What will you do if your wife refuse sex with you?

[A1406]

Hi Bros

I am facing this situation that my wife refuse sex or if she need then approach me. We are on good term but once this issue being brought up it will end up she not happy. She just reject by saying next time lah, tmr lah or tired lah.
Now, what will you guys do? Eat out? Find FB?
sisters, out there can also comment.

[kaorusama]

sit down and have a chat with her? do u both have kids?

[A1406]

Originally Posted by kaorusama

sit down and have a chat with her? do u both have kids?

Yes have kid. Talk it do not work. She is the kind that if she interested she will do it and not interested talk till cows come home also no use.

[hhlover]

Simple.. wank off urself.. next time she wan u dun give lo..

[ZapHim2Negative]

TS

Zap her to negative

[mongkokdog]

so easy ma! KFC is everywhere!

[Killala]

Originally Posted by A1406

Hi Bros

I am facing this situation that my wife refuse sex or if she need then approach me. We are on good term but once this issue being brought up it will end up she not happy. She just reject by saying next time lah, tmr lah or tired lah.
Now, what will you guys do? Eat out? Find FB?
sisters, out there can also comment.

TS no.1 reason why relationship fails is becus couples do not communicate well enough. Make sure u keep up with her daily life, find out what she wants, ,maybe u just need to buy gifts to make her happy? then will have sex lo.
Otherwise, if she refuse to have with you almost all the time, might be she hiding something from you.
Lastly, don't base your married lives all on sex, it'll ruin your relationship 90% of the time. Just because u don't get sex does not mean u have to cheat, i'm sure there's more than that in marriage.

Final note: she might be cheating,don't quote me and anyhow jump to conclusion

[FunnyHippo]

Tiagong this is one of the many reason men jiak outside.
Lately there was a research which provided stats that women in Singapore are not having enough sex.
Some have gone to the extend of self pleasure.
Maybe u are not good at bed?

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by A1406

Hi Bros

I am facing this situation that my wife refuse sex or if she need then approach me. We are on good term but once this issue being brought up it will end up she not happy. She just reject by saying next time lah, tmr lah or tired lah.
Now, what will you guys do? Eat out? Find FB?
sisters, out there can also comment.

Once you've had a kid or two, wives become mothers. They aren't designed for sex anymore. Most become flabby, ugly and loose anyway so I'm surprised you're even interested in her sexually unless she's a rare exception.

That is why the government legalised the sex industry which provides a much needed social service for which there is alway high demand.

[MoJoe313]

Originally Posted by A1406

Yes have kid. Talk it do not work. She is the kind that if she interested she will do it and not interested talk till cows come home also no use.

After having a child, a woman's libido drops. Likely because of the child. Try to imagine yourself in your most intense moment at work. Sex is the last thing on your mind. A mother is 24/7 at work over her child and her family. Worse if she has a job outside too.

Try to alleviate her worries. Get involved in your kid, invest in a maid to do the housework. It is really not going to work if you just lie there expecting sex by persuading verbally. Many bros here have been there before.

I have many kids and still date my wife at least once every week. Sex life is good. It is an important function to have in a happy marriage.

The last thing you should do is eat outside. You should know how our Woman's Charter work. You lose your kid even if she cheats. If she catches you, hallelujah to you.

[bababoo]

Originally Posted by MoJoe313

Try to alleviate her worries. Get involved in your kid, invest in a maid to do the housework. It is really not going to work if you just lie there expecting sex by persuading verbally. Many bros here have been there before.

Well said. totally agree.

[TimeAndTide]

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

That is why the government legalised the sex industry which provides a much needed social service for which there is alway high demand.

And that is why Sam Leong created sbf which provides a much needed forum for him to milk money off this demand

[dreamlover2010]

It can mean she's simply not interested being having sex anymore.

Or it could also mean there could be another guy outside.

On your part you need to groom yourself up. Trim away the tummy inches. Go for that regular haircut and improve your wardrobe. Get a fashionable upgrade. Be romantic. Be desirable.

Bring the family out more often. And whenever possible spend time with your wife alone see movies, eat at her favourite stalls, hold her hands, make her feel good to be with you again.

Give her kisses several times a day. Long ones and short ones too. On her lips. On her neck. Hug her now and then. Squeeze her breasts. Caress her.

And when the chance comes, make sure you screw her well until her juices come out. Many times the fingers work better than the cock. And certainly can tahan longer. A combination works really well. Screw her like she was never screwed before. Then she will really miss you.

[retsmas]

Originally Posted by A1406

Hi Bros

I am facing this situation that my wife refuse sex or if she need then approach me. We are on good term but once this issue being brought up it will end up she not happy. She just reject by saying next time lah, tmr lah or tired lah.
Now, what will you guys do? Eat out? Find FB?
sisters, out there can also comment.

Bro,
U r fortunate liao. My situation worst.
my wifey dont even initiate. 95 percent of the time I secretly watch porn at night and jerk off. Only 5 percent I initiate sex and do with a piece of dead meat.

[IwantbustyKim]

Adopt Islam as a religion (If you are both not already Muslim) and then you can "request" for sex anytime. Even violently if the need arises cos there is no Rape in Islam.

http://www.themalaymailonline.com/ma...-rape-campaign