the 3 that changed me - Page 10

drslump99 · #**136** 23-10-2012, 11:23 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by kittymae

This is coming a bit late, but someone, said something similar to me ... Don't give up on love... Almost exactly same phrasing of words too...hmmm

Har Gow
Siew Mai
Tau Sa Bao
Char Siew Bao
..
..
..
Yau Zha Kwai
Ham Chim Beng

Don't give up Tim Sum, even though a few Char Siew Bau filling is bad, or Siew Mai prawn is not genuine. Eventually a super Yaw Zha Kwai will turn out.

Rephrased from a different perspective

kittymae · #**137** 23-10-2012, 11:28 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by drslump99

Har Gow
Siew Mai
Tau Sa Bao
Char Siew Bao
..
..
..
Yau Zha Kwai
Ham Chim Beng

Don't give up Tim Sum, even though a few Char Siew Bau filling is bad, or Siew Mai prawn is not genuine. Eventually a super Yaw Zha Kwai will turn out.

Rephrased from a different perspective

wahz.... make me hungry...

2 chee cheong fun , 1 prawn, 1 char siew
2 long har gao
1 long of siew mai
1 yu chi gao
1 long liu sha bao

and 1 pot of long jing tea pls. tks~

drslump99 · #**138** 23-10-2012, 11:31 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by kittymae

wahz.... make me hungry...

2 chee cheong fun , 1 prawn, 1 char siew
2 long har gao
1 long of siew mai
1 yu chi gao
1 long liu sha bao

and 1 pot of long jing tea pls. tks~

Sorry uncle no more selling Tim Sum 2 mins ago
Now sell cheese cake
Sure make ladies very happy

Coffeecans · #**139** 23-10-2012, 11:41 PM

I'm very sure lots of bro here would want to be your 4th. The last one that lasts.

thecommand3r · #**140** 23-10-2012, 11:58 PM

book marked for reading, pity such things happen to you, the way you were treated by both jerks

kittymae · #**141** 24-10-2012, 12:15 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Coffeecans

I'm very sure lots of bro here would want to be your 4th. The last one that lasts.

Realistically, folks here are unlikely to be looking for something that last.
Despite how it seems,I'm just like every other gal with her own set of insecurities and confidence issues. Coupled with past experiences, I kinda doubt that even more.

The choices were either I wallow in self pity at things that have changed me, and that I do not have to power to change, or
I could leave it behind and try every day to find a reason to smile...that was kinda like a promise, I made to the 3rd...

Sen5eS · #**142** 24-10-2012, 12:25 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by kittymae

Realistically, folks here are unlikely to be looking for something that last.
Despite how it seems,I'm just like every other gal with her own set of insecurities and confidence issues. Coupled with past experiences, I kinda doubt that even more.

The choices were either I wallow in self pity at things that have changed me, and that I do not have to power to change, or
I could leave it behind and try every day to find a reason to smile...that was kinda like a promise, I made to the 3rd...

Granted ... everyone would like to have a happy ending

Dun let past experiences stop you ... makes you more aware that's all ... it's a mere guideline of what happened and may not necessary be the same ...

Looking fwd to Part III

Tai_zi21 · #**143** 24-10-2012, 12:34 AM

I believe that if the guy can leave the gf be cos of you

He also can do that to you the next time round!

Anyway still a very nice story! Keep it coming... Nowadays many gd writer at SBF liao...

sgnottiboi · #**144** 24-10-2012, 12:38 AM

Poor Gurl...hope u had moved on and coping well

curiouslala · #**145** 24-10-2012, 12:38 AM

Walau..
Never tot that it would happened to you too.. he's such a bastard..
Hope this 3rd guy can give u better thing..

Snuber · #**146** 24-10-2012, 12:53 AM

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Originally Posted by kittymae

Although I didn't directly cause their breakup, i felt some guilt perhaps, that indirectly, I had contributed to it by letting Ethan have 2nd thoughts. Otherwise, their relationship might have been saved.
Or perhaps, this was a form of karma?
I'd never know

I don't think guilt should be in your dictionary for this r/s. "不知者无罪" is how I see it...

As for causing their breakup, it takes both hands to clap. If he is not easily swayed, he won't break up with Winnie even with your existence. A single hand won't be able to produce much effect.

Don't be sad. Instead just be glad that this experience had made you a wiser person...

sgnottiboi · #**147** 24-10-2012, 01:12 AM

I feel that exposing them is rite!!!

Draculax · #**148** 24-10-2012, 01:37 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by kittymae

Realistically, folks here are unlikely to be looking for something that last.
Despite how it seems,I'm just like every other gal with her own set of insecurities and confidence issues. Coupled with past experiences, I kinda doubt that even more.

The choices were either I wallow in self pity at things that have changed me, and that I do not have to power to change, or
I could leave it behind and try every day to find a reason to smile...that was kinda like a promise, I made to the 3rd...

Nice story, heartbreaking to read though... While reading can somehow feel the pain you been through. Think K isn't too bad, maybe if he's ur last instead of first things might turn out differently. All the best to you and hope you find your 白马王子 and live happily ever after

I'm sure you wound will heal as time goes by.

miwantsex · #**149** 24-10-2012, 01:48 AM

Waiting for the next update

LOVE IT ALOT.

Iluminati · #**150** 24-10-2012, 02:13 AM

hi bro Draculax. i respect your opinion but beg to differ in my personal opinion.
i think even if Ms. Kitty were to met K at the later point of time, K will still cheat on her cause once a guy is used to the clubbing lifestyle, it is very hard to change. old habit die hard.

oh ya don't forget K lied to her also when gone clubbing. in any relationship, honesty is the best policy.