Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[fallen11]

Originally Posted by toyoisreborn

are most vietnamese girls lacking morals? especially those lowly educated one from poorer family. i got to know a young viet massage lady last year. after more than 6 months of sex, i really fall in love with her. i thought she is ayoung and innocent girl. only realized later that she is having several boyfriends and going on dates with them and fucking with many other customers.
i was so blinded and i thought she was mine only until i managed to find out from other sources. she can cheat without blinking and can still claim to be innocent…

refering to non vice girls

main reasons for viet divorces:

Cheating. husband going for sex massages or FLs, which is pretty common in vietnam.

Affairs. its not uncommon for co workers to go for lunch time sex on work days. it was a trend in hanoi.

Having unrealistic expectations about marriage. as most girls marry quite young, average marriage age 26 i think? but even marrying older girls doesnt mean they dont have unrealistic expectations, just a little less likely.....

Gambling: Mostly the husband but gambler wife is more common than in singapore.

Domestic abuse: can be physical or psychological (withholding sex, forced to handover salary, even slavery). guilty party can be men or women. Men more to physical abuse, women more to psychological abuse.

poor and low educated doesnt relate to higher chance of being dishonest. This is my experience. In fact higher chance such girls i met are more honest than educated ones.
In vietnam, rich doesnt equate to honesty. So be very careful in choosing your business partner there if theres a need to.
The difference between honest and dishonest mainly comes from their own expectations about their own life. Are their expectations realistic or not? The worst ones are probably the low middle income "fake rich" type of people. Trying very hard to keep up with their appearances.

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by toyoisreborn

i got to know a young viet massage lady last year. after more than 6 months of sex, i really fall in love with her. i thought she is ayoung and innocent girl.

self check. Lust or love?
massage lady in sgp? I can double confirm your source of info

[Polar.Bear]

thought this particular viet ktv girl is decent enough and not very materialistic. true enough started to show the tail - keep asking for luxury gifts.

point is she have not proven herself worthy to receive yet only have eyes on the gifts. Not even on intimate stage. Start to ignore messages after mentioning the words - in the future. lol

let her fleece from other guys.

[toyoisreborn]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

self check. Lust or love?
massage lady in sgp? I can double confirm your source of info

both lust and love? she is young. i am 11 yrs older though. a massgae lady in jb.

[Demonk]

sharing my review of this viet massage girl i came to know in jb back and it started back in may 2023.

only my first visit, i was immediately bewitched by her youth. though not a beauty, her youth and innocence made me dropped my guard. gentle and always sound very sincere. i managed to make her wet and raw on my first visit. since then, i have always been visiting her. had been visiting her and always chatting with her and she makes me think i am her bf. after some months, i heard from fellow kakis that she is also rawing with others and going out on fuck date… but she will deny everything.

at the end, i just realize that she is actually a very good player. she will lure all potential carrot head like me to fall in love so as to visit often or buy expensive gifts. she is so deep, she will not ask for anything to conceal her greed.always trying to put on the pitiful, sincere, innocent front to attract guys like me. her lies without blinking is excellent. when she went back to vietnam, immediately had a new bf and just ignored me… now she is back, it is all repeating. rotating between different guys and spending time on those potential one.

my conclusion is, just fuck and go. they are all very good and manipulating you. even if they allow you to raw her or cip, it is just her wanted to trap you.

[Demonk]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

I heard of this and quite common teachings among the local ktv scene whereby the seniors will teach their new comers to marry to a Singaporean and apply LTVP, then PR...once PR the gal legally can stay in Singapore without hubby then divorce...regardless have kids by then...

Actually the teachings were...get a few bfs an deach gives certain monthly allowances, new iPhones handbags, gifts...etc...then choose one who keen to marry her...

the 2nd part which you mentioned is definitely true. this barely legal ml in jb which i fall for, was stepping on my boat. having several boyfriends. only got to find out later that she is even going out with them for sex… almost acting innocent, earn money for parents and craps. great liars…

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by Demonk

the 2nd part which you mentioned is definitely true. this barely legal ml in jb which i fall for, was stepping on my boat. having several boyfriends. only got to find out later that she is even going out with them for sex… almost acting innocent, earn money for parents and craps. great liars…

They are not liars but just acting truely...just that you dun understand the game...

She only lied to you...and you believed that...

You didn't understand the game...you need to be very well experienced to win the game...

[Demonk]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

They are not liars but just acting truely...just that you dun understand the game...

She only lied to you...and you believed that...

You didn't understand the game...you need to be very well experienced to win the game...

you are right. i was inexperiended. probably never come across one that is so young and so innocent looking. may i lost because i am not treating it as a game. i am not sure how could you win against them as they may so many choices. if they see that no honey can be squeeze out of you, they will just turn to the next one. unless she totally has no other customer