Girl in the room, but cant close the deal

[scottFT]

Hi Guys,

I have been in this situation a few times I think now. Everyone know the hardest part is to bring the girl back into either your hotel room/ or your bedroom. But what I have realised that its not a given that she will sleep with you.

An example was what happen 2 days ago. Long story short, I was at a conference and staying in the same hotel as one of the participants. We have been flirting on the chats for a couple of weeks now and I took the chance to ask her up to my room after dinner.

I took things easy, and even ordered a bottle of wine to ease the tension. Once she was comfortable, lying on the bed while watching tv, I took the cue to slightly inch towards her and kiss her. No rejection, she was happy to kiss me back, and in fact was kinda aggressively kissing me back.

Not wanting to rush, I kiss her for at least 2-3 mins before attempting to roam my hands down south.. and that's when I was stopped. A tired a few times, but didn't want to push the boundaries and left it as it is. We continue kissing and making out, she invited me over to her room, asking for me to sleep with her, but I cant seem to go beyond 2nd base.

She has a BF of course, and she knows I have a girlfriend too.. I just feel like I am missing some magic line, magic move to give her an excuse to sleep with me.

Any charming word of advise from the experts here

[phantomboyz]

Lucky lor. Better fuck in own place rather than in other party's place. You wouldn't know what scam/trap laid behind.

[Keima]

You second base her until she tio horny wanna fuck lor. Plenty of techniques for through underwear seduction, trick is to not let her cum and make her frustrated.

[faintz]

TS you tried only normal kissing ? Have you tried frenching with her ?

[scottFT]

yea of course French kiss la..

[whitegals]

Originally Posted by scottFT

Not wanting to rush, I kiss her for at least 2-3 mins before attempting to roam my hands down south.. and that's when I was stopped. A tired a few times, but didn't want to push the boundaries and left it as it is. We continue kissing and making out, she invited me over to her room, asking for me to sleep with her, but I cant seem to go beyond 2nd base.

Don't go down south straight away, play with her hair, gently caress her face and neck, kiss her neck and lick her ears, play it slow, before long, she'll get so horny she'll be grabbing your hands and putting them where she likes to be touched.

[Jiaobin]

Foreplay bro will get u somewhere i hope

[loneyheart]

mayb yr foreplay is not enough n not reach her G Spot yet or u play t wrong music n make t wrong move

[darkhorse]

Wait a sec... Let's get more information to analyse this case. . You got to second base right? This is second base on top of her clothes or were you already fondling her bare breasts?

[PrinceCharles]

Originally Posted by whitegals

Don't go down south straight away, play with her hair, gently caress her face and neck, kiss her neck and lick her ears, play it slow, before long, she'll get so horny she'll be grabbing your hands and putting them where she likes to be touched.

Spoken like an expert bro

[maxman]

Originally Posted by scottFT

Hi Guys,

I have been in this situation a few times I think now. Everyone know the hardest part is to bring the girl back into either your hotel room/ or your bedroom. But what I have realised that its not a given that she will sleep with you.

Any charming word of advise from the experts here

I have no charming word of advice for you, but only to say it does happen and has happened to me as well. A cute Asian girl suggested going to relax in a hotel room. In the room, she stripped off her top, showed me her ample boobs, let me fondle them, but very disappointingly did not want to go any further even though I offered to go buy condoms. After that incident, she was reluctant to meet and never met again. I did not understand what was going on in her mind.

[clapton]

To me the answer is not enough foreplay luo.

2-3 mins kiss and down south straight? Did you play her boobs? If your attempt was rejected, try to play other area like neck, ear, boobs, until the girl feel more comfortable to go further.

I think you have quite high chance as she invite you go to her room.

Everyone is mature adult, she be in same room as you then she at least somehow know what will happen and prepared for it lar.

When I younger time, I also have similar encounter luo. The worst is I even entered already.. but then rejected... Think back, foreplay not enough and too dry... so girl not happy liao, then don't do luo...

[winterboi]

Aim to please her.. don't go into the room thinking that sex is the deal. please her sexually.

Foreplay, foreplay guys. Imagine if you go on a massage and realised that the therapist did not give you enough attention on your body areas like neck, your hand, your back and keep on pressing on the same area (in this case, say the vagina and stuff). You won't feel happy and relax with the session.

I suggest newbies should go on a massage session and you will know what i mean. Imagine the therapist as yourself, if your therapist can make you relaxed and slightly aroused throughout the session, you should be able to realised that these are the areas you can focus on your lady instead.

Take your time, don't go laser beam or anything. Woman likes it slow. Endure even if your dick is swelling hard, even when she says she's ok. Aim for least 15-30 minutes of foreplay, just play kisses, touches, licks, be playful and engage with her with small talks. That will make the whole session even more impact than just SOP sex.

Going for pros is to release, but going with a lady (mind you, a lady) is to make her enjoy before she make your day.

Aim to please, do customer service.

[forumer]

i never aim to screw the gal... just tease her all the way then stop. But ironically most times I end up screwing the gal... with them wanting it more than I do...

[Vanda]

No offense but if i were you i would not touch other girls with boyfriends. Sorry to be wet blanket.