How long did you guys take to break the hymen?

[xtremerz]

It seems awfully long for me to try to break my wife's hymen.
its still intact and I can't penetrate her after trying for a few days.



Would really appreciate if you guys could share tips with me.

[makemecum]

u mean yo wife a v...lucky u
in dis age and era n young kids doing the birds and bees...

[newyorker88]

Originally Posted by xtremerz

It seems awfully long for me to try to break my wife's hymen.
its still intact and I can't penetrate her after trying for a few days.



Would really appreciate if you guys could share tips with me.

make her comfortable, go slow, you can make it bit by bit.... It takes awhile. be patient.

[xtremerz]

she feels painful when every i put my dick there.

tried spreading the labia, but the whole thing seems covered.

[deadfish]

Originally Posted by xtremerz

she feels painful when every i put my dick there.

tried spreading the labia, but the whole thing seems covered.

Maybe your dick too big for her pussy ? That is why she feel pain.

[naturegreen]

I had a female friend who is having this problem too...... I think got to consult a doctor. There's a name for this difficulty for penetration.

[jimHSD]

hey bro, jus a suggestion.. u shld try to finger her 1st.. get her used to having an insertion into her vagina.. but u must get her wet, naturally or artificially.. else it wuld hurt as hell for her.. when she's used to one finger, then go on to two.. by which i presumed her hymen has alrdi been broken.. then try to gradually replace it with ur dick.. takes WAY more than a FEW sessions to get her used to intercourse..

aside from ur fingers, maybe u can try investing in a vibrator/dildo which u can use it later for more fun!

hope this humble piece of info helps as i been through it b4!

[markck]

Bro,

u ask your wife to ride on you sure break!

[8353]

Vaginismus Symptoms

Originally Posted by naturegreen

I had a female friend who is having this problem too...... I think got to consult a doctor. There's a name for this difficulty for penetration.

[jimHSD]

Originally Posted by naturegreen

I had a female friend who is having this problem too...... I think got to consult a doctor. There's a name for this difficulty for penetration.

The condition is known as vaginismus. There hasnt been any medical treatment for it till date except for psychological or physiological treatments.

Wikipedia

Vaginismus, sometimes anglicized vaginism is the German name for a condition which affects a woman's ability to engage in any form of vaginal penetration, including sexual intercourse, insertion of tampons, and the penetration involved in gynecological examinations. This is the result of a reflex of the pubococcygeus muscle, which is sometimes referred to as the "PC muscle". The reflex causes the muscles in the vagina to tense suddenly, which makes any kind of vaginal penetration—including sexual intercourse—painful or impossible.

Go read up more! U just have to be patient with your partner and make her feel relax!

[chowchowkeith]

Need my help??

[suhaimi6996]

Bro xtremerz,

maybe you like to consult a sexologist together with your wife.

If u need referral u can pm me

[Condrak]

bro xtremerz. i have the same problem before. but it should not be the that closed vagina disease altho 1 out of 10 gers suffer frm dis disease during childhood but from physical activities it will be opened. women suffering from such disease can only be cured by a kind of lotion under doctors prescription n in the first place u wun even c a hole there so moz prob it isnt that disease.

breaking the hymen just nid more frequent fingering n i wud suggest using lubricant if it stil dosent work. i suceeded upon the 2nd day wo lubricant thou. get into mood first. she nids to be wet moz imptly.

[Beal]

The tension and fear is causing her to involuntarily contract her muscles there to further tighten it. Each time you try and fail builds more fear in her from the pain, and increases her anxiety and tightening further, becoming a self fulfilling cycle when the next time you try again.

So if this is the cause, then you will have to make sure she is completely relaxed and thoroughly un-inhibited the next time you try.

One way to achieve this will be to get her drunk. You will have to get her half to 3/4 drunk, not dead drunk or she will have no reactions at all. Just drunk enough for you to notice there is a difference in her behaviour and speech. Do it slow, don't make her gulp down 2 -3 cans of beer or wine within 10 mins. Spend 1 to 2 hours drinking at a steady pace that she can handle.

When you think she is ready, no harm going for half can more or a glass more of wine ( may not be successful the first time you try and she gets totally drunk and passes out, you will have to gauge yourself ). Slowly caress and fondle her, will need to spend some time into it to get her thoroughly in the mood. You will be threading a fine line between getting and maintaining her arousal and preventing her from falling asleep, again, you will have to gauge yourself.

Slowly move into position and use your penis to fondle her vagina area, do not attempt to enter, just rubbing on the outside, up down her vagina exterior. Get her used to the prescence of a penis there and make sure she is still un-inhibited and relaxed. Do this for at least 5 minutes. Maximize all able avenues you can to continue to arouse her, mouth and hands overtime

It's time.

Up to you to decide if you are going straight in hard and fast or slow and easy. I went the way of slow and easy and managed to succeed on first attempt of using this method when 2 previous normal attempts failed. Advise against hard and fast, could seriously wake her up and cause her to develop phobia of intercourse which is going to be an even bigger problem. It helped that my ex was a non drinker and got drunk easily. I slowly gauged over 2 weeks and 3 mini drink sessions how much she can handle and selecting a wine that she liked before making my move. Don't get yourself drunk or drink too much yourself or you will have a hard time maintaining an erection while arousing her.

View this as an experience and suggestion, not professional opinion nor medical advise. If you tried this method and still can't work, may need to seek professional help. And don't let her know what you intend to do beforehand, or her subconscious may react for her even if she is drunk.

[markck]

Bro,

break hymen sure got pain. I know you love you wife but you just need to be a man and just push it in even if she complain pain cos once its broken if you are good you can make all the pain worth it with all the Os she is experiencing. Go for it bro!!!