Afterall, its just to release

[kenneth21]

I believe many bros here have been chionging for a long time, and as a guy, its natural that we want to be able to try out different kinds of girl.

Many of us have this same mentality (pls let me know if i'm wrong) that, if i'm rich, i'll fuck all the FLs esp those high end ones. And I believe many of us have this self control of spending only a smaller percentage of their income on FLs as well.

But honestly, how many of us belongs to the high bracker income earners? I, for one, am definately not!

I am a horny bastard and i can say that if i see a chio girl on the streets, i will want to fuck her. And i also like to experience the feeling with different girl, and so i resort to FLs.

When an appointment is confirmed, there is this feeling of anxiety and a "feel good" feeling because you are trying something new. And upoon meeting the FL, sexual feelings will develop. after you complete the deed, you realised that you feel empty inside, both the testis and in the heart because its just another cum and you spend a few hundered dollar on it and its no difference from the cum of masturbation. I derieved this because i just masturbated and it really is the same.

And when you get home and ponder, you will start to think how much you spend on the FL and there is much better use which you can put the money to.

I'm know i will not quit the FL scence as i am still young and have not tried many girls yet but. The reason why i started this thread is just to vent my frustrations and what i penned down is a complete honest opinion from my heart. Probably due to cost rising everywhere especially fuel. In fact just now when i was doing some shopping, which i've not done so for a long time, I realised how expensive things are nowadays. seems like GSS has not much effect on prices..

[Hagrid]

This is life, there are so many things that are like that. At least you still have the memories ... which is important ...

[SammyHulk]

Rest a sure bro, u r not alone.. Juz like i'm partying all e way in a KTV with boobs n boozes but once hit e quiet streets in wee hours, can help but felt a sense of emptiness inside mi.

[Starlite]

Bro, you are definitely not the only one. I cheong FL, KTV, and after the time is over, would also feel empty, but yet when time to go cheong again would go on and cheong... weak determination.

[elth]

my visit to hotel increase maybe also due to my job (very stress). sometime i felt i need a place where i can relax and release my urges. after walking out the hotel i felt relaxing but after some time like what other bros say there are "a sense of emptiness" but really no choice i cannot control myself

sometime i wonder if getting attached might help as i been single for quite a long long time

[DO_YOU_BJ]

When one is young, full of energy......he needs to release...the quickie way.
When he starts to mature further, he'll realise that quickies are of no kicks anymore......
FLs ya, maybe once in a blue moon but then still no kick....
Soon he'll be looking for more, with heart and feelings......
He may think then that FLs are dirty then he'll go for the KTV chicks if he can afford the exposure......then he'll realise, now i'm older, career also paying more, so can spend more...then he'll be in for a treat.
This time no more fire and forget...well occasionally still can but then, this is where the strategy game comes in.
Working your way to the kill, especially for me, has more kick than just paying for it....it's the thrill!!!!!
Then it's time when like many posts here, TSs heart pain and get cheated and so on......
Live on a motto like me and be spared this outcome!!!!

"IF U LUV SOMETHING, SET IT FREE!
IF IT DOESN'T CUM BACK, HUNT IT DOWN N KILL IT!!"
hahahaha

This is the path to maturity in the chionging world if you wanna experience it....
FLs are boring dude....to me that is!

There's a very common saying in the saying, believe or not its up to you...remember, its the other side of midnite!!!!

“夜场的人都是鬼，要找真的就像中马票！”

[ss_revup]

Bro TS..

In my opinion, i think its only right n natural to chiong as and when u like it.. especially when u have the urges.. the feeling of bonking a FL just can't compare with PCC.. haha.. the numbers of FLs out there are so large.. U just can't finish them all

As for the $$$ part, my suggestion is that u should work hard to earn more $$.. then u can chiong even more and splurge on the high end FLs..

Have fun and keep the chionging spirit alive...

[kenneth21]

thanks for all your feedbacks, realised there are at least some who feel the same way. to bro ss_revup, yes i am trying to make more money. in fact i believe everyone is. And i can tell you if i do strike toto and win 500k, i will definately book some high end girls to try. but fact that is, its damn diffcult to strike toto.

And to bro DO_YOU_BJ,
yes i understand that FL is boring because it lacks the thrill of having to sian the girl yourself + you might not even get the right chemistry with the FL at all.

But do remember that, to sian a girl requires lots of effort + time + some amt of money. Which i can't really afford the time to do so.

So, afterall best way is to just pay and go. chop chop within 1 hour, everything settled.

[cumshot4u]

Dear TS,
U are not alone. In my opinion, 9 out of 10 average income earner feel the same way as u do. For a start, try to frequent less on FLs and eventually see if u can quit it completely. I know that talk is cheap but u need to start somewhere. Good luck

[cmelater]

I have that sort of feeling too. I pcc once a day, prob like over 4 days of a week. All guys need some form of relief. It feels better. Then, sometimes, I don't pcc at all. Occasionally, I go for a fl.

