Wife / Couple Swapping Club

[swinger38]

Hi All,

As I read in the forum, I can see there are some couples who are open to swinging and it's so envious. I do believe there are many bros whom hopes to make it real for themselves to spice up their marriage / couple sex life. This has always been a challenge as our other half is not so open to such suggestions and its so hard to convince them into it.

I realized the truth is they do also have the desire but just don't feel it's right or the right guy did not come along. The purpose of starting this club is to find like minded bros whom are willing to share their spouses but just don't know how to start them into this game.

This is also a place where we can share the FR on each other's wives provided permission has been granted. Our wives might not even know that we know they are flirting around.

This will be a place where we can "create" the ideal flirting partner for our wives. Some of the ideas include:
1. Create the perfect opportunity for the guy to know our wives without us being around. Sometimes they dont dare to flirt around because they are afraid the guy knows their social circle and feels safer with a complete stranger.
2. There are times when our wives are more vulnerable or playful and we can ask the guy to make their moves, e.g when we are going to have a late night and we know they are bored at home alone and waiting for someone to ask them out.
3. Let the guy know how to make his moves , e.g how to turn her on and which parts arouses her most.

We also welcome those bros who have current FB in others wives / gfs as they are already in it and it will be so much easier to share or get them to open up to other guys.

For those who think I'm sick in the mind, please keep your comments to yourself. This club is open to those who shares my thoughts or have better ideas to spice up the sex life with their other halves.

[residentgood]

Mostly Americans swapping their wives very common in USA but s,pore hmm' I doubt maybe very few.

[spencer12]

My wife have never been with another man before and i developed a fetish of watching her have sex with another man. to make story short, we have agreed to do it.

Now im thinking how to make it happen and keep it very private.

[spencer12]

my wife have never been with another man before and i have developed a fetish of watching her have sex with another man. to make story short, we have agreed to do it.

Now i am thinking how to make it happen and keep it very private

[chnhubby71]

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[Poppycock6989]

Don't bring Wife can join bo? PM me if service required

[devilslayer]

Well said TS ... Totally agree . Pls count mi in if there is an event like that ... Hoping & waiting for more event to come ...

[swinger38]

Thanks for the feedback.

Let me share how I intend to start this off.

For those who are interested, you could perhaps express your interest here and I will try to consolidate a list. You could perhaps PM me and I will consolidate.

A brief introduction on the current situation between you and your other half will be helpful as all of us are at different stages in this arrangement. Some have already started swinging, some have agreed but yet to do anything, while some do not even know how to start.

I do have a few ideas on how we can spice it up and encourage our spouses indirectly/ directly.

I hope those who are interested shares my thoughts on this and its not just about coming here to get free bonks. Its important that all who are here shows respect and courtesy towards each other's spouses.

[swinger38]

As I have noticed, most of our spouses have their own temptations and perhaps maybe even have flings out there. They do not feel so comfortable telling us in fear that we might disagree and they also prefer a total stranger or at least we do not know the guy.

I have a few plans.
- once we have indentified the suitable bro here, we will hand them our spouse contact and "guide " them on how to know our spouse on their own. It could be we can inform them where our spouse will be and this create the opportunity for them to know each other.
- the rest have to be left up to the guy to be able to interest her and we can guide him along.
- we can also send sex stories email to her to get her into the whole mood of cheating, especially before she meets the guy.
- we can also notify the guy to ask her out on days when we know she will be alone as we are having a late night.

Perhaps you guys can contribute more ideas . As you can see, idea is to lap ice things up and sex might not definitely be on the menu but arousal is definite.

[peppermint]

I would like a gentleman to sian my wife, and i will tell him about her personality, what are the turn ons and offs, and how to make the move, what to expect and how to sure eat. She is proper but like any other women, enjoys sex. As long as it doesnt affect the r/sand and it is just lust and an enjoyment, I dont see why mature and understanding couples shouldn't be able to venture into this. Any nice middle age gentleman interested ? It should be both ways hopefully. Discuss here or pm me for discussion. cheers.

[swinger38]

I have received several PMs and maybe I can further clarify my intentions of this thread.

It meant more for like minded bros who wants to arrange it for their spouse to be with another guy secretly. When they do not know that we are aware, they tend to be more open to it.
This could help those whose spouse is conservative and you like to see how far she will go.
It could also apply to those whom are already into swinging and wish to just sit one side to see their partners alone with another guy.

