sentimental bonking? or lifetime commitment?

[muscleboi]

With the increasingly high cost of living in Singapore, will you still consider marrying? Or will you just ons / pcc / fl all the way till you are old?

I think every bro knows the pros of getting married and staying single so I shall just state the cons..

cons of getting married:
1) hdb loan - risk of getting heavily in debt and if you are out of job, there's almost no chance you can clear the debts

2) child expenses - if you calculate the total cost up till you send your child to college, the expenses are enormous. we will not know how much will that be in future but it will definitely be higher than the current cost because of inflation.

If you add the above two together, just having a normal day job will sink you into the depths of debt once you get married and have kids.

cons of staying single:
1) no kids to look after you - if you look at statistics, apparently many grown up kids are sending their parents to nursing homes (especially after the encouragement from the government...) so I wonder if that con still stand.

2) no permanent sex partner - though some bros are married, most are complaining not having enough and want variety. since getting married risk us becoming nuns and monks, why bother taking such a risk?

as long as we take the necessary precautions, hiring FLs may not be as bad as it seems...agree?

I think just hiring FL and be sentimental on bed (with lovey dovey words like "i love you") for that one session and after that, forget about everything and carry on with life..isnt it more low costing??

bros, enlighten me with your opinions..

[LovePotion]

Originally Posted by muscleboi

With the increasingly high cost of living in Singapore, will you still consider marrying? Or will you just ons / pcc / fl all the way till you are old?

I think every bro knows the pros of getting married and staying single so I shall just state the cons..

cons of getting married:
1) hdb loan - risk of getting heavily in debt and if you are out of job, there's almost no chance you can clear the debts

2) child expenses - if you calculate the total cost up till you send your child to college, the expenses are enormous. we will not know how much will that be in future but it will definitely be higher than the current cost because of inflation.

If you add the above two together, just having a normal day job will sink you into the depths of debt once you get married and have kids.

cons of staying single:
1) no kids to look after you - if you look at statistics, apparently many grown up kids are sending their parents to nursing homes (especially after the encouragement from the government...) so I wonder if that con still stand.

2) no permanent sex partner - though some bros are married, most are complaining not having enough and want variety. since getting married risk us becoming nuns and monks, why bother taking such a risk?

as long as we take the necessary precautions, hiring FLs may not be as bad as it seems...agree?

I think just hiring FL and be sentimental on bed (with lovey dovey words like "i love you") for that one session and after that, forget about everything and carry on with life..isnt it more low costing??

bros, enlighten me with your opinions..

hmmm.. from how i see you portray the difference between staying single + bonking all the way and settling down + getting married...

its like saying, you gonna die 1 day... be it cancer / accident / coma / old age / poison... might as well pia all the girls raw to be shiok??

1 life, live it !

[muscleboi]

Originally Posted by LovePotion

hmmm.. from how i see you portray the difference between staying single + bonking all the way and settling down + getting married...

its like saying, you gonna die 1 day... be it cancer / accident / coma / old age / poison... might as well pia all the girls raw to be shiok??

1 life, live it !

NO WAY! RAW IS WAR! that's one pro of having a wife...can f raw. FL cannot!!!

[BiRd13]

Haha... Many pros and cons between single and marriage life...

For marriage, you can bonk without paying a single cent to the party (Ok... Maybe those monthly allowance but usually used for household stuff)

For marriage, you can bonk her anytime you feel like, without needed to go down to the hotel, or even surf around to find FL

[muscleboi]

Originally Posted by BiRd13

Haha... Many pros and cons between single and marriage life...

For marriage, you can bonk without paying a single cent to the party (Ok... Maybe those monthly allowance but usually used for household stuff)

For marriage, you can bonk her anytime you feel like, without needed to go down to the hotel, or even surf around to find FL

Bro, having a wife is lifetime payment. there's a joke about a boy asking his father how much is he paying to sustain the whole family. and the answer? "I'm not sure son because I'm still paying"

Bro, I dont think you can bonk anytime you feel like..what can you do if your wife say "I'm tired" "I'm not interested" "Why must you always be so horny?" "Your mind has nothing else but sex" "Are you done already? I want to watch TV"

I do agree marriage has its perks. You can do RAW without fear of STDs. But you have another fear: getting her pregnant again. if the cons far outweigh the pros, paid sex is much better..

[sundial]

cons of getting married:
1) hdb loan - risk of getting heavily in debt and if you are out of job, there's almost no chance you can clear the debts

>> as long as you built up enough in your CPF to pay off the loan should be fine. Keep at least 2 years worth of monthly installment should be ok if case you lose ur job

2) child expenses - if you calculate the total cost up till you send your child to college, the expenses are enormous. we will not know how much will that be in future but it will definitely be higher than the current cost because of inflation.

>> they cost as much as a ferrari if give them the best....

cons of staying single:
1) no kids to look after you - if you look at statistics, apparently many grown up kids are sending their parents to nursing homes (especially after the encouragement from the government...) so I wonder if that con still stand.

>> forget it. They will be busy with their family. Best to be self-sufficient


2) no permanent sex partner - though some bros are married, most are complaining not having enough and want variety. since getting married risk us becoming nuns and monks, why bother taking such a risk?

>> married does not meant good sex life. Look at the number of ppl posting how much their married sex life sucks. but there is an alternative for release - WL

end of the day marriage is for companionship.

[nuclearkid]

Bro, if you are looking from a perspective strictly of finances and sex, getting married is a lousy return on investment. Only a small handful of couples keep going at it on a long term basis, most fizzle out within a couple of years. There is no shortage of anecdotal evidence in this forum.

