A patron turned lover and hubby.

[Oceanlee]

The fact, Just finish my love fucking business with my PRC gal.
She is a beer promoter (young milf), and we have been together for a period of time.
As usual, I am the patrons whereas she is a meat to me. But along the
Tide, chemistry evolve and feeling was developed. To cut short the story,
I m kinda in a suituation fixed and screw up. Perhaps I need to stop all the trigger.
The fact she is sleeping soundly beside me and I m in ponder now.
The past 2 months, I dun have to even look after her finance mean.
This period, she have sort of glued to me, by daily reporting and calling me at least thrice. I have access to her finance anytime easily. I shall carry on later more. Well, actually I intend to cut-off, but she was like putting me in the centre of her life now. All devices and trails to spot her was trigger, but
I see that she have not crossed the line and I yet to find out any fault.

[ZtoAZ]

So what is the next? I didn't see the lover and hubby part here, just an ordinary MBA (?) affair lai

[waiwaiz]

the hubby is the next part.but now TS was pondering abt it.........

[aczeta76]

Old friend.. no wonder you have been quiet.. hope all is well

[hoA123]

as long as you are not KC'ed by her eh?

[teebs_darklord]

Ok, so what goes next? Are you her lover now and thinking whether to move on to becoming her hubby or wat?

[Oceanlee]

Quiet, as I am just a nobody. Still have much to learn from fellow esteem brudders here.

Originally Posted by aczeta76

Old friend.. no wonder you have been quiet.. hope all is well

The factor's that weigh-in actually was like, I dun even restrict anythg on her and she willingly report to me her daily affairs. Even her earning's and keep. At time's, as usual I will put some $$$ into her bag, but she will just return to me and insisted. Even small gift's I get for her...she will tell me not to buy it unless it's a NEED ... but not WANT. without failed, once knock off the day, she will call me or waited for me. At times, i will surprise her or "pre-appear", but never engage of her being at fault. Even get my beer-buddy to act out. (which she have no idea). Well, we still stock up her marketing at about 2x weekly and make love just like Normal couple and she is so used to call me "lao-gong" and share most of her happy,sad and sorrow with me... she will just share and she is "emotional" engaged unto me. (In normal case, I know .. this is about time for me to unplug and move on) above are just a small open of scene that I believe many have gone before than me.

Well, this was not the first time that such event happened to me. Rather, this is the One time, that I realli felt something when being together with her.
thus, I am in a fixed and screw up matters..... Nothing is free and when things look's too good, it probably is, sound right aint' it?

Each time i give her a cold-shoulder, she will feel miserable and tear's down. Or I just ignore her, she will react irrationally and even lost her sleep, not able to concentrate on her work's.

Therefore, its harder on my part ...... to be cont.

[Doriemus]

So bro, whats the issue? Camping...

[Mr_don_juan]

Originally Posted by Oceanlee

Quiet, as I am just a nobody. Still have much to learn from fellow esteem brudders here.



The factor's that weigh-in actually was like, I dun even restrict anythg on her and she willingly report to me her daily affairs. Even her earning's and keep. At time's, as usual I will put some $$$ into her bag, but she will just return to me and insisted. Even small gift's I get for her...she will tell me not to buy it unless it's a NEED ... but not WANT. without failed, once knock off the day, she will call me or waited for me. At times, i will surprise her or "pre-appear", but never engage of her being at fault. Even get my beer-buddy to act out. (which she have no idea). Well, we still stock up her marketing at about 2x weekly and make love just like Normal couple and she is so used to call me "lao-gong" and share most of her happy,sad and sorrow with me... she will just share and she is "emotional" engaged unto me. (In normal case, I know .. this is about time for me to unplug and move on) above are just a small open of scene that I believe many have gone before than me.

Well, this was not the first time that such event happened to me. Rather, this is the One time, that I realli felt something when being together with her.
thus, I am in a fixed and screw up matters..... Nothing is free and when things look's too good, it probably is, sound right aint' it?

Each time i give her a cold-shoulder, she will feel miserable and tear's down. Or I just ignore her, she will react irrationally and even lost her sleep, not able to concentrate on her work's.

Therefore, its harder on my part ...... to be cont.

Looks like she halfway disarming you with strategic weakness (playing the vulnerable victim with well-covered tracks especially you have reveal your feelings toward her. Logically, if you know nothing is for free you need to think very carefully, what is her intentions for being with you. Otherwise is a just another well played act to hit on your soft spots. Therefore, she have to prove time and time with extremely good behaviour, at the same time the investment both emotionally and finacially on the r/s should be 50-50 at all times before considering hubby or even a future with her. 2 months way way too short to see anything!

[Schenker]

Originally Posted by Oceanlee

The fact, Just finish my love fucking business with my PRC gal.

She is a beer promoter (young milf), and we have been together for a period of time.

If she's into late 20s, is she married in china?

Did she tell ever you that?

Originally Posted by Oceanlee

Each time i give her a cold-shoulder, she will feel miserable and tear's down. Or I just ignore her, she will react irrationally and even lost her sleep, not able to concentrate on her work's.

Therefore, its harder on my part ...... to be cont.

She maybe feeling genuine towards you. But she can also be "nice" to other patrons as well. Your beer buddies doesn't go to her place and test her everyday, so you really can't make a good judgment call on that.

You should ask yourself this qn. Will you ask her to quit if both of you developed into a deeper relationship? Or you actually doesn't mind abt her beer promoter job.

[goodpartner]

Life is just a matter of choices.

Other than her, what are options do you have now?
Or are you yearning for some r/s and settle down at this point in time?

If the sky-timing-ground-reasoning is there, things will just happen.

[Humanity]

Then u better find ways to distant yourself away from her. If not, she will threaten to end her life one day if u suddenly tell her that she's not suitable for u and u wanna leave her.

[JacqueMerlin]

Originally Posted by Oceanlee

The fact, Just finish my love fucking business with my PRC gal.
She is a beer promoter (young milf), and we have been together for a period of time.
As usual, I am the patrons whereas she is a meat to me. But along the
Tide, chemistry evolve and feeling was developed. To cut short the story,
I m kinda in a suituation fixed and screw up. Perhaps I need to stop all the trigger.
The fact she is sleeping soundly beside me and I m in ponder now.
The past 2 months, I dun have to even look after her finance mean.
This period, she have sort of glued to me, by daily reporting and calling me at least thrice. I have access to her finance anytime easily. I shall carry on later more. Well, actually I intend to cut-off, but she was like putting me in the centre of her life now. All devices and trails to spot her was trigger, but
I see that she have not crossed the line and I yet to find out any fault.

The trees in the woods are plenty.
I will suggest that you cut off all contacts with her. Move on bro... You will always have another woman whom you will feel something for again.

[joew2005]

日久见人心 ..... only time will tell !!!
irregardless of her nationality & profession,it's her own behaviour tat will tell wat type of person she is.
sg women also hv veri veri good 1s,likewise there r also many lousy & lazy sg women out there.

[peekaboo]

like what bro joew2005 say ... time will tell ... u still did not see the bad side of the ger.