I definitely agree with the guys here. The feeling of emptiness after the 90 minutes is just haunting. But, what to do... Find gf, also no promises one. Gal can ditch you anytime. I also realise that if u can't find, it will only get harder as one gets older.

Bedding a gal vs pcc is just different. With the gal, at least u feel that connection with the gal. If dun get married, still will need some of those fl to help release a bit.

[Boliaoz]

I do agree with u, albeit partially. I do feel the emptiness inside after a night out at KTV with all the interaction and flirting with the KTV chicks. But I do find that masturbation and sex aren't the same in terms of sexual satisfaction. Its like comparing a tour to Disneyland to watching a documentary on disneyland. After PCC， the sexual urge still lingers but a good session with a FL can keep me from thinking of sex for at least a few days.

[paul^bibi^baby]

Kenneth21 bro, u are not alone !

for little me, i have lost count the amount of vit M, number of WLs i have bonked within this little time span of like 1 yr plus ? no matter how pretty the they are, how good she treats u, how good that bonk is, at the back of my head i will think that it's jus a trade. i guess that explains the emptiness we feel after each session, reality kicks in as our big heads jus knows wats best for us.

i do admit that the excitement and lust is there, especially when getting a bonk is jus as easy as flagging ur cash and sealing the deal. There's a point of time where i kenna the KC trap and really die until jia liat jia liat. But no one's to blame for that as it takes 2 hands to clap.

masturbate and having s3x although is about "releasing", it is releasing through different levels. masturbate IMHO is about fantasy whereas the most u could do is watch p0rn and picture the scene in ur mind, u are still alone emotionally. Releasing through s3x is totally another level, more of an emotional fulfillment i guess.

regarding about getting high end FLs for couple of hundreds or more for a session or overnight stay, i'm over that period(well at least for now). i always keep my bonks around the hundred range as tat is as far as i can afford for now.

I personally think(no offense) that earning much it not a solution of the problems. There is always a way to spend or earn more money. Even if u earn more, there are hundreds of other ways to spend it. I could suggest to get an emotional comfort, doesn't have to be a gf. Maybe some other stuffs to keep ur mind occupied or something.

Do not get me wrong here, i luv bonking and i've a really high s3x drive. Most of the time i bonked too much for my own good. Try to sit down and think about it, lessen the number of bonks per month if it's killing your pocket. The last thing u would ever wan to do is to save up on ur meals or daily expenses jus for the sake of bonking.

Jus my 2 cents though. My mindset is, Life is short, live it to the fullest ! Try out as much things as u wan when u still can, if not when do u wan to try ? And to all the chiongster bros, bonk with no regrets ~!

Cheers,
Paul

[cheongsan]

This is a good thread because it is about sharing abashfully what's troubling you and humbly seeking others' opinions. I see many sincere opinions from fellow brothers here too.

Your frustration stemmed from the fact that you "squandered" all your hard-earned money for short-lived pleasurable moments instead of wisely using the money for "more important things in life".

Like what the brothers here have advised you to think and do: focus on making more surplus money and the frustration will lessen. It's an inverse relationship if I can remember my mathematics correctly.

Exercising some self-control may also help so that the money is well-spent on mostly quality fucks.

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by kenneth21

And i can tell you if i do strike toto and win 500k, i will definately book some high end girls to try. but fact that is, its damn diffcult to strike toto.

And to bro DO_YOU_BJ,
yes i understand that FL is boring because it lacks the thrill of having to sian the girl yourself + you might not even get the right chemistry with the FL at all.

But do remember that, to sian a girl requires lots of effort + time + some amt of money. Which i can't really afford the time to do so.

Dude, read your reply.
The time will come when to taste the forbidden fruit & then comment.
Based on your nick and what you post, can roughly tell your age group.
Not an argument here, but one day, you'll look back & remember this post & bang, u'll knock yourself & say that boliao guy in sammy boy was rite.....
The cycle is the same, only when it dawn on you only...cheers and have fun dude.

[ekemono]

Ts, I can understand how you felt and my sentiments exactly.
After these few years of fun, I am beginning to feel bored about it. No doubt a curvy sexy WL still turns me on but the fun is short lived. But I guess it was meant to be these way cos otherwise I would have fallen into the pitless hole of KC trap.

Those WL have nothing more to offer other than a fuck and forget session, even in a RTF situation. Now only the conversations hold better.

TS, you were fortunate you still have a clear piece of mind. Some fellows, longing for companionship, tries to seek them in a countless RTF session with a particular WL or FL, hoping that his "support" and time spent with her will somehow develop some kind of a relationship there. And bros here are pretty familiair with thier deadly KC trap, so both factors paired up pretty easily and another victim is claim.

For my case now, I have tone down my visits, partly also due to rising cost. And at times allocate the time and resources to date gals out, non Fl la...
Even though no hanky panky act, the outings was so much memorable. Hopefully she is the one