Many get married to enjoy that emotional fulfillment with a meaningful other half, to have kids and to generally enjoy the warmth and unwavering support of a family. These are the people who will stick with you through good times and bad. It is a lifetime of commitment but its mutual.

If its really an issue about sex, getting married is really an inappropriate manner of getting it. One is really better off finding a FB with a mutual understanding or paying for it. Strictly from an expenditure angle, better to pay on a per use basis than keep paying even when not using? And if you are indeed gonna pay for it...do it the right way. Big brother is watching...

[muscleboi]

its really by chance if we ever meet someone good...take a look at the thread: http://thesbf.shop/showthread....260806&page=20 That bro made a good decision to divorce.

even married women can't resist the pleasure of huge dicks...I totally lost faith in marriage in this modern globalised society.

[EatPrayLove]

this is interesting...

from a female POV, if there is a choice, i would choose to be single rather than getting into marriage. simply because cost of living is really high and the fear of being cheated by husband is too much for me to bear.

but then again, all female craved for that sense of belong and fulfilment to have a complete family which they can call their own. not too sure if men felt the same?

[wolflust]

We are living in an intense paced society, gone were the days when wives are housewives. Everyone has equal opportunity and equal exposure to temptation. We are all stressed by work, by finances, etc.

If you are lucky enough to find someone who can accept who you are and that expectation stays, then perhaps marriage will last. There are those maintain their marriage even though there's no longer any love and the couple ate leading separate lives. The moment their children are independent, they go their separate ways.

People keep changing according to their circumstances, marriage has become harder to maintain.

[Iemanishere]

Ahyo, many brothers will tell you that u can never place the 2 together as the joys u find is sometimes more than word can say..


Well, there is a saying" do you want to die alone" or other die with many wife... He he... U think...

[sifr]

Originally Posted by muscleboi

With the increasingly high cost of living in Singapore, will you still consider marrying? Or will you just ons / pcc / fl all the way till you are old?

I think every bro knows the pros of getting married and staying single so I shall just state the cons..

cons of getting married:
1) hdb loan - risk of getting heavily in debt and if you are out of job, there's almost no chance you can clear the debts

2) child expenses - if you calculate the total cost up till you send your child to college, the expenses are enormous. we will not know how much will that be in future but it will definitely be higher than the current cost because of inflation.

If you add the above two together, just having a normal day job will sink you into the depths of debt once you get married and have kids.

cons of staying single:
1) no kids to look after you - if you look at statistics, apparently many grown up kids are sending their parents to nursing homes (especially after the encouragement from the government...) so I wonder if that con still stand.

2) no permanent sex partner - though some bros are married, most are complaining not having enough and want variety. since getting married risk us becoming nuns and monks, why bother taking such a risk?

as long as we take the necessary precautions, hiring FLs may not be as bad as it seems...agree?

I think just hiring FL and be sentimental on bed (with lovey dovey words like "i love you") for that one session and after that, forget about everything and carry on with life..isnt it more low costing??

bros, enlighten me with your opinions..

a true man knows that he needs a family , which comprises of his wife & children.

that's life.

but, if you look at it from a different angle , yes , no joke.
fucking the same woman for 10 years may get a lil boring .

but nobody's stopping you from getting FBs ` flings `ONS ` FLs .
am i right?

[muscleboi]

Originally Posted by EatPrayLove

this is interesting...

from a female POV, if there is a choice, i would choose to be single rather than getting into marriage. simply because cost of living is really high and the fear of being cheated by husband is too much for me to bear.

but then again, all female craved for that sense of belong and fulfilment to have a complete family which they can call their own. not too sure if men felt the same?

here's a lady who want a family and doesn't want her husband to cheat.

sis, if you don't want your husband to cheat, try giving him new surprises on bed every now and then. it takes two hands to clap. I hope your hubby reciprocates.

based on childless marriages, females will get a lot more advantages getting married.

Originally Posted by sifr

a true man knows that he needs a family , which comprises of his wife & children.

that's life.

but, if you look at it from a different angle , yes , no joke.
fucking the same woman for 10 years may get a lil boring .

but nobody's stopping you from getting FBs ` flings `ONS ` FLs .
am i right?

so bro, by using means of FL, Ons, Flings if we do not find enough in our marriage is cheating and the wives will not want you to do it. and what's more, if found guilty by court, the women's charter wins. we will then lose half the assets to go chiong.

being single and hiring fl is better. no need to get your assets cut..

[sgjoey]

At the bottomline, marriage is society's method of managing sexual desire as well as to raise the next generation.

It is crucial to note however that there is lots of evidence to show that this method is not as perfect as it seems. In fact, it is fraught with enough problems to indicate that it is actually a poor solution for the management of desires, but still a reasonably good way of raising children, if having children is what you want in the first place.

If I were to live my life all over again, I would think really hard before marrying and after the thinking, I probably wouldn't marry at all.

This is however easier said than done. From young, we have been indoctrinated with the idea of monogamy as the solution that leads to happily ever after. It is only with some experience in life that one realises that such happy endings are largely myths.

[joew2005]

hello muscleboi,don't agree with u.

even if u r not married,
> it doesn't mean u will not need 2 bother abt housing loans. if 1 hv slight diginity/pride, 1 shld not rely on yr parents or siblings on providing housing 4 u.
> u still hv other expenses tat can drain off yr $ like bringing up a child over the long run.

even if u r married,
> u shld never think & treat yr other half as a sex partner.
If u need a perm sex partner,go look 4 a fb or stick 2 the sma wl/fl.
1 way or the other, it would still cost u $.