WeChat with WL

[RRR9]

Originally Posted by Icarusfly

She will say you’re the best cause that’s what she knows you’ll want to hear. She will say that to several identified regulars. Of course she posted the photo. That photo will make that customer happy and appreciated/feeling special. You’re lucky she told you a customer gave her that cause she could always say, she bought it herself. Not being harsh here but it’s reality. Once you gone through a few cycles, you’ll realize it eventually. While there are decent WLs around, their goals are earning money within the short time limit given. Hence some of their decisions may come as mercenary to us.

Really appreciate your sharing of your experience. This is the first time I connect with any WL on Wechat and went out with them.

I guess what made me feel she was genuine is that:
- she is new in this trade and is quite simple person
- she was sad when I told her I was married, and she posted a message on Wechat that perhaps we should not meet again (but changed her mind probably cos didn't want to lose a loyal customer)
- she often kissed me after the FJ until I literally had problem breathing. She WeChat me that she really wanted to deep kiss me.
- told me a lot about her personal life, ex-bf, real name, etc.
- took many photos together when going out
- bought me a lucky charm as a gift before she left SG

But you are right. She probably had done some of these with other customers as well. In any case, somehow I'm still sad!

[bradpitt968]

Whatever it is, until she brings you home and you meet all her family members, see her house and stay in it, you are not even half way anywhere.

[iTea]

Originally Posted by Icarusfly

WLs usually do the following - spam her top regulars with daily good morning/evening/good night wish. Followed by good nature chats.
This is to keep her usual regulars in touch ensuring her booking of hours for her calendar. This is usually her normal repertoire of GFE chats keeping her regulars notified of her boring days (aka low business hence need your company), her period cycle (aka please take her out for shopping), her feelings (keeping you emotionally involved) etc...
I've seen WeChats of my regular WLs and I can tell you that it's a modus operandi SOP for them. You're just a customer to them and dropping you from her chat isn't an issue.

Indeed especially sex workers from Geylang scene , once go back already most deleted your contacts .

[RRR9]

Originally Posted by iTea

Indeed especially sex workers from Geylang scene , once go back already most deleted your contacts .

I see.

In my case, she kept telling me to contact her whenever I go to China especially where she is. Perhaps it's just the usual polite thing to say.

At the moment, she has Blocked me (for the reason in my initial post) and not Deleted my account (yet). Maybe it's a matter of time. But I was serious about meeting her when going to China next month or so.

[RRR9]

Originally Posted by bradpitt968

Whatever it is, until she brings you home and you meet all her family members, see her house and stay in it, you are not even half way anywhere.

I think you were right, bro.

It seems like they all go through some kind of training on the use of WeChat to capture costumers' hearts before they start working.

Frankly, initially when I asked for her WeChat, I just wanted to make checking her availability easier, and never thought I would get emotional about it.

I was like a 情場浪子 when I was younger，so I just find it difficult to believe I couldn't detect this or see this coming. Perhaps WLs and normal girls behave differently and they just focus on their goals.

[Icarusfly]

Originally Posted by RRR9

I think you were right, bro.

It seems like they all go through some kind of training on the usage of WeChat before they start working.

Frankly, initially when I asked for her WeChat, I just wanted to make checking her availability easier, and never thought I would get emotional about it.

I was like a 情場浪子，so I just find it difficult to believe I couldn't detect this or see this coming. Perhaps WLs and normal girls behave differently and they just focus on their goals.

Well, it’s not too late to realize it. Even if you make a trip to see them, meet their family, explore her life in CN, there’s chances they will still drop your contact when the time comes. This might be because they have a new life like getting married or just plain deduction you’re not viable for their future. Some are single mothers or divorcees with various life baggage. You only know what you’re told.
Some enterprising ones do keep your contacts in case you see them in CN, you book them for fun time and they get paid.

[HalimahYakult]

Originally Posted by RRR9

But you are right. She probably had done some of these with other customers as well. In any case, somehow I'm still sad!

it's normal bro, most important is you must learn. if you feel that you are special and she nv go out with other customers, u just sponsor me 2x $200 session with her, by the time her period come i'll get her to meet me or some other bro outside and snap vid for u as proof.

bro i've seen even carrots give the girl $30-50k a month they don't need to take customers liao everyday sleep inside the brothel, watch tv etc.. still they go out with another guy who nv even give her $$.. when the unker found out he lanlan continue to bao her until she rtc..

[BatamBro]

what is WL again ?

[Topper]

Originally Posted by BatamBro

what is WL again ?

WL - Working Lady, to differentiate from say a FL - Freelance lady or ML - Massage Lady.

Do upz my point Bro(s) if you find the info useful.

[fxty1989]

Originally Posted by RRR9

Really appreciate your sharing of your experience. This is the first time I connect with any WL on Wechat and went out with them.

I guess what made me feel she was genuine is that:
- she is new in this trade and is quite simple person
- she was sad when I told her I was married, and she posted a message on Wechat that perhaps we should not meet again (but changed her mind probably cos didn't want to lose a loyal customer)
- she often kissed me after the FJ until I literally had problem breathing. She WeChat me that she really wanted to deep kiss me.
- told me a lot about her personal life, ex-bf, real name, etc.
- took many photos together when going out
- bought me a lucky charm as a gift before she left SG

But you are right. She probably had done some of these with other customers as well. In any case, somehow I'm still sad!

Bro, what’s gone is gone, really need to move on already. Her life and your life will never merge again.

[Darge]

Originally Posted by RRR9

Really appreciate your sharing of your experience. This is the first time I connect with any WL on Wechat and went out with them.

I guess what made me feel she was genuine is that:
- she is new in this trade and is quite simple person
- she was sad when I told her I was married, and she posted a message on Wechat that perhaps we should not meet again (but changed her mind probably cos didn't want to lose a loyal customer)
- she often kissed me after the FJ until I literally had problem breathing. She WeChat me that she really wanted to deep kiss me.
- told me a lot about her personal life, ex-bf, real name, etc.
- took many photos together when going out
- bought me a lucky charm as a gift before she left SG

But you are right. She probably had done some of these with other customers as well. In any case, somehow I'm still sad!

Dun forget you are married! Are you prepared to leave your family and marry her??? Just enjoy and remember the sweet memories…

[Dignified69]

Originally Posted by Darge

Dun forget you are married! Are you prepared to leave your family and marry her??? Just enjoy and remember the sweet memories…

Wise words indeed! I am in the same boat as bro RRR9. I will take heed to your wisdom bro Darge and move on.

[BatamBro]

Originally Posted by Topper

WL - Working Lady, to differentiate from say a FL - Freelance lady or ML - Massage Lady.

Do upz my point Bro(s) if you find the info useful.

steady.. up you pls upback

[Topper]

Originally Posted by BatamBro

steady.. up you pls upback

Upz back 21 Huat points.

[RRR9]

Originally Posted by fxty1989

Bro, what’s gone is gone, really need to move on already. Her life and your life will never merge again.

Originally Posted by Darge

Dun forget you are married! Are you prepared to leave your family and marry her??? Just enjoy and remember the sweet memories…

Thanks bros.

I guess my feeling towards her was more sympathy than love. She is actually a university graduate in China but encountered a few misfortunes and therefore ended up here as WL.

I won't go into the details of why she cut card so soon, etc. But I was actually happy for her to see her leaving the job and returning to China. It's just disappointing that she blocked me on WeChat after getting insulted by a customer's wife. That's why I said in my first post that you cheongers should lock your WeChat app on your phone.

Alright I'm moving on.