As I have mentioned , I hope those who joins are in the spirit of creating eroticism in their relationships and not just into bonking. The arrangement might not even lead into sex eventually as the flirting and seduction could be more arousing. As for those who wants to arrange a direct meetup in hotel rooms, I believe there are already several threads created for swinging.

Apologies for I really did not know how to name this thread. Perhaps some suggestions could help.

One again, my intention is to find one to know my wife and I will guide him on how to ask her out and let the whole episode progress from there. She will not know that I had arranged all these at all so that she can just let loose and have fun. That's provided the guy knows how to turn her on and strike at the right moment. All these will be possible with insider tips from me.

Likewise, I will like to participate in someone's elses game if they seem me fit for the role.

Just a short intro. Me and my wife are both in mid 30 and in reasonable good shape, especially her.

I do welcome suggestions on the arrangements and for those interested to take on the task of hitting on my wife, please PM me. For your info, she's 1.65m and prefers those who are at least same height. No offense to anyone. What turns her on is a eloquent gentleman who does not rush into sex but touches her in the right areas and leads her on. I would think those who are same age or older will stand a better chance.

Hope to hear feedbacks soon.

Happy Vesak Day.....and a great long weekend.

[micmac888]

Originally Posted by chnhubby71

There are many couples whom wanted to explore into swinging but do not know how to handle the situation at times.

And at times we even arrange to meet up but the atmosphere and the attitude of some might not suit all of us to enter into swing.

It will be great to start off like friendship to meet for drinks and chat to get to know each others before entering into the game to make everyone feel at ease to enter the game.

I personally do met many GREAT Couples and had enter into swing with some. And most important thing is to be able to make everyone relax and feel free to open up to chat before rushing into the SEX game.
This can really make them comfortable to trust each others to enter into the game without any hassle and worries.

This will be a GREAT start bro. And hope just call it Swing Friend Meet up without force and obligation to enter. hahaha

fully support this post and this thread (if it does turn out as intentioned).

[swinger38]

Seeing all this responses, I guess we do have enough people for a party. Let me start the party rolling. For those who are interested to hook up with my wife, do PM me as let's have a short chat before proceeding. As I have noticed , every one has a different fantasy and arrangement to fulfill it. Here's how I plan to make it happen.

As my wife is still conservative about it although we have spoken about it, I will have to arrange this without her knowing. She will feel more at ease if she does not know that I'm aware. I will guide you to get to know her and the rest is dependent on how good you are but you can assured I will surely good you Ye best tips on how to arouse her. For those interested, do let me know.

As for those who's interested to include me in your fantasy planning if your spouse is conservative, do let me know too. We might be able to help each other out.

as for couples, We might be able to do a meet up but will need some planning as I can't let my wife know the real reason for meeting up. Will just need to come up with some other reasons.

So all can see who are the interested parties in the thread and let the party begin and feel free to contact anyone who might need help spicing up their sex lives.

This club has a few main principles to obey.
1. Respect each other spouses and no violence can be tolerated.
2. Not every arrangement must lead to sex as flirting can be arousing enough for some .
3. This club's purpose is not to do couple swapping directly as there are many threads which does that but more to help each other fulfill their fantasies in their different ways.

[PowerfulSmurf]

hi bro,

I read with great interests your ideas about this so called club.

I am interested in your proposal, and i guess anything can happen and we just go with the flow.

Of course rules and boundaries should be set before hand, and we must all be respectful towards each others.

Maybe to start it off and make things simple, we can easily set up a Facebook profile, or ask everyone in the group to set up one.

It be a private group, so either a few moderator can have the email and password or yourself only. And of course nobody is able to search for us unless we decided to add them etc since it's a private account.

Or maybe a delphi or yahoo forum, which seems to have a few long ago, but wasn't really active.

And of course for those not comfy with the real life facebook account being involved, they can set up a alternative one, with a nickname, profile pic is not photos of themself to keep a low profile in case its being spotted, but within their profile some basic infos ,phsysical shape and size, likes and dislikes, and maybe some clean pic.

These are my thoughts and suggestion.

Should be more of a fantasy group, rather than a outright swinger group?

Each of us have some evil thoughts and fantasy isn't it..

Let's make it all come true.

[micmac888]

This thread is gonna be golden! Count me in. If there be a remote private forum for this clique. Let me know pls.