each month. The only downside is not able to cheong anymore. All money is for my family. Me is upper range for 20 something. Marriage teach me nothing but responsibility. Now trying to adopt Vietnam child. Call me stupid, but dont know why I do that. God at work.
Calculate before, My monthly salary enough for a 3 child family as long as we live simple. Maybe an outing every Sunday or a all out outing spare no expenses once a month.
Reading through the post, pple may call me naive. So young wan adopt cfm cannot approve blah blah blah, marry so young blah blah blah. But really have affinity with the child. Already sent 500 plus to his grandma for English lesson and another 500 for living expenses. My bx told his grandma money for him, if anyhow use, can forget everything.
even if adopt no approve, at least know English, next time also not so jialiat.
Bros, am I dumb or not, give so much to child unrelated to me.
To some, I dumb, to myself, I find it worthwhile.
Bro, you are not dumb, you have a good heart, what you did is correct as long as you feel it is right move.
You sure about that? Why not make Singapore her second home? I think you are becoming another Singaporean that feels `i should have been borned as a vietnamese'. Its because of this feeling that many Singaporean man die in the hands of VBs. If you really make vietnam your 2nd home, you won't feel `good' about it. When you go there spend money, you will be treated well, the day you run out of money, you will be treated badly.
Agree, as Chinese saying. Mary chicken follow chicken. Marry dog follow dog. (only applies for ladies.)
Sadly nowadays in a lot of marriages, roles reversed. Wife wear the pants, want anything, poor husband must do.
wife, we must respect.
Wife, we must also show them who wears the pant in the house.
submitted the relevant documents ICA asked for... and bx got her extension to full 89 days from the day she come in sillypore.
counter staff say give her max extension so that she can wait for the LTVP outcome in sillypore.
last few times I keep on extending my bx stay but ICA so reluctant to give extension and say my bx should go back vn to wait for the outcome of the LTVP appeal.
last week I heard some encouraging news from my bx friend who is also pregnant. she got much more problem than my bx but ICA had an in-prinicple approval for her ltvp application. She went blood test last week...
today, I checked website for my bx ltvp status. Also In-princple approval
so as to say, even bx got bad record, if we showed our perseverance and follow thru ICA procedures, we will get it.
bros who are in same situation as me, don't be disheartened. there are lights at end of tunnel..
hihi you interested to learn too? can go to this website posted our fellow bros http://thesbf.shop/showthr...t=74792&page=1
Secondly learn from app from phone, 3rdly use translator.
Anyway how's your lover and you coming along ?
learning from online is good, u can find lots of words and translation easily but the down side of learning online is that u only got to learn how to read and write the words but not how to pronuonce it. Get someone to teach is the best.
BTW, zion1989, why u so interested in learning TV? really want to find a viet wife? u still young, think carefully.
last week I heard some encouraging news from my bx friend who is also pregnant. she got much more problem than my bx but ICA had an in-prinicple approval for her ltvp application. She went blood test last week...
today, I checked website for my bx ltvp status. Also In-princple approval
so as to say, even bx got bad record, if we showed our perseverance and follow thru ICA procedures, we will get it.
bros who are in same situation as me, don't be disheartened. there are lights at end of tunnel..
24-09-2012, 07:58 AM
